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Zhu Mingying
Wang Jue, the son of the famous singer Zhu Mingying and her ex-husband Wang Mingqi, was born in Beijing in 1974. Wang Jue's parents divorced when he was 6 years old, and he was raised by his parents.
After the divorce, Zhu Mingying has not remarried, and now at the age of 72, she is still single. After Wang Mingqi divorced, he remarried with the sister of Zhu Mingying's brother-in-law.
After Wang Jue got married and became a father, she understood more about family affection and was particularly distressed about her divorced and single mother. His greatest filial piety is to run a good marriage and not to add to his mother's blockage...
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In the 1980s, Zhu Mingying became extremely popular, and the media even called 1985 "Zhu Mingying's year". She can perform songs and dances from different countries and regions in 26 languages, and sing songs such as "Back to Mother's Home", "Song of the Corner", "Girl from a Neighboring Village", "Bright Eyes", "Travel Sorrow", "Sea, Hometown", "Bright Eyes", "Mo Sorrow", etc., are all the rage.
In particular, "Back to mother's home" and "The Sea Ah Hometown" are still widely sung.
In the early years, Zhu Mingying took a group photo with her classmates
Born in 1950 in Shenyang, Liaoning Province, Zhu Mingying moved to Beijing with her parents. Zhu Mingying is the eldest daughter in the family and has 3 younger sisters below.
Zhu Mingying's father, Zhang Fahou, was a descendant of Zhang Zhidong, a major minister of the late Qing Dynasty, and graduated from Northwestern Polytechnical University as a Kuomintang rebel.
In the special years, Zhang Fahou suffered unfair treatment and was imprisoned. In order not to drag her daughter down, when Zhu Mingying went to elementary school, her parents divorced.
Later, her mother remarried with Zhu Mingying's sisters, and Zhu Mingying followed her stepfather to change her surname to Zhu.
After the divorce, her father completely broke off contact with the family, and Zhu Mingying never saw her father again, nor did she know his whereabouts. Father and daughter are connected, Zhu Mingying has been thinking about her father in her heart, and has shed a lot of tears.
Young Zhu Mingying
After graduating from high school, Zhu Mingying was admitted to the Beijing Dance Academy to study Asian, African and Latin American song and dance. She also studied ballet, classical Chinese dance, folk dance and piano.
In 1966, after graduating, Zhu Mingying was assigned to work in the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe. On March 8, 1968, 18-year-old Zhu Mingying married, and her husband Wang Mingqi was a performer in the People's Liberation Army Military Band.
Wang Mingqi's parents work in a crane factory in Beijing, and Zhu Mingying's mother is a colleague, and the two families live in a courtyard. Zhu Mingying has been familiar with Wang Mingqi since she was a child, and the two can be described as green plum bamboo horses.
Wang Mingqi has 4 brothers, he is the third oldest in the family, and his in-laws and family members affectionately call Zhu Mingying "third sister-in-law".
At that time, Zhu Mingying and Wang Mingqi's life was very difficult: their marriage room was a 7-square-meter bungalow, the marriage bed was set up with bricks, cooking could only be supported in front of the door with a small coal stove, and the public toilet had to walk a few streets.
Zhu Mingying with her son
In 1970, just 2 years after Zhu Mingying was married, her mother died of cancer. At that time, Zhu Mu was only 42 years old. The early death of her mother pushed Zhu Mingying into great grief.
Fortunately, the mother-in-law was gentle and kind, and soothed the pain of Zhu Mingying's loss of mother with love.
In 1974, Zhu Mingying gave birth to a son, Wang Jue. She and her husband were busy at work, and her mother-in-law took the initiative to take care of her little grandson, relieving Zhu Mingying's worries.
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In 1979, according to the needs of the situation, the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe took Asia, Africa and Latin America song and dance as a key project. The leader of the regiment, Wang Kun, was very optimistic about Zhu Mingying and let her specialize in Asian, African and Latin American songs and dances.
Zhu Mingying learned foreign languages with international students
Zhu Mingying is talented, she followed the tape recorder to learn the songs of "African Song Queen" Abetti, and went to Beijing Language and Culture University to learn African languages with international students in Zaire.
