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There are often comments on the Internet that women who believe in love are fools and will eventually lose badly.
I think those people don't really believe in love, but they don't believe in themselves.
What I want to share today is the TV series "Ordinary World", the original work of the same name of this TV series, which won the Mao Dun Literature Award in 1991, and is one of the 70 novel collections of New China in 70 years.
The author Lu Yao, Alibaba founder Ma Yun once said: The person who has the greatest influence on him is Lu Yao, and it is Lu Yao's works that have changed him.
This work is mainly about the struggle process of rural youth, but also expresses the thinking of life through love, and the various gestures of love are all here.
01 Love can break through class and cross the chasm
There are many love stories in ancient and modern China and abroad that break through the shackles of class, among them, the folk tale of the cowherd weaver girl, which has been handed down to this day, is both tortuous and romantic, and thus gave birth to the festival of "Tanabata", which symbolizes love.
The Weaver Girl and the Cowherd were in love with each other, because they secretly met in the mortal world, which angered the Heavenly Emperor, who punished them for meeting only once a year on the seventh day of the seventh month of the lunar calendar.
Such loyal love touched countless magpies, who used their bodies to build a sky bridge and work together to promote the meeting of the cowherd and the weaver girl.
The reason why the story is widely circulated is people's yearning and praise for love, but also inspires people to have the courage to pursue beautiful love, even since ancient times, the view of mendi is deeply rooted.
In this book, the love between Sun Shaoping and Tian Xiaoxia is such a love story that breaks through the world's concepts.
Tian Xiaoxia is the daughter of the secretary of the prefectural party committee and a newspaper reporter, while Sun Shaoping is now a laborer, and his family has been a farmer for generations, and there is no condition for him to go to college like Xiaoxia.
The social status and life background of two people are completely different, but they are equal in spirit. In front of Xiaoxia, Shaoping did not feel inferior, his words were well-spoken, his ideological vision and his views on life were very broad.
When she was a student, Xiaoxia was Shaoping's ideological mentor and life guide. Now, Shaoping's attitude towards life and his profound understanding of suffering have brought Xiaoxia a lot of fresh views.
Xiaoxia feels that happiness does not lie in what kind of profession her husband pursues, but in whether the two people are compatible. Money, honor, status, and true love have nothing to do with each other.
Xiaoxia's sincerity gave Shaoping courage, he believed that no matter how cruel the fate was, he could not give in, and the meaning of life was not what he got, but whether his heart was full.
So, the two fell in love.
When two hearts are close together, it has nothing to do with class. Even if it is short, but if it is good enough, it is enough to have it, not necessarily for a long time.
The Tibetan Buddhist Monk Cangyang Gyatso, a famous poet and political figure in Chinese history, his love was short and legendary.
He wrote many poems and broke through the shackles of religion on human nature, but he was not afraid of traditional forces. There is a sentence in Cangyang Gyatso's poem: How much love is left in the world, and how much change is required to meet the floating world.
Not everyone has the courage to break the world's ideas for love, so it is precious. In every day of striving for the future, love is not a stumbling block, love is the cornerstone.
02, my soul is tightly attached to you, and your love is the brilliant light of my life
At the 2008 Beijing Olympics, a German weightlifter, Matthias Steiner, won the championship, proving the power of love, true and great with flesh and blood.
Before this, Steiner had repeatedly performed badly on the field due to diabetes, but his wife Susan had been quietly supporting and guarding Steiner, and tailored a training schedule for him to encourage her husband to prepare for the 2018 Beijing Olympic Games.
Unfortunately, fate always likes to joke, and Susan died in a car accident in July 2007 and left forever. Completing the agreement, winning the championship, and becoming Steiner's goal in this life.
At the last moment of the 2008 Olympic Games, Steiner, who was behind in points, completed the impossible challenge and completed the 258 kg deadlift! On the podium, he holds flowers and gold medals in one hand and a picture of his deceased wife in the other, which is a miracle and the power of love.
In this book, Xiulian and Sun Shaoan fell in love with each other at first sight when they first met. Xiulian sympathizes with Shao'an's dilapidated family situation that is close to collapse, and marriage does not require dowry money.
After coming to Shao'an's house, Xiulian had to endure hunger and poverty, had love as a shield, was not afraid of anything, even if she was hungry, her heart was happy, as long as the loved one was around.
Their feelings have no twists and turns, every day and day, diligent and earnest, Shao'an first did farm work in the countryside, and then went to the city to contract workers to pull bricks, burn brick kilns, and finally start a brick farm.
