For love, each of us will have different expectations, love is our spiritual food in this world, good love, can make us continue to grow, but bad love, but will destroy our happiness.
There is no right or wrong in the world of feelings, when two people are just together, in fact, they are for a long time, but why can some people go through a lifetime together, and some people are scattered halfway? In fact, the answer is very simple, that is, we have not been able to love people in the right way.
If in the world of feelings, you always love each other in this way, then sooner or later the two of you will also fall apart.
Jingjing is 22 years old this year, just graduated from college, graduated from college only, in order not to be different from her boyfriend, she resolutely gave up a high-paying job and shared his city with her boyfriend.
At first, the two of them were still quite happy in their lives, but gradually, Jingjing could not find a sense of belonging in the city, and every time she returned home from work, she saw her boyfriend playing games, which also made Jingjing a little disgusted with such a life.
Everyone's rent and utility bills need to be borne by Jingjing alone, which also makes Jingjing become more and more passive in this relationship.
She also advised her boyfriend to go out and find a job, but for Jingjing's persuasion, her boyfriend did not pay attention to it at all.
In this relationship, Jingjing has already become scarred, and finally one day, Jingjing proposed to break up, at first the boyfriend did not think so, felt that Jingjing could not do without him, but in the end under the difficult choice, Jingjing chose to return to her hometown and left the sad place.
From this relationship, Jingjing also understood a truth, that is, the love that a person rushes to, in the end, will only become difficult, so that there is no future day, just a waste of youth, delay each other.
Love needs to communicate, more need to communicate, only when you use the other party's method to love people, feelings can become long-lasting.
01.
Don't hurt people with cold violence
Cold violence should not be used on the person you love the most, the reason why you can hurt the other party is because he loves you enough, otherwise he will only love you and ignore you.
Cold violence is actually an obstacle to the feelings of two people, if in a relationship, you always use cold violence to hurt each other, then the feelings between you will become dispensable.
Two people together should have cared for each other, and fierce quarrels and tacit communication will only make the feelings between you become cold.
In the world of feelings, what we are most afraid of is to meet such a person, no one will give their enthusiasm to a person they do not love, so when there is a person who is willing to be enthusiastic about you, you must learn to cherish it.
Feelings can not withstand cold, a person's most feared is cold violence, if you have been hurting each other with an attitude of indifference, then feelings will become a mess.
In this world, we will meet all kinds of people, and if you treat a person with a cold attitude, then the feelings between you will also be scattered.
02.
Don't force the other person to do something they don't like
True love should be tolerance and compromise, two people together, the most important thing is to understand each other, if you always force each other to do things he does not like, then the feelings between you will become cold.
True love is something that can make a person feel happy, not a limitation.
The wisdom of love lies in keeping both parties in a sense of novelty forever. - Moloya
If the other person feels bound in you, then over time, he will also become disgusted with you.
Don't force each other to change, this is our most basic respect for each other.
If you always limit a person in the name of his good, then you are doing this only as a sign of selfishness.
If we really love someone, we should not force each other to change, but learn to change ourselves, so that the relationship between you will last.
03.
Don't do something that's sorry for the other person
Two people together will inevitably have contradictions, but when we encounter contradictions, we must learn to properly resolve them, only in this way, the feelings between the two will become sweet.
When two people are together, the most basic thing is to learn to be loyal, because only in this way will the road of love go further.
Loyalty is our concern for each other, feelings are not a child's play, can not be casually tempted, maintain principles, in order to keep the bottom line.
There is a formal path to falling into the web of love, but there is no such thing as a web of liberation. - Hardy
Feelings, need two people to cherish each other, two people together, the most important thing is to learn to care for each other, rather than endless quarrels, quarrels will only make the feelings between the two of you fade.
Love is the beautiful pursuit of each of us, to be able to meet a person who is in tune, but also our luck in the emotional life, I hope that everyone in the face of love, can understand that who in this world can find happiness, two people can meet in the vast sea of people, is a kind of beauty, so learn to cherish, can always be happy.