In order to practice singing, Zhu Mingying often rushed to the unit on winter nights, and a person turned on the tape recorder and sang and danced in the empty rehearsal hall. It wasn't until the wee hours of the morning that her husband took her home on a bicycle.
At that time, Zhu Mingying was a golden sign of the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe, her face was painted with black oil paint, dressed in bright African costumes, and she sang and danced on stage. Her authentic singing and dancing made many viewers think she was African.
The thick oil paint irritated Zhu Mingying's skin very much, and she was given a two-cent subsidy in a troupe. Wang Jue's mother, Zhu Mingying often took her son with her. As a result, she performed on stage and her son fell asleep backstage.
After the performance, Zhu Mingying used the performance subsidy to take her son to buy snacks. When I became an adult, Wang Jue said sweetly in an interview: It was the happiest time of my childhood, and I looked forward to my mother's performance every day, so that I could eat all kinds of small snacks.
Zhu Mingying
When Zhu Mingying went to Egypt with the troupe to perform, she had performed miracles: the audience applauded her 32 times, and she closed the curtain 6 times.
However, the husband did not want Zhu Mingying to be famous, only hoped that she was an ordinary wife who washed and cooked.
Zhu Mingying is not good at housework, and feels that a woman is wasting her life just around the stove and the child. She has been married to Wang Mingqi for 12 years, and she has only knitted a sweater for her husband, which does not fit.
Zhu Mingying and her husband's spiritual level are becoming more and more out of tune, and the couple stumbles as they talk.
In an interview, Zhu Mingying said: At that time, she had a home, but her heart could not find a home, and she often carried her bag after work and walked in a circle in the courtyard.
In 1980, Zhu Mingying filed for divorce from her husband, but Wang Mingqi did not agree.
Zhu Mingying with her son
Zhu Mingying's attitude was very resolute, and Wang Mingqi saw that it was irretrievable and had to agree. Zhu Mingying told Wang Mingqi that within 1980, she must divorce and do not want to delay until 1981.
As a result, on December 31, 1980, on the last day of the year, Zhu Mingying and Wang Mingqi went through divorce procedures, and their sons were jointly raised by them.
After the divorce, Zhu Mingying moved to the dormitory of the unit and left the marriage room to Wang Mingqi and her son.
On the day Zhu Mingying left home, her son grabbed her suitcase and cried: Mom, where are you going?
Zhu Mingying did not know how to explain to her son, and tears fell from her eyes. Wang Mingqi took his son in his arms and coaxed his son to say: Mom wants to go to the unit to work overtime, you don't delay your mother's work. Zhu Mingying left with tears in her eyes.
Early years of Zhu Mingying
Zhu Mingying's divorce from her husband was hidden from her son, and later Wang Jue learned from her grandmother that her parents were divorced, and her heart fluctuated greatly. Zhu Mingying often went to her former mother-in-law's house to visit her son, and Wang Mingqi and her mother also loved her son, and Wang Jue's fluctuating mood calmed down.
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In 1981, Zhu Mingying performed at the United Front Work Department of the People's Republic of China. A leader of the United Front Work Department learned that Zhu Mingying was a descendant of Kuomintang rebel soldiers and asked her what she wanted.
At that time, information from all sides said that Zhu Mingying's father Zhang Fahou had died, and Zhu Mingying hoped that the other party would help find her father's ashes, and she wanted to bury her parents' ashes together.
Soon after, news came from the United Front Work Department that Zhu Mingying's father was still alive and serving a prison sentence in Dalian.
Zhu Mingying immediately rushed to Dalian to visit her father, but she had not seen him for decades, and neither father nor daughter knew each other. His father was in tears, and Zhu Mingying was also in tears.
Zhu Mingying sang "Back to Mother's Home" on the Spring Evening of CCTV in 1984
After returning to Beijing, Zhu Mingying took her father's materials to the relevant departments to complain, and half a year later, her father was rehabilitated and restored to public office.
Zhu Mingying took her father to Beijing and let her father, who had experienced many vicissitudes, live in peace in his old age.
In the 1980s, in addition to performing African songs and dances, Zhu Mingying also sang many popular songs such as "The Sea, Ah Hometown", "Back to Mother's Home", "Song of the Corner", "Mo Sorrow Ah Mo Sorrow", etc., which were extremely popular.
