The son bet with his father, I was admitted to Tsinghua, you have to call me dad, after seeing the son's notes, the father was directly dumbfounded, thinking, this dad will have to call sooner or later!
In many people's childhood memories, the role of dad has its own advantages, some are severe, often holding a leather whip, seeing is a beating, some are kind, often smiling, warm companionship, but no matter how, because each father's personality is different, the treatment of children's family education is also different, are looking forward to Jackie Chan.
Family education is very important for children, and fathers have played an important role in family education, many children are proud of their father's example, and even the child's ideal is to grow up like a father.
On the forum, I saw some descriptions of "bad dad": he was grumpy, hypocritical, had long lost the courage to live, did not know how to educate children, would only vent the unhappiness of life on me, often said that I was stupid, could not do anything well, the education method was always scolding first, no is a slap, either a business trip or a meeting, feeling like half a left-behind child.
Therefore, a sympathetic, know how to communicate, and their own "friends" of the father, the impact of family education on the child is a lifetime, recently, there is a pair of father and son, bet, originally thought it was just a joke, the result of the child's seriousness, let the father not calm down!
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The cause is this: there is a father and son in Changsha, Hunan Province, and their five-year-old son made a bet with his father that he would be admitted to Tsinghua and Peking University in the future, and if he was admitted, his father would call his son a father.
Many families will make some jokes, this father is no exception, and the son made such a bet, originally thought it was just a joke, after all, the son is still five years old, going to kindergarten, there is still a long way to go to college, maybe tomorrow I will go to sleep and forget this bet, I didn't expect my son's move, so that my father was surprised!
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The son picked up the pen and paper, took notes directly, drew some things on the paper and wrote some annotations, there was a look, it seemed to be a bit of that meaning, and the father also watched carefully in the back.
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When the child wrote this note, many people were not calm, saying that this is advanced mathematics in college, and they are not as good as a five-year-old child, too cattle! Do you want to become a mathematician in the future?
Immediately after, the child drew a schematic map of the Hong Kong City Subway, and I have to say that for a five-year-old child, it is not easy to write so many complicated words and write well.
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These two are more powerful, it looks like the earth plate and the history of human evolution, it is worth mentioning that what these two thousand years old is, it is really not understood, the imagination of children is indeed rich, worthy of praise, netizens are also a piece of praise.
Have sighed, surprisingly not as good as a five-year-old child, some people say that three years old themselves can not be compared, so it is a bit exaggerated, this is all praise for this child, think it is indeed very good, very potential, maybe in the future can be admitted to Tsinghua Peking University.
Sharp-eyed netizens found that children are left-handed, think that left-handed children are smarter and more imaginative, science shows that the right brain of left-handed people is more developed, and the right brain is the center of processing the overall image, spatial concept, identification of geometric figures, more imaginative, it is no wonder that such an imaginative picture can be drawn.
Of course, some people also question that the child is only five years old, just copying what he sees, not understanding the meaning of it, not pretending to understand.
But what I want to say is that for children, you can't be too demanding, it is already remarkable to be able to write so many notes by yourself, and your own children can draw a picture according to the picture, they all feel very good, and they will be happy for half a day, so we should still give more encouragement, so that children will have more confidence to achieve their ideals.
The son's bet with the father, whether winning or losing, I think the father is happy, and this way, can also bring thinking to more families, thinking about the role of the father in the family, the importance of the child, thinking about how to better educate the child, thinking about the way parents and children get along, thinking about what kind of family education should be, I hope that such a news can bring inspiration and new thinking to more families!
Today's topic: In family education, how much influence does dad have on his child?