In July 2020, a doctor at a hospital had the following conversation with a patient's mother.
"Doctor, I beg you, save my son, he's still so young!"
"For now, only bone marrow transplants have been given."
"Bone marrow... Bone marrow transplant? ”
"Yes, as the parents of patients, you are generally the best choice for bone marrow transplants. You should discuss it as soon as possible, and I will arrange a match for you later. ”
"No... No! No way! Slowly, not yet. The patient's mother refused the doctor's request and turned back to the ward.
The son is the mother's heart, the son is sick, but the mother refuses to match the son, this abnormal behavior makes the doctor wonder. Since the patient was admitted to the hospital, the mother has been busy taking good care of the patient, why is it that when it comes to bone marrow transplantation and matching, her face has changed drastically and she is talking?
The mother's surname is Zhang, and this article is temporarily referred to as Ms. Zhang. The sick man was her son, Guo Xuecheng, a retired soldier. It all started 27 years ago.
In the summer of 1993, a baby boy was born in Xianyang City Hospital in Shaanxi Province, which was a proper "post-90s", and outside the delivery room, a father looked at his wife and newborn child who had just given birth, and his face was happy and sad.
He did not dare to disturb his wife who had just given birth to rest, and after sending her back to the hospital bed, he went to the baby room alone and stood outside the baby room to look at his son, and the newborn baby boy was Guo Xuecheng.
The man paced back and forth outside the baby room, his brows furrowed, as if the arrival of this baby boy was not a good thing. Logically, at that time, many families wanted to have boys, even if they were fined for overbirth.
The wife gave birth to a boy, why did the man frown?
The man was an ordinary farmer, his family was very poor, and he only had a few acres of thin land to survive. A few years ago, the wife has given birth to two boys, during which all the expenses of the family are earned by the man alone, a family of four is very embarrassed, and now, there is another big mouth to be fed (boys eat more), how to support the family.
Why didn't you choose to "kill the child" in the first place?
In fact, my wife also moved this idea, but at that time, the family was so poor that she could not even get the money to go to the hospital to get a fetus. If you choose a small clinic, the environment is unhygienic, the medical facilities are rudimentary, and the doctor's "unreliable" qualifications, each of which is a problem, and each has the risk of damaging the wife's body, and for the safety of the wife, men are not willing to take this risk.
In this way, one after another, the children are older. The wife decided to give birth to the child, first, she was reluctant to erase the child who had been with her for so long, and second, the child was older than the month, and there was a risk of beating the fetus.
Now that the child is born, who raises it? The wife lived in the hospital once and almost emptied all her previous savings.
In desperation, the man had to arrange for his wife to be discharged from the hospital, and at the same time asked his relatives who were migrant workers to pay more attention to the family of the adopter.
Unexpectedly, Guo Xuecheng's parents took Guo Xuecheng (although it was not named at that time, in order to facilitate your understanding of this name) just a few days after returning home, relatives entrusted people to send a message:
"There is a couple in Dezhou, Shandong Who wants to adopt your son, and the two have been married for many years without children."
Although the wife did everything she could, but for the sake of the family, but also for the sake of the child--the child may have a better life if he changed his family, he had to tearfully agree.
The man agreed, passing the word to relatives. Over there, Guo Changjiang and his wife in Dezhou, Shandong Province, when they heard the news that "the child's parents agreed", they were so excited that they even shed tears.
It is no wonder that Guo Changjiang and his wife are so excited.
Mr. and Mrs. Guo Changjiang have been married for many years, have not been pregnant with children, visited major doctors, and eaten countless folk remedies to no avail. Guo Changjiang and his wife even doubted at one time whether they had done anything bad in their daily lives, so that they did not have children.
After years of seeking a doctor and taking medicine, Guo Changjiang and his wife were exhausted, gave up the idea of having a child by themselves, and began to inquire about "how to adopt a baby".
After being matched by others, Guo Changjiang and his wife got in touch with Guo Xuecheng's parents.
"Hurry up! Buy a train ticket to Shaanxi now! The day's! Ms. Zhang was excited, and her mood could not be calmed for a long time, "I will leave now, I really can't wait for a moment." What to buy is better? Yes, diapers, milk powder, bottles, what else? ”
Ms. Zhang urged her husband to go to the train station to buy a ticket on the front foot, and the back foot pulled him who had just returned to buy something, and she also disliked his slow movement: "Can you hurry!" ”
Guo Changjiang looked helpless, but still worked hard and accepted Ms. Zhang's dispatch. At the thought of seeing the child immediately, Guo Changjiang's eyes also flooded with a little joy.
