Parents should be very clear in their hearts that the IQ of most children is almost the same, but it is undeniable that some children are indeed born with a higher level of intelligence, and will be reflected in daily life, but unfortunately many parents do not recognize this.
For example, in the process of raising children, many parents will lament that after the children reach a certain age, they seem to have become "bear children". Mischievous and mischievous, not to mention, often disobey the discipline of parents, which makes parents very headache.
But in fact, this may be a manifestation of the child's "high intelligence", parents should not rush to correct.
Demolition of homes, littering of things, and the performance of children's "mischief" make parents tired
Jingjing's children are particularly naughty, and when they are young, they like to tear paper, throw things, and engage in destruction. When it was time to walk, he would start running around and turning things around.
After Jingjing's children went to kindergarten, they still did not let parents and teachers worry about it, the toys issued in the kindergarten, other children were honestly playing, jingjing's children were willing to do damage, so Jingjing often received complaints from teachers.
Usually the child is at home, but also throws toys everywhere, more importantly, he often plays with his parents' electronic products, Jingjing does not want the child to see electronic products, but the children can play clearly.
So many times, Jingjing is both loving and angry with children. Especially when she saw the mess of the child's hoho at home, Jingjing felt particularly tired.
Psychologists have shown that children with high IQs in general will mostly have several bad habits in childhood
The book "Gifted Children – A Scientific Guide to Raising Children" argues that children with high IQs have signs to follow before the age of 5.
Therefore, a few "bad habits" in the eyes of Bao Mom are usually a manifestation of the high IQ of the children in the family, and parents do not have to rush to correct them.
▼ I have been chanting in my parents' ears all the time, like a small talk
Psychologist Gardner's "multiple intelligences theory" divides human intelligence into 8 independent intelligent components, the first of which is linguistic intelligence.
If the child shows signs of speaking earlier, or if the child understands and reacts quickly when the parent communicates with the child, it can indicate that he is smart.
▼ I like to scribble on the walls and am quite creative
Psychologist Terman once did a follow-up test of more than 1,000 high-IQ children, from the age of 11 to middle-aged and elderly children.
The tracking results found that those children with higher intelligence levels have one thing in common - they have super creativity.
Therefore, when parents find that their children like to graffiti on the wall, it may be a manifestation of creativity and needs to be paid attention to by mothers.
▼ The ability to dismantle the house is not weaker than the trickster of the "husky"
People who own pet dogs call huskies small masters of demolition, and the destructive power of demolition children is not inferior to that of huskies.
If your child has also shown great hands-on ability or transformation ability, then congratulations, he may be a highly intelligent child.
▼Strong ability to observe small things
Observant children tend to be very focused, able to devote themselves to something and patiently observing subtle things.
This is a trait that many ordinary children do not have, and if parents find that their children have good observation, they must cultivate them with care.
The performance of the child's high IQ is reflected in the details, and parents should be carefully guided when they find one
Many parents are envious of those children with high IQ and call them "other people's children", but in fact, although the level of children's innate IQ has certain genetic factors, they are inseparable from the cultivation of the day after tomorrow.
If parents find that their children have the above special characteristics, they should carefully guide and encourage their children to explore freely, rather than using words to combat their nature.
Written to the end: although the level of IQ can not determine a person's success or failure, but the real genius, but also need 1% talent and 99% of the effort, so people do not ignore the importance of acquired efforts.