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There are very few sisters-in-law or sisters-in-law who can make the eldest sister or sister-in-law like, and Fang Yinuo is the same.
Although Fang Yinuo and Xie Tianhua have been married for more than a year, and the whole family likes Fang Yinuo, Xie Dan has always been weird with Fang Yinuo's yin and yang, and her words reveal her dislike for this sister-in-law.
The reason is very simple, Fang Yinuo is divorced and has children, and is also the ex-wife of Xie Tianhua's friend Xiao Lu, and their relationship is a classmate for many years. It is said that "friends and wives cannot be deceived", even if it is an ex-wife, it is difficult for the Xie family to accept Fang Yinuo. In families with traditional ideas, it will be believed that the man has suffered a loss, and there is no reason to buy one and get one free.
Xie Dan has opposed this relationship from the beginning, and has become disliked Fang Yinuo, some netizens will say that she is too careful, and it is not her and Fang Yinuo who are married to live a life, what kind of heart.
However, in other words, Xie Dan's reaction is precisely the truest side of human nature, and people must first consider themselves
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Xie Tianhua has liked Xiao Lu since he was in school, according to his words, his mouth is stupid, he does not know how to express his emotions, so he misses Fang Yinuo.
Fang Yinuo chose to marry Xiao Lu, but Xiao Lu was a pseudo-good man, looking like a good husband before the child was born, but after the child was born, he changed a person. The wife gave birth to her in the hospital, and he drank and slept at home. After the wife gave birth to the child, he needed someone to accompany him, he hurried out to send the placenta, and even allowed his child's placenta to be eaten by his brother, and when he helped Fang Yinuo wipe his body, he showed a disgusted expression.
The child was sick with a fever, and Fang Yinuo called Xiao Lu and did not answer. He went to the hospital complaining that it was not time to get sick.
Xiao Lu did this series of things, and it was completely impossible to see the image of him as a good husband and a good father.
On the other hand, Xie Tianhua, although he has always liked this Fang Yinuo, since Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu married, he has hidden this love in his heart and silently guarded her.
Fang Yinuo's children's first birthday banquet, Zhu Zhu came to stir up trouble, he patiently persuaded Zhu Zhu, the occasion was not appropriate, there was something to say after today.
The child was sick, but he arrived at the first time and sent him to the hospital for timely treatment.
When taking the child out with Fang Yinuo, he took care of the child more carefully than his mother, and he completely did it beyond his biological father to take care of the child.
When he expressed his heart to Fang Yinuo again, Fang Yinuo's concerns were the same as Xie Dan's:
If he marries twice, it means that Xie Tianhua wants to accept Hehe, be the father of the child, and be someone else's child, which is equivalent to raising a child for others.
For Xie Tianhua's family, marriage can be done, but you can't find a child, and if you get married, you will be a receiver, but he is not so a receiver. Most Chinese families will not agree to this situation, and the first reaction is to think that they have suffered losses.
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In fact, Fang Yinuo was also worried that after marrying Xie Tianhua, the other party could not accept her child and whether he could be a competent father. Like Xie Dan, he believes that Xie Tianhua has suffered a loss by marrying her, because human nature is like this, and when encountering things, we must first consider ourselves.
Just like in the TV series "Xiao Shede", Nan Jianlong, played by Zhang Guoguo, insisted on divorcing his original partner and marrying a nurse who took care of him in the hospital after he was sick.
Both the original partner and his daughter scolded him for being selfish and did not understand why he had to divorce.
Years later, when he talked to his daughter, he said the hidden pain hidden in his heart.
The original wife was spoiled from a young age, ten fingers do not stick to the yang spring water, after marriage, the housework has never been done, let alone take care of people. He thought he would do it, and it didn't matter if his wife wouldn't do it. But when he suffered a stroke and was hospitalized and needed someone to take care of, he saw the truth of the marriage.
He lay in a hospital bed and needed to be taken care of, but his wife would not and did not want to rub his body. Fortunately, there were caregivers who could take care of people, so that he could pick up a life and live for a few more years.
In the face of life, feelings are often not worth mentioning.
In the second half of Nan Jianlong's life, he realized that he needed someone to take care of him and serve him, and it was obvious that he could not do it. Therefore, he was determined to divorce and marry a nurse.
Is he selfish? selfish! In order to have someone to serve, divorced and married a caregiver she didn't like, simply for someone to take care of.
But if you think about it in a different way, you can understand it.
In the face of great right and wrong, human nature is selfish, the first thing that comes to mind is definitely their own interests, and they want to protect themselves through another way.
That's right.
Therefore, Xie Tianhua confessed to Fang Yinuo, Fang Yinuo had concerns, she considered whether her daughter could be accepted by the other party; Xie Dan considered that her brother would suffer losses, and it was okay to find a second marriage, but she also had to raise children for others.
In the beginning of man, nature is good, but also selfish, although the heart is pierced, but the truth.
As family and friends, although there are some things that we cannot understand or accept, one thing remains unchanged, that is, we hope that they will live a good life and live happily, and others can only bless them.
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