In this life, the greatest expectation for feelings is nothing more than to put on a white wedding dress, enter the sacred marriage hall, and then marry the man she loves the most.
For this beautiful expectation, she can give all her sincerity, can work hard at all costs, as long as the final result is happiness.
But unfortunately, there are too many difficulties and obstacles in the road of life, and society is more complicated than we think. In order to accomplish something, in addition to our own determination, some choices in the external environment will also affect the final outcome of the matter. Even if you are close to success, if you fail to think clearly and take a solid step next, you may end up missing happiness.
Lovely bride and groom smiling outside
Everyone hopes that their wedding ceremony will be smooth and smooth, without any accident. But sometimes, some unexpected situations are difficult for us to predict. At this time, as the protagonist of the wedding, what should we do?
Some people say that we must understand each other, learn to tolerate, and let the two have a happy and happy wedding ceremony. But some people say that even if we are married, we should not easily give in and compromise, because this retreat may be a lifetime.
Maybe both of these views are correct, but I think everything needs to be reasonable. Assuming that the other party is unreasonable and only cares about yourself on the day of marriage, without considering your feelings, then you can completely re-evaluate the relationship between two people. But if the other party just does a small thing wrong, then if you don't give in at all, it will inevitably make the other party chill.
Weddings are for two people, and happiness is for a lifetime. Even if the relationship between husband and wife has the blessing of love, we still have to be sensible and not trample on each other's sincerity at will.
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The other day, I saw some netizens sharing their stories online, and after reading it, I felt very sorry. She obviously can get the happiness that others dream of, but she is ruined by her own willful will.
Losing her happiness, she still did not feel that she had done wrong, but instead put all the responsibility on her girlfriend and said to everyone: "On the wedding day, my girlfriend ruined my marriage because of eight thousand and eight red envelopes. ”
What's going on? Don't worry, let me take it slowly:
Half a month ago, the netizen and the boyfriend who had been in love for three years finally achieved positive results, held a wedding, and invited a large number of relatives and friends. And her girlfriend naturally became her only bridesmaid, witnessing her happiness. Unexpectedly, the lively wedding scene was embarrassed by the words of this bridesmaid.
Because of local customs, although the groom arrived at the bride's door at ten o'clock in the morning, he did not actually receive the bride until eleven o'clock.
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In the beginning, the bride's relatives blocked the door of the woman's home and asked the man's family to take a cigarette with a red envelope. The groom negotiated with them for a while and then compromised. Because he knew that this was a process, and these relatives just wanted to get a head.
Unexpectedly, after entering the door, the door of the bride's room was also closed. In fact, there is no habit of closing the door of the room, and this door is closed by the bridesmaid. The groom, in line with the principle of "hello to me, hello to everyone", let the bridesmaids ask for it. The bridesmaid said that she wanted a red packet, and the groom took out the small red packet in his pocket and handed it over. Unexpectedly, the bridesmaids did not pick up the past, but disgusted the small red envelope given by the groom. The groom couldn't help it, so he asked her how much she wanted.
As a result, the bridesmaid said: Our red envelopes for the bridesmaids to open the door are thousands, where are there dozens of such doors? If you want to be with xxx (the bride) for a long time, grace and love, then you have to give at least nine thousand nine today, but we have a good relationship, give you a discount, eight thousand eight is good!
As soon as the bridesmaids said these words, the whole audience fell silent. Because they don't want such a large amount of red envelopes there, isn't this robbing money?
The groom thought that the bridesmaid was joking, so he made a few perfunctory remarks, but he did not expect that the bridesmaids actually came to the real place, blocked the door of the room with his own strength, and did not let it.
The two people froze for a while, the netizen did not speak in the room, the groom was forced to be a little upset, he called her directly to the window and asked her what to do.
After she heard the bridegroom's shout, she directly asked the groom to give the money to her girlfriend. She felt that the day of the two people's great joy, if it was so noisy and noisy because of money, it would definitely not look good. Although the amount of eight thousand and eight is not small, it is not particularly outrageous, but it is still acceptable.
She could accept it, but the bridegroom couldn't. He directly rejected the bride's words, and it was this rejection that made this netizen very angry.
She felt that the wedding day should be smooth and smooth, even if others had any excessive demands, as long as they could accept it, it was not a big deal. The boyfriend did this, really did not give her face, nor did he have the sincerity to marry her! If you really love yourself, are you reluctant to give these thousands of dollars?
So, the two people who should have held a lively wedding quarreled. Even if the bridesmaids later said that they didn't want the money, even if someone came to persuade them later, the two people still didn't stop arguing. In the end, she got angry and became more and more fierce, and directly let the groom roll home. The groom didn't seem to be able to stand the anger either, threw down the bouquet and left. Weddings that could have been very happy turned out to be so bad.
It was only after several days had passed that she had reacted to the fact that she was impulsive. However, she did not feel that she was wrong, but thought that her girlfriend had ruined her happiness. So, she scolded her girlfriend, then deleted the blackout and broke off the relationship.
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I have to say that this netizen has such a girlfriend, which is really unfortunate. What is a friend? The one who adds the icing on the cake when you are happy and the one who gives you charcoal in the snow when you are in trouble. True friendship requires sincerity, purity, and no room for defilement. And those who always take advantage of you, on the surface, are your friends, but in their hearts they do not regard you as their own.
Just like this netizen, her girlfriend seems to be a very good friend, but in fact, we can see from her words and deeds.
However, even though the girlfriend of the netizen is wrong, the most wrong is the bride who makes unreasonable trouble at the wedding. If she could have spoken a word, if she had thought a little more about the groom, things might not have gotten to this point. However, she chose the most stupid way, so that neither of them could get off the stage, and could only scribble off the wedding ceremony that should have been happy.