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Everyone expresses love in different ways, some people are more grinning, expressing love in major events; some people are more delicate, expressing love in subtleties; and some people usually look at him as if he is not very good, and when it comes to the critical moment, he stands up to protect his lover...
For couples or couples who are in love, they have their way of getting along, and they will express their love in their own way. As a parent or less care, as long as the children are safe and secure, grace and love, it is good, parents to mix their things, only bad, no benefits.
Some mothers-in-law can't see their sons and daughters-in-law being greasy and crooked, etc., in fact, between their two small mouths, "Zhou Yu hits the yellow cover, one is willing to beat one is willing to be beaten", and they go with them. If the husband and wife want to live a serious life every day, they must respect each other as guests, which will be a lot less interesting.
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The mother-in-law went to her son's house to deliver strawberries and saw her son feeding her daughter-in-law, and the mother-in-law was very unhappy. Later, the mother-in-law saw the daughter-in-law eating the tip of the strawberry, and the son eating the rest, and the mother-in-law was angry and scolded the daughter-in-law. After the daughter-in-law was so sad that she insisted on divorce, the son never remarried, and the mother-in-law regretted it.
This is what Su Xingchen has experienced, she is the daughter-in-law. After Su Xingchen and her ex-husband divorced, they remarried after two years and lived a very happy life, but the ex-husband has not remarried. Let's listen to Su Xingchen's story.
Self-narrator: Su Xingchen
Age: 36 years old
Occupation: Clerk
City: Xinle
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When I was 23 years old, my mother had to make a deal with a young man from the next village, and I didn't like the young man, so I gambled and went to my aunt's house. I looked for a job at my aunt's house, and my aunt was afraid that it would be unsafe for me to live outside alone, so she let me live in her house.
Later, I met a young man in my aunt's neighborhood, and he fell in love with me at first sight and pursued me. I also had a good feeling for him, so I accepted his feelings, and the two of us quietly fell in love.
After being in love for about half a year, we took each other home to meet our parents. After I took him back to my hometown, although my mother was a little angry about the last time I ran away, she was quite satisfied after seeing my boyfriend, and she didn't say anything more.
But after my boyfriend brought me home, his mother obviously didn't like me because I was out of town, as if his mother looked down on foreigners. But my boyfriend had to be with me and quarreled with his mother several times, and then his mother had no choice but to agree to our marriage.
After my boyfriend and I got married, because we didn't have the money to buy a wedding house, we had to live with our in-laws. My mother-in-law was forced to accept me as a daughter-in-law, so her heart was unwilling and unwilling, and she was looking for trouble for me everywhere, and no matter what I did, she could always find faults.
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My husband saw that I was wronged and took me out to live. We rented a one-bedroom apartment, and he said that when we had money, we would both buy our own houses.
The in-laws have bad feelings, and when the father-in-law was young, he always went out to pick flowers and weeds, and the mother-in-law put all her feelings on her son. My mother-in-law didn't want to live separately from her son, so when we moved out, she resented me even more, thinking that I had kidnapped her precious son.
One day, my mother-in-law came to bring us strawberries, and she had the keys to our house. A few days after we moved out, my mother-in-law asked my husband for the keys, saying that in case she had something to come to our house. The husband could not help but give her the key, after all, she was her own mother, so the mother-in-law opened the door and came in by herself.
At that time, my husband was feeding me, and my mother-in-law was so angry that her face went black. In my mother-in-law's eyes, I can only serve her son forever, and her son can't do anything for me, because she feels sorry for her son.
In fact, I made all the meals that day, and during the meal, I made a bet with my husband on one thing, and my husband proposed that the loser should feed the winner. As a result, my husband lost, he fed me food, and the two of us were playing. At that time, we were only a few months new and were in the honeymoon period, so naturally we were qingqing and me.
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My mother-in-law said to me angrily, "You don't have a long hand?" How old are you to ask my son to feed you? Was the son I had worked so hard to raise called by you as a slave..."
My mother-in-law scolded me viciously, I didn't know what to say, the tears immediately fell, and then I went back to the room. In order to defend me, my husband argued with my mother-in-law, who scolded him for being a slut. The mother-in-law also said that she had raised her son, and before she bothered her son to feed her, the son went to serve others first.
Later, my husband came into the room to coax me and told me not to worry about it, saying that my mother-in-law was unhappy in her own marriage, and she could not see the love of others. In order to make me happy, my husband gave me the strawberries brought by my mother-in-law to eat, and I was so angry that I didn't want to eat my mother-in-law's things.
The husband said that this was not the mother-in-law's thing, it was sent by the father-in-law's friend, two baskets were sent, and the father-in-law asked the mother-in-law to send us a basket. But I still gambled not to eat, and my husband said that he let me eat the part of the strawberry tip, and he ate the rest, indicating that I was the person on the tip of his heart.
My husband kept coaxing me, I think it was my mother-in-law's problem, I shouldn't throw gas on my husband, so I borrowed the donkey down the slope to eat the strawberries he handed over. I ate the tip of the strawberry, and my husband ate the rest of the part, and every strawberry did the same.
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When my husband saw that my anger was gradually subsiding, he laughed happily, and then continued to hand me strawberries, and a storm seemed to be about to pass. But at this moment, a wave of uneven waves rose again. The mother-in-law suddenly pushed the door in and saw that I was eating the part of the strawberry tip while her son was eating the rest.
The mother-in-law was furious and scolded me for being a vampire and wanting to suck her son's blood dry. The mother-in-law said that the strawberries were for his son, not for me, and I was a wild from out of town and ran to their house to become a princess. I was so angry that I ignored my husband's pull on me and insisted on taking the bag to my aunt's house.
Later, because of my mother-in-law's affair, I insisted on divorcing my husband. It's not that I don't love him, it's that I know that my mother-in-law will always be mixed up with us, and I don't want to embarrass my husband anymore.
My aunt also advised me to divorce me, and the relationship between mother and son was always cut off. I have such a mother-in-law, and over time, the relationship between husband and wife will be affected, so it is difficult for me to be happy. So I insisted on divorce, and my husband was heartbroken, he didn't want to divorce, but finally agreed.
After the divorce, I went back to my hometown, and two years later, I married a blind date, and I was very happy after marriage. My aunt said that my ex-husband had not remarried and had a bad relationship with his mother, who regretted breaking up her son's marriage.
epilogue:
The influence of the original family on a person is very large, so if parents really love their children, they must strive to manage their marriage and family well and let their children grow up in a happy environment.
Some women put all their emotions on their sons because their marriages are not happy. After the son got married, he found that the son's emotions were poured into the daughter-in-law, and the mother-in-law's psychology was very unbalanced, so she squeezed and embarrassed the daughter-in-law everywhere.
In fact, in the subconscious of this mother-in-law, she regards her daughter-in-law as an enemy who snatched her son. Su Xingchen's former mother-in-law is like this, she thinks that she loves her son, in fact, she is occupying her son's feelings and harming her son.
The little couple, newlywed Yan'er, feed each other a meal, the wife is spoiled, and the husband coaxes her, which is a normal thing. If the mother-in-law is really good for her son, she should be very happy to see her son and daughter-in-law flirting like this. But Su Xingchen's mother-in-law was jealous, so she was not used to this kind of behavior.
When the child grows up, the mother must learn to let go, and the child is his own, not the mother's private property. Everyone is an independent individual, has his own life, no one can impose his own ideas on others, and people must respect each other, and the same is true between mother and child.
Author: A creator in the field of emotions, focusing on various issues in the field of emotions, welcome to pay attention. Life has warmth because of love and love, let us grow in love, and spend every day in true feelings.