It's good, this home will not be cold and cold in the future.
Guo Changjiang and his wife carried large bags on their backs and finally caught up with the train before it started.
"Say it early to make you move faster, almost didn't even catch the train!" Ms. Zhang put down the package in her hand while complaining about Guo Changjiang.
Guo Changjiang muttered two sentences:
"Don't blame yourself, you have to buy so much." Before going out, you have to make sure that the things are all with you, otherwise it will be so messy. ”
When Ms. Zhang heard this, her eyebrows suddenly rose:
"What's wrong, I'm not bringing more to show my heart." We don't have any money, but we must also show our parents, otherwise why do they believe in us, why do they give us their children? Just say, you men are not unreliable. ”
Guo Changjiang immediately raised his hand to signal surrender, indicating that he was wrong, and Ms. Zhang put an end to it.
After packing up their things, Guo Changjiang and his wife quickly fell asleep, and the train carried Guo Changjiang and his wife all the way to Xianyang.
When Guo Changjiang and his wife arrived at Xianyang City Hospital in Shaanxi Province, they asked the front desk to know that Guo Xuecheng's parents were discharged from the hospital on the day of the birth of the child.
The two inquired all the way, constantly changing means of transportation, and when they really carried large bags and small bags, standing outside Guo Xuecheng's parents' house, they understood the family's embarrassment.
What comes into view is the tattered cave, the corn cobs at the door are scattered on the ground in pairs, full of loess, and the wind blows; two tattered boys are chasing each other around the millstone, and outside is the unique scene of the Loess Plateau - ravines.
Guo Changjiang and his wife understand: If there is really no way, who is willing to give their own son to others?
As soon as the two boys saw Guo Changjiang and his wife, they ran toward the house, shouting as they ran: "Daddy, Mommy, someone is coming!" ”
Guo Xuecheng's parents, who heard the shouting, rushed out of the house to take a look, and did not wait for Guo Changjiang and his wife to explain their intentions. Guo Xuecheng's parents took the hands of the two and entered the house.
Ms. Zhang saw Guo Xuecheng lying on the kang, and after obtaining the woman's consent, carefully hugged Guo Xuecheng.
At this time, Guo Xuecheng actually woke up and looked at Madam Zhang and smiled. At this time, Ms. Zhang's heart was as sweet as eating honey.
Mr. and Mrs. Guo Changjiang began to "show" what they had carried from afar. Men and women who see the couple so carefully prepared and so fond of children know they will not treat children badly.
And Guo Changjiang and his wife also told the two: Although we do not have much money and are not rich, we will try our best to take care of the child, treat him as our child, and will do all we can to raise the child to grow up.
This remark made men and women completely put their minds at ease.
Before Guo Changjiang and his wife left, the woman (birth mother) pulled the man to kneel on the ground, prostrated to them, and said:
If you can, don't tell your child about his origins, he will be your child in the future, and we don't want to bother him.
Guo Changjiang and his wife quickly pulled the two of them up, saying that they understood their pain.
It was getting late, Guo Changjiang and his wife politely refused the couple's kindness of "staying overnight", took the train back to Xianyang, bought the train ticket for the day and returned to Shandong.
Before leaving, Guo Changjiang and his wife still left some food for the two children who were growing their bodies.
On the train, Ms. Zhang asked Guo Changjiang what name he planned to give the child. Guo Changjiang thought for a while and said:
"Just call it Guo Xuecheng." Perhaps Guo Changjiang hopes that children can not only learn and succeed, but also have a strong body like the Great Wall.
The three soon fell asleep, and the train took the sleeping family of three to a new life.
In the Guo family, Guo Xuecheng is the pearl in the palm of his hand, and what Guo Xuecheng wants, Guo Changjiang and his wife will try their best to satisfy him.
Guo Changjiang and his wife will not blindly spoil their children, and will teach their children one by one about right and wrong, right and wrong, black and white. Unlike some parents who blindly dote on their children, they simply reverse black and white and confuse the public opinion.
In terms of educating children, Guo Changjiang and his wife have done a very good job.
However, what people did not expect was that When Guo Xuecheng was eight years old, guo Xuecheng finally chose to divorce due to personality incompatibility. Ms. Zhang asked for custody of Guo Xuecheng, and Guo Changjiang was responsible for making a regular monthly maintenance payment.
Although Guo Changjiang and his wife were separated, their love for Guo Xuecheng has never changed.
Ms. Zhang did not remarry and raised Guo Xuecheng alone; and Guo Changjiang would come to her son as soon as she had time, take him out to eat delicious food, hold a parent-teacher conference for Guo Xuecheng, and go shopping together on weekends to buy clothes.
