It is often said that love that is not intended for marriage is a hooligan act. In real life, many people fall in love for the purpose of marriage, and many people fall in love just to fall in love. Those who are immersed in love, how can not tell how to fall in love, whether it is to get married or in love, so there are many people in love who eventually become hooligans. So what happened to this result?
The first thing that must be said is the problem of two people getting along. Two people have been together for a long time, and they must be able to understand what the other person is going to do, so when you understand what the other person wants, there will definitely be a gap in psychology. If it is really two people who cherish each other, then they will definitely be able to go to the end.
Whether he is in love or married, but the purpose of each other is still in the two people to be together, so the fundamental question is not whether they are married or not, but whether the two people can be together. This problem is very easy to solve, as long as two people do not give up and insist on being together, then the ultimate goal can be achieved.
Secondly, many people are people who are in love, and their ideas are actually very simple, just simply want to fall in love. But when it comes to a certain degree of love, it feels difficult to separate for other reasons, then it will enter the palace of marriage and eventually come together. If two people feel easy to separate together, then this love is really just love, it is difficult to go to marriage, after all, both people are careless and do not have the same goal. Therefore, on the issue of love, it will eventually go down the wrong path of separation, resulting in two people not finally embarking on the palace of marriage, resulting in hooliganism.
And why many love for the purpose of marriage, why in the end also caused hooligan behavior, many reasons are that the two people together, the heart is not the same. Before the beginning or beginning of the relationship, the result of the relationship has been planned, and one party has not used all his strength in this final result, or has exhausted all his strength or has not achieved the goal. In the long run, the loss or the high pressure of life will cause the powerlessness to fall short, and finally become at ease with the encounter. Until the problem is inevitable, it will cause a dismal breakup situation.
Now many people want to talk about a love that does not break up until the sky is old, but in the end it has become a verbal declaration. When the age comes, it begins to choose blind dates that don't matter, and in the end, the hasty choice will be complete, and it has long lacked the impulse to talk about a vigorous love. After all, even the most beautiful love must go through the run-in and protection of marriage, otherwise it is difficult to have long-term love.
I believe that you have never seen a person who has only been in love and never married all his life, even if such a person really exists, but it is only a minority in the minority. Many people will always step on the threshold of marriage, no matter how long they have been in love, how sweet this love is, they always have to face the barrier of marriage. If you don't step into this threshold, "playing hooligans" may really become very simple.
The last thing to say is that no matter what the purpose of the relationship is, and no matter what the reason you are together, you should cherish each other. If you can't be in a long-term love for the purpose, just want to talk about a love, personally think it is not necessary, after all, when you are in a relationship, whether it is your time or energy, it will be reduced because of love, not to mention to find the people around you who care about you. How can you possibly find someone who wants to get married to you and fall in love for a long time?
Therefore, no matter how the outcome of this love affair is, since we have chosen to be together, everything is possible. Maybe marriage will be your best destination, or maybe eventually your feelings will be brushed off by rogues. None of this matters, as long as you can learn from it, you will eventually find your Bole, and you can also find You Zhu Yingtai or Liang Shanbo.