Girls are willing to develop performances, see through boys, and take off the list more simply
What if, you don't know what girls are thinking? So how can you effectively chase girls?
Most boys in the process of chasing girls, never consider the psychological feelings and thoughts of girls, will only follow the method they feel is right to chase girls, as a result, often will hit a wall.
Therefore, girls are willing to develop the performance, want to effectively chase a girl, boys need to see through the psychology of girls when they are pursued, and then do the corresponding pursuit methods, off the list is a very simple thing.
In the process of chasing girls, boys and girls are in different positions, boys are in the position of "attacking" and girls are in the position of "defending".
Due to the different positions of the two sides, the psychological state is naturally different, mainly manifested in: boys want to quickly win the love of girls, while girls want to slow down the development of feelings and slowly cultivate feelings.
Therefore, in the process of chasing girls, boys should learn to stand in the state of "keeping" girls and think about some love problems.
If you usually look closely, you will find that those boys who are very anxious to chase girls will often be rejected by girls quickly.
Because, girls hope that there is a development process of feelings, when boys are too anxious, they will touch the "rebound mechanism" of girls and reject the boys' pursuit early.
That is to say, maintaining the smooth development of a relationship is the premise of catching up with girls, and boys should pay attention to the balance between two people and should not be too anxious.
You must know that what belongs to you always belongs to you, and no one else can take it away.
After having a stable environment to get along with, the girl's psychological state will begin to change: enjoy the "sweetness" brought by love.
For girls, the "sweetness" of enjoying love comes from two aspects.
First, girls will enjoy it psychologically, and after having a follower, it will bring about a change in "comfort".
For example, before the girl goes out, she will struggle with which dress to wear for a long time, at this time, if the boy can give the girl a advice that suits her heart, she will have no trouble, which is a change in "comfort".
For example, if a girl encounters some unhappy things in the company, the boy understands her emotions very well, takes her to a very literary place, lets her relax and forget the unhappy things, which is also a change in "comfort".
In fact, to bring "comfort" changes to girls, there is a rule: girls are not good at making decisions, you help her make decisions; girls are emotionally unstable, you can help her to resolve emotions; girls do not want to use their brains to think about problems, you help her come up with ideas.
When the girl feels that since knowing you, life has become more comfortable and the mood is more comfortable, the seeds of love will be quietly planted in her heart.
Second, when a girl is pursued, she will psychologically expect that the boy can be good to her and can give her a strong dependence.
However, in reality, many boys do not know how to be good to girls correctly, and the way to be really good to girls is to pay attention to "personal customization".
That is to say, what a girl needs, you give it to her, is really good for her, not that you think this thing is good, she will like it.
If you want to do this well, it is actually very simple, boys just need to think more from the perspective of girls.
For example, you agreed to go to the movie together at night, but the girl suddenly had to work overtime, and when she came back from overtime, the movie just started.
At this time, the boy should know that the girl has just finished the overtime, will be very tired, for her, take a shower and go to bed early, this is a better choice.
So, if the boy intimately tells the girl that you must be tired, go back and rest first, and we will save the movie for the next time.
When a girl sees the boy's carefulness and realizes that she is cared for, she will rely more and more on the boy, and the seed of love will grow quietly under this environment.
Some boys will say that I rarely get along with girls, and I really don't know the psychological change process when girls are pursued, which gives you a "universal routine": think about problems from the perspective of girls' interests.
For example, the girl asks the boy: What do you think of me as a person?
When a girl asks a boy this question, what kind of psychology does she have? In fact, she just wanted to inquire from the side, whether this boy was interesting to her?
The boy can say: I think it is very comfortable to get along with you.
In this way, the boy gives the girl a positive answer, taking care of the girl's interests, and her mind will be satisfied.
In fact, it is not difficult to chase the girl, as long as the boy finds the right way and goes in the right direction, he will definitely be able to go to the end of the victory.
Girls are willing to develop the performance, I believe, you can also chase after the girl you like and find your own happiness.