Encounter, inseparable from fate.
And when there is an opportunity to meet, whether we can stay together or not, we need to use wisdom to operate.
Love has never been a matter for a single person.
Wishful thinking to love, the result of stalking, can not grasp the direction of emotion.
Only when two people talk very happily and then admire each other can they go to each other. Under the witness of time, both parties will also change from ordinary relationships to lovers.
When you meet the object of your choice, how to complete the love of two people?
Smart friends can realize that attacking the heart is more important than entanglement. Next, everyone needs to go through a certain way to make the other party completely recognize you, accept you, and even one day, become a must for you.
A relationship, going through these stages, will become solid enough.
First, feelings are constantly heating up.
Love doesn't happen overnight.
Although, there is no shortage of love at first sight in this world.
But for most friends, the way people encounter love often goes through a process of gradual heating up.
Two people go from strange to familiar, from getting along to being dependent, until one day, both sides realize that they can no longer be separated from each other. Once such a psychology is formed, love is also realized in the water.
There is an old saying that goes:
I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry.
In fact, when pursuing love, everyone must also have such an awareness.
For people with sincere feelings, they have always had a pure mind about love. Hoping to fall in love with someone is a lifelong thing, so everyone will treat the matter of feelings with a cautious attitude.
Especially when boys pursue girls, they must be mentally prepared step by step.
Don't think that if you confess to the girl, the other party will respond immediately. Usually, if you don't have enough patience and wisdom, it is easy to misunderstand girls and think that the other party does not look up to themselves.
Second, grasp the distance, so that girls can't let go of you.
Everyone hopes to meet the doomed other half as soon as possible.
At the age of love, boys often play the role of active.
If one day, they meet the girl they like, they will have the attitude of cherishing the fate and strive to complete the fate of the two people.
As a boy, you must understand: having the opportunity to meet is only the first step of fate, next, how to make girls remember you? If you want to become a person who loves God, you must master some love skills.
We often hear that distance produces beauty.
Psychologically, girls have a rich imagination.
After having a good feeling for a person, if they cannot further contact each other and understand each other, they will often use their personal imagination advantages to magnify the advantages of each other.
From this point of view, if a man wants to grasp the direction of love, he must strive to leave a good first impression on the girl, so as to win the attention and favor of the other party. Then, through more skills, become the person that the girl can't let go of.
To make girls think of you, there is a way to keep a sense of distance.
First: Show your personal charm in a low-key way.
Girls, born of love.
What kind of man will make girls pay attention?
Usually, the love that girls expect is not only romantic, but also needs to stand in a realistic perspective. They will hope to meet a trustworthy person through love and grasp the happiness of the rest of their lives.
A boy with a calm personality and strength can easily win the attention and favor of girls.
Especially when a man, usually does not speak much, but can use the dazzling results to win everyone's unanimous praise, such a boy will easily win the hearts of girls.
If you meet a girl you like, how to grasp each other's fate?
Men may wish to enhance their personal strength and prove their overall charm with practical actions. Even if you don't show good feelings to girls, in the hearts of girls, they will form a certain sense of mystery for you.
This sense of mystery will prompt girls to have a desire to explore and take the initiative to establish contact with boys.
Second: form a "multi-look effect", and then take the initiative to distance yourself.
The sublimation of fate is inseparable from the necessary interaction.
Smart men will create chance encounters and strive to associate more with girls.
What will be the result of frequent contact between two people?
From the perspective of the interaction between men and women, the number of encounters between people is more, or the number of communication is frequent, it is easy to produce good feelings. Even one day, an invisible sense of dependence will be formed.
Men want to seize love, may wish to strive to communicate more with girls.
And when they are familiar enough with each other, the man keeps a distance from each other, and through the way of estrangement, the girl realizes that there has been an inexplicable connection between the two people.
When a girl has this knowledge, she will accept this boy in a state of involuntary.
Active contact, and then maintain a sense of distance, can help boys, in love to achieve unexpected protection. In this way, girls can realize the importance of this man.
The fate of each other will usher in the opportunity of sublimation.
Third: After taking the initiative to show love, choose to leave as soon as possible.
Love needs to be expressed.
When the relationship between two people has a chance to heat up.
In the next time, how can men grasp the direction of love and become a person worthy of trust in the minds of girls? In fact, even if love comes to this point, it still needs to be managed.
Talking about love is accompanied by an invisible game.
If the man sticks to the girl and does not let go, he may not be able to completely enter her heart. Sometimes, men will face the end of the girl's pampering and arrogance.
Truly intelligent men will seize the opportunity to show their inner love to girls in time.
Even if the girl does not make a clear reply, the man must understand the importance of keeping a distance, and after taking the initiative to confess, through the way of immediate separation, the choice is handed over to the hands of the girl.
The result of this will help the girl cherish the relationship.
In the face of love, girls are cautious.
From the perspective of boys, how to dispel the concerns in women's hearts?
This requires everyone to use their charm and character to become the object that girls are willing to accept. When girls have a good feeling for men, next, everyone also needs to completely grasp women's hearts by wanting to meet and refuse.
The way to make a girl think of you is to maintain a "sense of distance" from her.
Of course, this sense of distance is not really estranged, but to help girls understand the importance of feelings between you, and to give the right to choose into the hands of girls.
In this way, women can realize that they are really in love with a certain boy. Next, girls are easy to change from passive to active, with a positive attitude, together with men, to protect love.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.