For Guo Xuecheng, this kind of life has not changed much compared to before, that is, his parents do not live together. Therefore, in a short period of time, Guo Xuecheng accepted the fact that his parents divorced.
Speaking of this, the author would like to remind that those parents who are ready for divorce, if they do not want their children to be affected, your love for their children after divorce must not be reduced, usually take more care of him, and often take their children out to play after divorce. Don't let the divorce leave a shadow in the hearts of your children, and don't let your children think that marriage is terrible.
Under the care of Guo Changjiang and Ms. Zhang, Guo Xuecheng quickly grew into a young and handsome young man. At the age of 18, a thought in Guo Xuecheng's heart became clearer: I want to join the army, I want to be a soldier!
After Guo Xuecheng informed Guo Changjiang and Ms. Zhang of this matter, he received the support of his adoptive parents: youth is like fire, chasing dreams as a teenager! If you have a dream, go after it!
Soon, with his excellent physical fitness, Guo Xuecheng passed round after round of screening, successfully enlisted in the army, put on the coveted military uniform, and became a qualified SOLDIER of the People's Liberation Army!
The training tasks in the company are many and tiring, and Guo Xuecheng is always not afraid of difficulties and dangers, rushing to the front, and sometimes helping comrades in the back, winning the praise of the whole company.
In addition to actively participating in the assessment training, Guo Xuecheng also showed his talent in the company: singing while playing the guitar. That good voice made many boys in the army envious!
While actively training in the army, Guo Xuecheng will also use the time (the army issues mobile phones once a week) to call his parents to report safety.
Once, as usual, Guo Xuecheng called his father Guo Changjiang and called his mother, Ms. Zhang. Unexpectedly, Ms. Zhang suddenly became fragmented:
"Son, Mom knows you've grown up, Mom... Mom has something to tell you. Mom recently met a person, his name is Jiang Shanzeng, he is very good to me, you... What do you think? ”
"Really? Mom, congratulations! As long as he's good to you, I have no problem, and I can't imagine that I have a stepfather. To Ms. Zhang's surprise, Guo Xuecheng was very supportive of this matter, and actually made a joke, "When I go back, there will be happy wine to drink, which is really good!" ”
Guo Xuecheng watched her mother raise herself alone for so many years, which was very hard, and often hoped that she could find another one. But every time Ms. Zhang uses the excuse of "wait another time, when you grow up, I will think again", vaguely in the past, it is rare that the mother has found the person she likes this time, is this not worth rejoicing?
Guo Xuecheng is really a sensible child, he sees the hardships of his parents when they raise him, and supporting his mother to start a family is also a manifestation of filial piety.
A year later, Guo Xuecheng retired from the army and returned to Xiajin County, Dezhou City, Shandong Province.
Mother Ms. Zhang immediately accompanied Jiang Shanzeng to the railway station to pick up Guo Xuecheng, and all the matters of receiving wind were arranged by Jiang Shanzeng. Guo Xuecheng looked at Jiang Shanzeng's words and deeds in his eyes, and confirmed that this man was worthy of trust.
At the reception banquet, Guo Xuecheng frequently raised a glass to jiang Shanzeng, saying: It is too reassuring to entrust your mother to you.
The three of them are like a family. It didn't take long for Ms. Zhang and Jiang Shanzeng to get a license, and Guo Xuecheng found a job in a small county town, usually accompanied by his parents, and when he had time, he went to find his adoptive father Guo Changjiang to drink some wine and nag.
In 2019, a comrade-in-arms found Guo Xuecheng and persuaded him to go to Jiaxing, Zhejiang Province, with him to start a business.
The two came to Jiaxing with full of enthusiasm, but reality gave them a sharp fall: the carefully prepared project was "shot" one after another, in order to find investors, Guo Xuecheng and his comrades really got up earlier than chickens, slept later than dogs, and visited the business buildings in Jiaxing day and night.
If it were not for the strong physical support and the tempering of the army's will, I am afraid that the two would have given up the idea of working hard a long time ago.
The world is unpredictable, the career has not yet improved, but Guo Xuecheng fell first.
In June 2020, Guo Xuecheng, who has always been strong and strong, suddenly launched a high fever, which frightened his comrades-in-arms: in the special period, high fever is almost equivalent to "new crown".
The comrade-in-arms contacted the local hospital and sent Guo Xuecheng to the hospital for nucleic acid testing overnight (at that time, the new crown pneumonia epidemic had not yet dispersed), but fortunately, the nucleic acid test was negative, which made everyone breathe a sigh of relief.