Two people accompany each other all the way to support, honor and disgrace together, and then bitter and tired to grit their teeth and insist, with a little bit of sweat and hard work gathered into a deep ocean of affection.
Love is the same happiness and suffering, mutual foam, two people who love each other, hand in hand, every mountain to open the road, meet the water to build bridges, will be able to survive the hard days, and then share the glory.
03, the heart has love to wait, then the flowers will bloom
In the documentary "Frozen Planet", the male polar bear looking for a companion I still remember vividly.
A male polar bear distinguished the female bear more than ten kilometers away by smell, so she dragged her bulky body to catch up with the female bear, and just when they were ready to be sweet, male polar bears came one after another to compete with the male polar bear.
After many fights, the male bear won, but also scarred.
But the female bear seems to have lost interest, and the male bear has done everything in his power to regain the heart of the female bear.
The male polar bear's insistence on love makes the heart move, and the love of keeping the clouds open and seeing the moon is not only in human society.
For Li Xiangqian in the book, Tian Runye is his life, his sun, and in order to get the love of this woman, he can make unimaginable sacrifices.
And Tian Runye, after a period of ups and downs of love, decided in despair to marry Li Xiangqian, who pursued himself indomitably.
The twisted melon is not sweet, the life of the two after marriage is not happy, there is a husband and wife, but it has not been a husband and wife, and even a few words have not been said.
No matter how indifferent Runye is to him and how bad he is, he will always be a good heart to move forward, and still regard Runye's family as his own.
Teach his brother to drive, often go to Runye's house to do it for the old man, and take on the responsibility of son-in-law.
In an accident, there was a car accident forward, his legs were amputated, and the whole person was disheartened, but Runye finally heard the unceasing call of the forward soul, returned to him, took on the responsibility of a wife, and firmly took care of him.
During this period, Runye also deepened his love for her husband. She experienced that love should be based on the life of tea rice oil and salt.
I think that love is not a few words, not a few love letters, it is a long-term sight, it is a silent moisturizer.
Spring may be late, but it will never be absent, may everyone who is confused in love, can wait for the flowers to bloom at the end of the time, keep the clouds open and see the moon.
04, the best love is: you are good, but I am not bad
Sister Sun Lanxiang has been very sensible since she was a child, seeing that the family has a heavy burden, and plans to give up her studies and go home to work. After his father and brother Shao'an strongly discouraged him, he began to concentrate on studying again.
Lan Xiang has the stubbornness of the Sun family, and he took the third place in the county in high school, and then was admitted to a key university in the country.
Gradually, she became a dashing and beautiful girl, and her speech and demeanor did not have the taste of a rural person.
Wu Zhongping came from a family led by the provincial party committee, and whenever he defended Einstein's theory of relativity, Lan Xiang refuted challengingly with a new four-dimensional cosmology, the two high-caliber students fell in love with each other like ordinary people, and when they met their parents, Zhongping's mother was very satisfied with this future daughter-in-law.
If you bloom, the breeze will come. If you are wonderful, the sky is at your own disposal.
Only when you are excellent can you meet the other half of the excellent.
"He's a big guy, I'm a champion, there are a lot of big clubs, but there aren't many Olympic champions." This full of confidence comes from the diving queen Guo Jingjing.
At their wedding, Huo Zhenting even said a sentence that shocked the audience in front of the guests: "Guo Jingjing's ability to marry into our family is the blessing of our entire Huo family." This respect and cherishing is guo jingjing herself.
There is no standard answer to love, but if you are evenly matched, you must be able to get a high score, when you look forward to love, you may wish to stop imagining and reflect on your own heart. Running yourself well is the best look.
05. True love is a gift from God alone to all sentient beings in the world
There are many beautiful things and beautiful experiences in life, but the feeling that love brings to people is irreplaceable by anything else.
Modern society is developing rapidly, and each of us is struggling for life and is busy living better. In the fast-paced life, sometimes you really overlook some beautiful things.
The chairman of Yida Holding Group and China's outstanding young entrepreneur, Jiao Yiyi once said that life is not only the desire in front of the moment and the infinite pursuit of materials, but also dreams and distant places.
In addition to the material conditions of a happy life, there must be other important and beautiful things, such as relatives, love, friendship, freedom...
The world is full of flowers, love is varied, and everyone behaves differently. Not all love will eventually be defeated by reality, and when Cupid's arrow passes through the heart of the person, I hope we can all be brave for love once.
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