At the 1984 CCTV Spring Festival Gala, she sang 3 songs in a row. It was also in this year that Wang Mingqi suddenly remarried, and his remarried wife turned out to be the sister of Zhu Mingying's brother-in-law.
People around me were talking about everything and saying anything, and Zhu Mingying's mood was particularly complicated.
Zhu Mingying
Wang Mingqi's wife is a female labor model in the factory, with a kind heart, she used to like Wang Jue, and after remarrying Wang Mingqi, she was very good to her stepson. This made Zhu Mingying feel quite pleased.
Soon, Zhu Mingying's ex-mother-in-law was diagnosed with rectal cancer. Although she and Wang Mingqi are not husband and wife, Zhu Mingying used to have a good relationship with her mother-in-law, and the old man has always loved her grandson Wang Jue.
Zhu Mingying sent her ex-mother-in-law to the hospital, she had many friends, and asked the best doctor to perform a lesion resection operation for the ex-mother-in-law. The operation was very successful, and after more than 20 days, the old man recovered and was discharged from the hospital.
The former mother-in-law has no daughter, and since then she has emotionally regarded Zhu Mingying as a daughter.
In 1985, Zhu Mingying's career was in full swing, and this year was called "Zhu Mingying Year". However, Zhu Mingying performed outside all year round, physically and mentally exhausted; coupled with the fact that she felt that her cultural knowledge was not enough, she decided to study in the United States.
Zhu Mingying and Wang Kun
But she is the pillar of the regiment, and the unit still expects her to generate income, and does not agree with her to study abroad.
So Zhu Mingying found the regimental commander Wang Kunmo and took his son to live in Wang Kun's home. Wang Kun saw that Zhu Mingying was eager to study abroad, and had to agree.
In the autumn of 1985, Zhu Mingying was sent by the unit to study in the United States at her own expense.
Before going abroad, Zhu Mingying entrusted her son to the care of her ex-mother-in-law and ex-husband, Wang Jue did not want her mother to leave, and the mother and son hugged each other and cried for a long time.
Zhu Mingying studied at the Berwick Conservatory of Music in the United States, and in order to earn tuition and living expenses, she worked in her spare time. Zhu Mingying washed dishes, worked as an hourly worker, and took care of the elderly. At her worst, she had to work 4 jobs a day.
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Zhu Mingying
Alone in a foreign country, Zhu Mingying misses her son very much. When the mother and son called, Zhu Mingying cried on this side, and her son cried on the other side of the phone.
Although her parents divorced in the early years, Wang Jue did not lack love and grew into a sunny and cheerful beautiful teenager. He studied painting and is also good at sports, and in 1989 Wang Jue was about to take the middle school entrance examination.
He originally had good grades, but some time before the middle school entrance examination, suddenly some media turned over the divorce of Zhu Mingying and Wang Mingqi to speculate, and the students talked about it.
Wang Jue, who had just entered adolescence, had violent fluctuations in his heart and was in a depressed state, and as a result, Wang Jue failed the middle school examination.
When her sister told Zhu Mingying all this on the phone, her heart hurt like a pinprick.
Zhu Mingying with her son
In this case, Zhu Mingying took her son to the United States this year and let Wang Jue attend high school in the United States. Some south American children in the class often bullied Wang Jue, who dared to fight with each other and used Bruce Lee's martial arts moves to scare each other.
Later, those children were afraid of Wang Jue and called him "China's Bruce Lee".
In 1992, Wang Jue was about to graduate from high school, and Zhu Mingying wanted her son to enter Harvard University or MIT. But Wang Jue wants to become a singer at the Cowberick Conservatory of Music in the future like her mother.
During high school, Wang Jue used the money he saved for breakfast to buy hundreds of CDs. Zhu Mingying knew that her son was obsessed with music and respected his choice.
After Wang Jue entered the Berwick Conservatory of Music, he basically received a full scholarship every semester.
Wang Jue
When Zhu Mingying was studying at the Berwick Conservatory of Music, she also received a full scholarship every semester, and the mother and son were outstanding alumni of the school.
In May 1995, Zhu Mingying returned to China to develop and established Mingying Records in Beijing. In 1996, Wang Jue also returned to China after completing his studies and became a singer of Ming Ying Records.