Guo Xuecheng hung a bottle of salt water and went back again. At that time, he could not imagine that in the next month, he would have a fever five or six times in a row.
One day in July 2020, Guo Xuecheng walked on the road, walking with black eyes, and when he woke up, he found himself lying in the hospital again. It was passers-by who found Guo Xuecheng, who had fainted on the ground, dialed 120, and sent Guo Xuecheng to the Second People's Hospital of Jiaxing City for further examination.
The doctor found that there was a problem with Guo Xuecheng's blood routine examination, so he arranged a bone marrow puncture for further testing.
The results of the bone marrow puncture were incredible: 27-year-old Guo Xuecheng suffered from acute B lymphoblastic leukemia (blood cancer) and was in a high-risk state!
The comrade-in-arms secretly informed Ms. Zhang of this matter behind Guo Xuecheng's back, and Ms. Zhang called guo Changjiang again. Two days later, Ms. Zhang, Jiang Shanzeng and Guo Changjiang appeared in Guo Xuecheng's hospital room.
Looking at her skinny son, Ms. Zhang's tears could not be stopped.
Ms. Zhang asked the doctor if there was any way to treat leukemia, and the doctor suggested that the relatives match the type and perform a bone marrow transplant for Guo Xuecheng. Ms. Zhang was very embarrassed, so the dialogue at the beginning of the article appeared.
The mother refuses to match her son, there is her unspeakable secret, afraid that when the son is seriously ill, he knows the news of his adoption, the psychological pressure is great, the body can not bear, but delayed the disease.
In Guo Xuecheng's impression, Guo Changjiang has always been his biological father; if the "matching" must go to his real biological father, then it must expose Guo Xuecheng's identity as an "adopter", but life is important, saving her son is important, and finally Ms. Zhang and Guo Changjiang discussed, or decided to tell him his origins.
His mother was forced to tell the truth, and Guo Xuecheng was shocked after hearing the whole incident, and it was difficult for him to accept in a short period of time that "he is not actually the son of his parents, and he is not even a Shandong person, but a Shaanxi person!" " fact.
Facts are facts, and no matter how much you deny them, you can't change the facts.
After all, Guo Xuecheng had been in the barracks, and his psychological quality was still there, and he quickly adjusted his mentality and accepted this fact. He said: Mom, no matter who I was born to, you have raised me for more than twenty years, and you will always be my mother.
Ms. Zhang was relieved, but the top priority was to inform Guo Xuecheng's biological parents.
After several twists and turns, he finally contacted Guo Xuecheng's biological parents. After the two learned the news that "Guo Xuecheng had leukemia and needed to be matched", they immediately took their two sons (Guo Xuecheng's brothers) to Jiaxing, Zhejiang.
After inspection, Guo Xuecheng's second brother met the conditions, and the hospital immediately started to prepare.
On August 20, Guo Xuecheng was transferred to the famous Qilu Hospital in Shandong Province for pre-chemotherapy and later bone marrow transplantation.
The four rounds of chemotherapy, which cost up to 300,000 yuan, not only caused great pressure on Guo Xuecheng's body, but also caused huge financial pressure on several families.
Several of Guo Xuecheng's parents are not rich people, but even if the cost of chemotherapy is high, they never complain. Several people borrowed from relatives and friends, and even Guo Xuecheng's biological parents also brought jujubes from Xianyang, which were jujubes that the boss could not give money to pay off their debts.
Several elderly people adhered to the concept of "making a little is a little", and took turns to sell dates on the street.
However, there is also a cost of 300,000 yuan for bone marrow transplantation in the later stage, which is always far away.
Fortunately, this matter was reported by the media, and more and more well-meaning people reached out to help and raise treatment costs for Guo Xuecheng. Many people also sent a text message of encouragement to Guo Xuecheng, hoping that he would not be discouraged, maintain a good attitude, and face every day positively. Guo Xuecheng thanked netizens for their concern.
27 years ago, Guo Xuecheng met several parents, and his life began a lucky journey: he grew up safely, joined the army, and went out to start a business.
After suffering from leukemia, I felt the love of everyone thanks to the inseparable donations of several parents and social caring people. I believe that Guo Xuecheng will be able to defeat the disease as soon as possible! Give back to your parents! Give back to society!
Seeing this scene, we also see the great love of parents, the "grace of fertility" blood is thicker than water, the "grace of nurturing" is greater than the sky, these kind old people, have their own difficulties, their own last resort, but they also do their best to treat their children, they are in order to save Guo Xuecheng's family and property at all costs, this is "great love on earth".
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