"Dear Child" Xie Tianhua's "blackening" is too sadistic.
When he was in college, Xiao Lu and Xie Tianhua, two male students, fell in love with the female classmate Fang Yinuo at the same time.
Fang Yinuo unswervingly chose Xiao Lu, and the two married after graduation.
Xie Tianhua could only silently guard Fang Yinuo as a friend. Xie Tianhua watched Fang Yinuo get married and have children, and his heart was full of mixed feelings, but on the day fang Yinuo gave birth, Xie Tianhua still prepared gifts and greeting cards for Fang Yinuo with his heart.
Xie Tianhua knew that it was one of the most important days in Fang Yinuo's life, he wrote the most sincere blessings on the card, in order to avoid Xiao Lu's heart, Xie Tianhua added a congratulatory word to Xiao Lu.
In Xie Tianhua's heart, if you can't have the person you love the most, it's good to see her happy, but after Fang Yinuo gave birth to his daughter Hehe, Xiao Lu didn't give Fang Yinuo enough care and care, the woman Xie Tianhua loved and couldn't love, Xiao Lu didn't cherish.
Xie Tianhua watched Xiao Lu pull and pull with other women outside, he chose to help Xiao Lu hide, he knocked Xiao Lu, urging Xiao Lu to return to the family; He He had a fever, Fang Yinuo called Xiao Lu, Xiao Lu was entangled with the young girl Zhu Zhu, it was Xie Tianhua who braved the heavy rain and sent Fang Yinuo's mother and daughter to the hospital.
Xie Tianhua watched Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu arguing, he knew that Fang Yinuo was not happy, but he didn't have to think about it, he just wanted Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo to live a good life. Xie Tianhua did not expect that Hehe was only one year old, Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu divorced, and the two quarreled very stiffly, Fang Yinuo took Hehe away, and swore that he and Xiao Lu would not have contact with him.
Fang Yinuo took his daughter back to his mother's house after divorce, Xie Tianhua had the opportunity to pursue Fang Yinuo, before he did not have the courage, did not dare to confess generously, now Fang Yinuo has become a single mother, Xie Tianhua has the self-confidence to be worthy of the upper one promise, despite the opposition of the family, Xie Tianhua insisted that Fang Yinuo did not marry.
In fact, Xie Tianhua's conditions are not bad, people are decent,opened a small shop, became a small boss at a young age, and the conditions of the women he is close to can also be, but he only loves Fang Yinuo. Xie Tianhua's "stubbornness" made his sister Xie Dan scold him for being stupid.
After Fang Yinuo married into the Xie family, he tried to please his eldest sister Xie Dan and filial piety to his in-laws, and even his daughter Hehe also learned to look at people's faces with Fang Yinuo, and Fang Yinuo spent a year and was recognized by his in-laws.
Only Xie Dan, still aimed at Fang Yinuo, Xie Dan's consideration, in fact, is not unreasonable, after Fang Yinuo and Xie Tianhua married, Xie Tianhua regarded Hehe as his own, but Fang Yinuo did not plan to have another child with Xie Tianhua, xie Dan felt wronged for his brother.
Xie Dan was at the dinner table, in front of Hehe, and the other party was angry:
"Why don't I accept you, because I feel a loss for my brother, I feel worthless for my brother, my brother is a big guy, right?" What girl can't he marry, why does he have to marry you? He doesn't even have his own children, and he raises them for you every day. Why? I hurt him! ”
Xie Dan expressed it very clearly, that is, he hated Fang Yinuo's stomach and did not move, but Fang Yinuo pretended to be confused with understanding and replied "humbly": "Sister, where are you not satisfied with me, I will change." ”
In this scene in the "Dear Child" play, Xie Tianhua's reaction is very profound, he silently poured a glass of white wine, drank it sadly, did not pull the frame, did not help Fang Yinuo to break the siege, Xie Tianhua's performance, hinted at his heart.
