Generally speaking, most of the girls who go to work as bridesmaids are single girls.
However, there are exceptions, and the status of the bridesmaid is only required to be "unmarried", not necessarily single. Therefore, some girls have boyfriends and will also go to be bridesmaids.
The reality is that guys don't like their girlfriends to be bridesmaids because groomsmen are "so bad."
At a wedding scene, the bride threw the bouquet too hard, and the bouquet hung on a high place and could not fall.
What the bride did not expect was that a small mistake of her own was to cheapen the groomsmen.
No wonder boys like to be groomsmen so much.
It happened in a hotel, the wedding ceremony was nearing its end, and the bride began to throw bouquets under the auspices of the emcee.
The bridesmaids are already standing behind the bride and groom, hoping that they will receive a bouquet of flowers and become the next person to enter the "hall of happy marriage".
Interestingly, the bride casually threw it, and the bouquet did not fall to the ground, but hung on the top curtain, and could not fall.
The bridesmaids moved the stool and tried to take the bouquet down. Helplessly, the veil hung so high that she couldn't reach it.
The groomsman also tried, but he was still not tall enough, and the bouquet lay quietly on the veil.
At this time, the groomsman thought of a "good idea" to raise the bridesmaid high and the height was just right.
It's a good idea for the groomsmen, but it's obviously a "bad idea" for the bridesmaids.
You know, the bridesmaids and bridesmaids are on the stage, dozens of guests under the stage, hundreds of pairs of eyes looking at themselves, so that they are picked up by the groomsmen, how do they meet people?
In order to complete the wedding ceremony as soon as possible, the bridesmaids can only agree, so they are "held high" by the groomsmen.
Some netizens ridiculed that they suspected that the bride was deliberate, intentionally matching groomsmen and bridesmaids.
Married people know that the main groomsman and the main bridesmaid are designated by the bride and groom, and they are their most ironclad brothers and sisters.
That is to say, if you can put the two of them together as a couple, then the next 4 people can walk and travel together, and it is interesting to think about.
Therefore, it is not impossible for the bride to deliberately throw a bouquet on the veil.
Although it is possible, in the end, this matter is still unexpected. After all, this is their own wedding, and no one wants to have more trouble and mess up their own wedding.
What boys don't understand is why they must "hold the bridesmaids high", is there no other way?
In the hotel to do a wedding, even if the wedding scene is arranged by the wedding company, but the hotel side must have ladders, brooms and other tools, you can use the tools, hand bouquet down.
Or use a large stool, a small stool, and the groomsmen can climb up and put their bouquets down.
Such a close act between the two robbed the bride and groom of the limelight, no wonder everyone thinks that "another pair".
Groomsmen certainly don't matter, it is the bridesmaids who suffer losses, which is why more and more girls are reluctant to be bridesmaids.
From the girl's point of view, in fact, the bridesmaids are quite embarrassed.
First of all, if she has a boyfriend, it's hard for her to explain it to her boyfriend.
Men and women are not intimate, especially after falling in love, they must know how to keep a distance from the opposite sex. Now that the bridesmaids are directly picked up by the groomsmen, her boyfriend will definitely be jealous and angry, and quarrels are inevitable.
Secondly, not having a boyfriend also has an impact on her image.
If the relationship between the two is lovers does not matter, the key is whether the groomsmen and bridesmaids are strangers or the first time they meet.
When the groomsman is held high in public, the girl will find a boyfriend later, and the boy may mind, will think that she is not "lady" enough, and even think that she is too casual.
From the perspective of a bystander, whether it is a wedding game or something else, it is best to keep a distance between groomsmen and bridesmaids.
Boys like girls who are more ladylike, and girls also like boys who are more gentlemanly, and only when they respect each other will they have a good feeling.
Don't use games and singles as an excuse to take advantage of bridesmaids, which will only make girls disgusted and choose to stay away.
Girls with boyfriends, or try to be guests, bridesmaids this position is left to others.