Directed by Hu Kun and starring Qin Hao, Ren Suxi, Nie Yuan and Xie Keyin, "Dear Child" is adapted from Wang Xiaoshuai's film "Left and Right", which won the Best Screenplay and Best Picture nominations at the 58th Berlin International Film Festival.
After 4 years of divorce, Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu met again outside the ward, still quarreling, as fierce as when they were divorced.
This scene made many people unexpected, and also leaked Fang Yinuo to Xiao Lu, in fact, there is love, because of love, so hate even more.
In fact, Xiao Lu may not know until he dies, that is, why did Fang Yinuo divorce him?
When Fang Yinuo first knew that Xiao Lu and Zhu Zhu "slept together", he was angry and angry, but he did not want to divorce, and although Xiao Lu's mother had mentioned divorce, she only wanted to scare Xiao Lu and teach him a lesson.
The reason why Fang Yinuo decided to divorce was that Xiao Lu had problems with his handling of these 3 things.
First, once Xiao Lu sent Yinuo home to his parents, the relationship between the two was somewhat relaxed, although there was no expression on Yinuo's face, but the psychology had actually begun to forgive Xiao Lu.
After arriving home, Xiao Lu said to send Yinuo upstairs, Yinuo said no, and then went upstairs by himself.
Xiao Lu really did not follow him at that time, Yinuo went upstairs and heard the sound of the car starting, and then went downstairs and saw Xiao Lu driving away, yinuo showed a disappointed expression on his face.
If the two are not yet married, Xiao Lu is pursuing a promise, Xiao Lu will send it to him with a dead face.
But now yinuo seems to be only talking about it, and there is no actual action at all.
How could this not make people feel cold, not to mention that it was Xiao Lu's side that was wrong at that time.
Second, Xiao Lu received a call from Zhu Zhu, who begged him to go over and see him again, and Xiao Lu actually went, and at that time it had just sent Yinuo home.
Zhu Zhu and Xiao Lu finally said goodbye, and the two were still very close in their behavior, and they were seen by Yinuo, who had rushed over.
In Yinuo's view, this is to deal with himself while coaxing his little girlfriend, and the explanation at that time is to cover up.
Yinuo followed Xiao Lu, also looking for a reason for himself to forgive him, but Xiao Lu did not give himself this opportunity.
Since it was to be broken, then Xiao Lu should not see Zhu Zhu again, this was a matter of principle.
Third, when Xiao Lu and Yinuo were at the divorce registration office, Yinuo did not sign immediately, she hesitated for a while, and later answered her mother's phone. When he returned, he saw that Xiao Lu had signed it.
This is the most exciting for Yinuo, because in Yinuo's view, Xiao Lu was originally eager to divorce, so she did not hesitate to sign.
These 3 details made Yinuo repeatedly chill and disappointed, and finally forced her to sign.
To say this is not to be pretentious, but to analyze the reasons for the failure of their marriage from the perspective of women, even if both are responsible, from the perspective of women, this is what we understand.
Women are creatures of details, easy to be moved by small details, but it is also easy to feel the attitude of the other half from the details.
Many people know that women say "no" on their lips, in fact, they think "yes" in their hearts, but why do men understand this and are unwilling to do it?
After marriage, women are afraid not of no money, but afraid of disappointment, and the disappointment accumulates to the end, only by hating and a divorce agreement, it feels that it is relief.
After marriage, men need to be thick-skinned, and still have to be dead to their wives; women should be bigger, don't take the initiative to verify some things, be confused, and live happier.
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