On November 17, 1992, Lu Yao, the winner of the Mao Dun Literature Prize for famous contemporary writers, died of illness at the age of 42. More than twenty years later, people still miss him and talk about his work, which is a writer's highest honor. His novel "Ordinary World" is the pearl of the Mao Dun Literature Award, and it is the courage and guiding light for all humble characters to move forward.
Today, let's talk about He Xiulian, Sun Shao'an's Shanxi aunt. After Sun Shao'an and Tian Runye completely lost their drama, they went on a blind date in Shanxi, and the object was He Xiulian, a relative of the second mother's family. This stupid girl actually fell in love with Sun Shao'an at first sight, even if Sun Shao'an didn't have her in her heart, she also said that her family was very poor and didn't want her to go back and suffer. But the girl who loves the brain can't listen to the advice, and this Shanxi girl didn't ask for a bride price and followed Sun Shaoan back to Shuangshui Village. Marry far away, don't have a bride price, and be bent on men, if in real life, such a stupid girl will be broken by her parents every minute. Besides, are there still fewer couples who fall out because of the bride price this year? I don't know how many lifetimes Sun Shao'an has cultivated the blessings of several lifetimes in order to marry such a good Shanxi aunt.
Although Sun Shao'an and his sweetheart Tian Runye have no drama, they are both green plum bamboo horses and each other's first love, how can this feeling be so easy to break? This is not, on the day of Sun Shaoan and Xiulian's wedding, Tian Runye suddenly came, she did not come to congratulate, but to cut off Hu, but also said that she was engaged to other men for her father's work, the person she loved in her heart has always been Shao Ange, she believes that Sun Shaoan also loves her, of course, the two finally formed a brother and sister, this plot is familiar, dog blood is not? At that time, everyone's attention was on these two people, and no one noticed how embarrassed the bride Xiulian was, let alone the pain in her heart.
Sun Shaoan's approach we can't say wrong, but he didn't handle the problem from Xiulian's position, and Sun Shaoan didn't explain it afterwards, this is a common disease of men, when he doesn't love you, all your feelings are not within his consideration. After Tian Runye left, Sun Shaoan still ran away after the car he left, and when his younger brother Shaoping scolded him for being cowardly and incompetent, he said: "Not everything in this world can be what you love and me, and I don't want Runye to go home with me as a farmer to farm and live a lifetime in this rotten situation." At this moment, Sun Shaoan said what was in his heart, he loved Tian Runye, for his newlywed wife He Xiulian, I am afraid that he had long been left behind, and many netizens in the bullet screen also brushed the screen: heartache Xiulian, marry a man who does not love her, how much Xiulian loves you, will endure you like this... It can be seen how indignant everyone is, since they are married, they should put down their ex, treat their wives well, and live a good little life, which Sun Shaoan seems to be somewhat indecisive.
Marrying someone who doesn't love yourself is more wronged than that. Because even if you are good to him, people may not understand it, and they will blame you for being troublesome. At that time, it was common to be short of food and not enough to eat, not to mention the sun family, which was still destitute. In addition to Sun Shaoping, who went out to work, and Wang Manyin, a brother-in-law who had nothing to do, there were several mouths waiting to eat at home. He Xiulian, who is obsessed with Sun Shao'an, whenever she goes to dinner, she ignores the rest of the family, always deliberately gives thick paste and white noodle steamed buns to Shao'an to eat, originally eats less, Xiulian did not do very hidden, Shao'an found out at a glance, and her grandmother's father and sister naturally saw it. Although everyone didn't say anything, Shao An himself was very unhappy, and he was a little disgusted by Xiulian's practice. When I came back in the house at night, I began to lose my temper, which means that you did this to me and let the rest of the family see us, and to do so is not filial piety, unrighteousness, and unkindness. In Xiulian's view, Shao'an is very tired from working every day, and he is the pillar of the family, and he must eat more. The couple quarreled many times because of such differences, but Xiulian still did it.
Xiulian suffered a lot with Sun Shao'an, and she didn't ask for anything, she wanted to split up her family and live in a new kiln. But what she didn't expect was that Shao An was a macho, he thought that his family should live together, and he never had the idea of being too homely. So as soon as Xiulian mentioned this, he was instantly angry and scolded Xiulian. But he also did not want, they have been married for so many years, have been sleeping in the livestock shed, is a woman can not stand, before poor, Xiulian is not good to open this mouth, but these years, she in order to be able to change a new to live, every day early out and late return, dare not buy new clothes, do not dare to buy anything, is to save more money. Now, a few years have passed, the family can finally eat white noodle steamed buns, but Sun Shaoan is only thinking about hooping the new brick kiln, and even prefers to lend money to the villagers and pay wages to the excess labor, he is not willing to meet Xiulian's wishes and give her a new home, as long as Xiulian mentions this matter, Sun Shaoan will hammer you to death
It wasn't until his new brick factory was running well that he built the new kiln, but unfortunately, at this time, Xiulian was overworked and suffered from lung cancer at a young age, and fate was too cruel to her. In today's society, most couples will work hard together at the low point of life and have a lot of hope for a new life. But when the success is achieved, how many wives can enjoy the fruit together? This world is so harsh on women.
Even though the kind Xiulian is terminally ill, she still thinks of Shao'an in her heart, and she even finds Runye to let Shao'an choose between her and Runye again. It is said that women are the most sensitive, look, Xiulian also knows Shao'an's mind in her heart, but she loves this man, does not want him to be embarrassed, and does not want to let go, so from beginning to end, she behaves indifferently, in fact, the pain in her heart is only known to herself, just like she said: Shao'an, you laugh, I laugh with you; What tears you shed, I will wipe them for you...
It is said that Tian Runye once met in a hundred years, Tian Xiaoxia who met once in a thousand years, and He Xiulian who met once in ten thousand years. But it is really not so easy to be a perfect wife, the pain behind it can only be swallowed by yourself, and the ending is often tragic.
"Ordinary World" is suitable for every reader, whether you are successful or unsuccessful, whether you are rich or poor, whether you are in a mountain peak or a low point now, you can find your own shadow from "Ordinary World", this book will let you break through the fog, find your own truth, and encourage you to struggle and succeed.
Tsinghua University and Beijing Normal University specially recommend "Ordinary World" as a recommended book for college students to read, and reading a good book is to embark on a fantastic spiritual journey. "Ordinary World" brings readers hope, courage and light, guiding the confused people to continue to move forward.