Xie Dan knew Xie Tianhua very well, and although Xie Dan did not listen to xie Tianhua, he accurately conveyed Xie Tianhua's appeal, Xie Tianhua wanted to have his own flesh and bones, he was good to Hehe, and Hehe was also Xiao Lu's daughter.
Although Xiao Lu has been turned away by Fang Yinuo over the years and is not allowed to see Hehe, the blood relationship between father and daughter cannot be changed, and Sooner or later Hehe will be recognized by Xiao Lu, xie Tianhua, the stepfather, cannot erase the father-daughter nature of Xiao Lu and Hehe no matter how hard he tries.
Xie Tianhua's secret feelings, Fang Yinuo did not notice, she only had Hehe's daughter in her heart, and she married Xie Tianhua only because Xie Tianhua was kind and honest, infatuated with her for many years, and was sincerely good to Hehe.
Before Fang Yinuo and Xie Tianhua were together, they had specially tested Xie Tianhua, and when they saw Xie Tianhua going out to eat, he would specially give Hehe some noodles to eat, and he would wipe his hands with wet wipes at any time in his bag, and he was also very patient when he went out to play, And Fang Yinuo agreed to Xie Tianhua's marriage proposal.
Xie Tianhua deeply loved Fang Yinuo, after marriage, he worked hard to make a promise to the other party, saved money to buy a house to improve the quality of life, and even supported Xiao Lu to visit Hehe behind his back to make up for Hehe's missing fatherly love, but Xie Tianhua's efforts did not get Fang Yinuo's sincerity.
A serious illness of Hehe completely tore apart Fang Yinuo's selfishness and hypocrisy.
He he suffered from leukemia, Fang Yinuo had to re-approach Xiao Lu, the Xiao family's three matching styles failed, the waiting for the bone marrow bank was far away, and the doctor suggested that He He's biological parents give birth to a second child, with the newborn's umbilical cord blood matching.
In order to save his daughter, Fang Yinuo proposed a divorce to Xie Tianhua, and the infatuated Xie Tianhua supported Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu to regenerate his son, as long as Fang Yinuo did not mention divorce, Xie Tianhua said that he could accept anything.
Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu were originally planned to do test tubes, the two took the expired marriage certificate to go through the formalities, but because of Fang Yinuo's health, the doctor suggested that she adjust for a period of time and then do it, Fang Yinuo watched Hehe's condition worsen, panicked, and proposed to Xiao Lu "come true", Xiao Lu agreed, the two carried their respective families, secretly went to the hotel to open a room.
Xiao Lu's wife Dong Fan found Xie Tianhua and asked him to stop Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu's derailment, Xie Tianhua cowardly locked Dong Fan out of the door, he did not dare to face Fang Yinuo's betrayal, afraid that once he came forward, the marriage between the two people could no longer be maintained, Xie Tianhua was reluctant to break Fang Yinuo.
In fact, Xie Tianhua knew that after Fang Yinuo married him, he had never let go of Xiao Lu, and Xie Tianhua deceived himself that as long as the other party Yinuo was good enough, he could get her heart, but he did not expect that Fang Yinuo was still biased towards Xiao Lu at the critical moment.
That night, Xie Tianhua was uneasy, Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu were in the hotel room, the same suffered, the divorced couple sat on a bed again, both of them were very embarrassed, but Fang Yinuo still remembered that Xiao Lu loved to watch the ball game, turned on the TV to adjust the atmosphere, did not expect Xiao Lu to first stretch, Xiao Lu said: "Or we still forget it." ”
Fang Yinuo temporarily gave up and Xiao Lu 's real action'. After Fang Yinuo returned, he confessed his behavior to Xie Tianhua, and said that he could not do without Xie Tianhua and Xiao Lu. Xie Tianhua cried with joy, he thought that his years of bitter love had finally paid off.
Since Hehe fell ill, Xie Tianhua has paid for Hehe, carefully cared for Hehe, and is willing to sell the house to treat Hehe's illness, and his heart for Hehe is no less than Xiao Lu; Xie Tianhua is distressed by Fang Yinuo, often taking on the responsibility of accompanying the bed, letting Fang Yinuo go home to rest, Fang Yinuo looked at Xie Tianhua's back and was deeply moved.