Wang Jue is talented, as early as the 1980s, he participated in the movie "Break Dance". After returning to China, Wang Jue also starred in films such as "New Meng Lijun" and "ChinaTown".
In 2002, Wang Jue's single "Tomorrow" set a record for the best in the Chinese song charts broadcast on 16 radio stations nationwide. Wang Jue also won the 9th Chinese List Most Popular Newcomer Award in mainland China.
In 2008, Zhu Mingying founded the Beijing International and Art Technology School in Beijing, and Wang Jue was hired by her mother as the executive principal. He helped his mother manage the school and run it well.
Zhu Mingying with her son
In 2010, Zhu Mingying was 60 years old and still divorced and single. In the process of working with her mother, Wang Jue witnessed her difficulties and especially hoped that her mother would become a family again.
But Zhu Mingying is not an ordinary woman who revolves around the family, has her own requirements for the other half, and it is not easy to find a suitable person to remarry.
At this time, Wang Jue was 36 years old and still unmarried and single. Zhu Mingying often said to her son: You don't just think about my business, your mother thinks you should get married and start a family as soon as possible.
Affected by the divorce of his parents, Wang Jue had some fear of marriage in his bones. Zhu Mingying knows her son's heart knot, enlightens her son from all aspects, and ignites Wang Jue's yearning for marriage.
In 2013, when Wang Jue was 39 years old, Zhu Mingying began to frantically urge marriage and introduce objects to her son. Under the grinding of life, coupled with the increasing maturity of his mind, Wang Jue's fear of marriage gradually disappeared.
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Zhu Mingying and grandson
In 2016, Wang Jue got married. The following year, their son was born. Zhu Mingying, 67, became a grandmother and closed her mouth with joy.
After his grandson was 3 years old, Zhu Mingying asked him to come to his Beijing International and Art Technology School to attend kindergarten.
Zhu Mingying is the chairman of the school, and when she eats at noon, she will take time to visit her grandson and feed him two mouthfuls of food.
After becoming a father, Wang Jue can more and more appreciate the difficulty of her mother being single. Although he is very filial, he hopes that his mother can find someone who knows cold and knows heat.
In 2020, Zhu Mingying is 70 years old and still divorced and single. Wang Jue mischievously joked with her mother: If you don't look for a wife again, I will go and get you married.
Zhu Mingying and his son Wang Jue
Zhu Mingying forgave her son's filial piety, she told her son: Mother marriage is not happy, especially hope that you live happily. At my mother's age, everything goes according to fate. As long as your marriage is stable and your small family is happy, your mother is very content.
Wang Jue originally wanted to live with her mother, but Zhu Mingying still hoped that the two generations would have their own space. Therefore, Zhu Mingying insisted on living alone.
She usually works at school and draws, plays the piano and sings at home on weekends. But Zhu Mingying's life is relatively simple, sometimes a bag of quick-frozen dumplings, sometimes a steamed bun with a tomato, is a meal.
Her mother has struggled for most of her life and paid a lot of hardships along the way, and Wang Jue especially hurts her and hopes that she will be happy in her old age.
As a son, Wang Jue knows that his mother regards her son's happiness as more important than herself, so he resolutely does not add psychological blockage to her mother, takes care of his small family properly, and manages his marriage very happily.
Wang Jue
Zhu Mingying with her son
"Taste celebrities" comments: Chinese parents are living for their children, worrying about their children all their lives, and regard their children's happiness as more important than themselves. Especially in the later years, parents pay more attention to the stability of their children's marriages, and their children and grandchildren are on their knees.
If the marriage of the children is broken, the parents will not live in peace in their old age.
Singer Zhu Mingying is called a strong woman, she has a brilliant career, but her emotional life is not satisfactory, and she is still divorced and single at the age of 72. Her vicissitudes of maternal love make people move and cry.
Wang Jue is a good son of filial piety, and hopes that his mother will become a family in his old age, but this wish has not been realized. Wang Jue tried not to add trouble to her mother spiritually, in fact, running her own marriage well is the greatest filial piety to her parents.
This law applies not only to Wang Jue and Zhu Mingying, but also to all children and parents under the heavens.
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