But Fang Yinuo's feelings for Xie Tianhua were limited to touching.
Fang Yinuo accidentally became pregnant with Xie Tianhua's child, but concealed it and did not tell Xie Tianhua, because Fang Yinuo did not want to leave the child. To save Hehe's life, only the younger brothers and sisters of the same father and mother have hope, Fang Yinuo also wants to adjust her mood and Xiao Lu again, what she wants is Xiao Lu's child, not Xie Tianhua's.
Hehe is Fang Yinuo's daughter, and Fang Yinuo is willing to give everything he has in order to save Hehe, but is the second child in his belly not his own flesh and bones? Fang Yinuo's disgust for the unborn child slammed Xie Tianhua's heart.
In order to persuade Fang Yinuo to leave the blood of the Xie family, Xie Dan even knelt down to Fang Yinuo and begged her to show mercy and raise her noble hand, but Fang's mother did not expect that Fang Yinuo said that the child was her daughter's, and the decision was in Fang Yinuo's hands, and others had no right to interfere.
Xie Tianhua of course wants this hard-won child, in order to hinder Fang Yinuo's attack on the fetus, Xie Tianhua even went to Xiao Lu to intercede, Xiao Lu loved his daughter, but there was also basic reason, Xiao Lu advised Fang Yinuo, can not be so to Old Xie, this child has to want.
Fang Yinuo decided to go all the way to the black and said to Xiao Lu, "Don't delay our business." This sentence exposed Fang Yinuo's disgust and desperation. She treats the two children differently because the fathers of the children are different, and she has loved Xiao Lu with her heart, but she has never loved Xie Tianhua.
Xie Tianhua's emotional needs, Fang Yinuo naturally ignored, Xie Tianhua saw that Fang Yinuo had been mad, and finally forced to the end of the road, Xie Tianhua ran to the hospital to report Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu's unmarried test tube, and completely sealed the road to save Hehe.
Xie Tianhua loves Hehe, he can do such a cruel thing, all of it is forced by Fang Yinuo, he only wants to keep his own child, he thought that this child was the crystallization of his love with Fang Yinuo, but he did not expect that Fang Yinuo regarded him as a burden, and it was not the right time for him to come.
Fang Yinuo did not want this child, she was thinking all about finding a match for Hehe, and did not have a little care about the unborn child in the belly, the child followed Fang Yinuo's wishes, accidentally flowed away, Xie Tianhua thought that Fang Yinuo was deliberate, and the contradiction between the two people reached its peak.
"Dear Child" Xie Tianhua only understood after losing his own flesh and bones that Fang Yinuo married him was a compromise and compromise made for Hehe, Hehe could not live without his father, and she herself did not really love him from beginning to end; Fang Yinuo had married Xiao Lu and did not choose him, which was already the answer.
Xie Tianhua's years of admiration and dedication have all become jokes, and the reason why he can't compare to Xiao Lu's weight in Fang Yinuo's heart is not because he is not good enough, but because he is too good.
Xiao Lu this man, chicken thief, slippery head, can speak sweet words, will coax the little girl to be happy, the brain is smart, people are also funny, Fang Yinuo is attracted to Xiao Lu's personality.
When Fang Yinuo was pregnant with Hehe, Xiao Lu went to pack noodles for her, Xiao Lu himself first ate a bowl of spicy, and then packed two bowls of not spicy, came back and pretended to accompany Fang Yinuo to eat not spicy, to share happiness and suffering with Fang Yinuo, Fang Yinuo saw through Xiao Lu's little trick at a glance, but did not blame Xiao Lu, Fang Yinuo knew that Xiao Lu's brain was active and had a childish side.
Xiao Lu's leader, Su Zong, also mentioned that Xiao Lu has a very good set of customers, and customers can be mixed with one or two sides, which shows that Xiao Lu's emotional intelligence and IQ are high enough.
When Xiao Lu asked Zhu Zhu to open the back door for him, he also ate Zhu Zhu's temperament as a little girl, Xiao Lu sent lipstick again, and took Zhu Zhu to eat a roadside stall, coaxing this rich girl to turn around, Zhu Zhu was eager to promise each other; after Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu divorced, Xiao Lu married Dong Fan, a gentle and beautiful rich woman, and the charm of this man should not be underestimated.
After "Dear Child" Hehe fell ill, the scene where Fang Yinuo and her two husbands made a big fuss about the bone marrow bank also reflected the completely different personalities of Xiao Lu and Xie Tianhua. Xiao Lu has many ideas, lies without blushing, and follows Mrs. Wen of the bone marrow bank to the house without being afraid of the stage, and Xie Tianhua is very honest to help Mrs. Wen take care of all the flowers and plants at home.
After coming out, Xiao Lu said that Xie Tianhua was too stupid, once he finished the work, there was no reason to go again next time, Xie Tianhua was like this, sincere to everyone, digging out his heart and lungs, he would rather suffer losses himself than be sorry for others.
The neighbor's wife often used kimchi to exchange Xie Tianhua's meat dishes, and after a long time, Xie Tianhua was unwilling, but he did not have a seizure, embarrassed to refuse, and could only eat dumb losses silently.
Why is Shedan so aggressive and aggressive? Because the three members of the Xie family were all honestly overdone, Fang Yinuo wanted to beat up her and Xie Tianhua's children, the Xie family did not dare to have an opinion, only Xie Dan dared to stand up and speak, if there was no Xie Dan for the whole family, the Xie family did not know how far to be bullied.
Xie Dan was forced to be a bad person, because his mother's family really could not support the wall, Xie Tianhua, such a good man, so good to the extreme, he also nested to the extreme, he repeatedly compromised with the other party, no backbone, no temper, Fang Yinuo knew Xie Tianhua very well, knew where his weakness was, so he dared to hurt Xie Tianhua unscrupulously.
Fang Yinuo repeatedly proposed to Xie Tianhua for divorce, just to get away with it, if she really didn't want to drag Xie Tianhua down, she could be so resolute as when she left Xiao Lu, but she didn't, she was waiting for Xie Tianhua to lower the bottom line and infinitely tolerate her behavior of breaking through ethics and morality.
Xie Tianhua's personality, let Fang Yinuo feel solid, Fang Yinuo will not fall in love with him, Xie Tianhua pays without asking for returns, the other party has a promise to respond, Fang Yinuo to Xie Tianhua, only rely on, no love.
Xie Tianhua, who is cowardly to the bone, is far less attractive than Xiao Lu's personality, Xiao Lu has his own opinion, even Fang Yinuo produces, Xiao Lu dares to drink beer at home to watch the ball game; in the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Xiao Lu did not give up his principles for Fang Yinuo.
As a husband, Xie Tianhua is far more qualified than Xiao Lu, but the reality of the heart is that "bad men" are often more likable than "good men".
"Good men" swallow themselves when they are wronged, while "bad men" will not tolerate being wronged; "good men" can't go away no matter how they are driven away, so that women have a sense of security, and there is no sense of freshness; "bad men" are uncertain, not easy to trap, and more likely to arouse people's possessiveness.
Loving a person without a bottom line, usually can not be exchanged for equivalent love, and what you have worked hard to get is often the other party's contempt and trampling. Xie Tianhua repeatedly gave up his principles and bottom line for Fang Yinuo, and was destined to be hurt by Fang Yinuo.
Whether it is a man or a woman, before loving others, please love yourself well, the essence of love is mutual attraction, not sacrifice and touching; kindness without edges and corners is actually weakness, from the moment Xie Tianhua dies and stumbles on Fang Yinuo, it indicates that he will be at a disadvantage in this marriage.
If Fang Yinuo was allowed to do it again, she would still choose Xiao Lu instead of Xie Tianhua, which was the truth that Fang Yinuo did not want to leave Xie Tianhua's child.