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When a person wants to prove in his heart whether he is truly in love with a person, he is not actually contacted every day.
Because when a person loves another person and contacts each other every day, it is to put this love in a more exaggerated position, and does not put him on his heart.
When one person loves another person, it is really not maintained by contact, and some couples are separated for three to five years, and when they reunite again, they will still be moved and still want to fall in love.
Women really love a man, and they have to learn to "cold" men.
The more frequently two people contact each other, the more the two people understand each other, the more they know each other's strengths and weaknesses, but it is easier to reduce points in each other's hearts.
Only when a person does not know a person so well will he have expectations and fantasies of love for him.
No matter how men are like this, so are women, because what they can only get is the best, and what they don't have for the time being is the most worthy of their own desire.
In a relationship between the sexes, people who are in touch with each other every day, two people who maintain close contact, will not have a good relationship, how indestructible.
Learn to create some anticipation for men, learn to be less proactive in feelings, and learn to let men contact you from time to time.
When two people are very famous for each other, when the woman is in front of the man, without a trace of mystery, that is the beginning of the man's loss of interest in you.
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Xiao Pan said: "Pursuing a man is never trying to show kindness, giving full affection, or chasing after him, which will make you more and more worthless in front of men, thinking that if you really get a man, you will completely conquer him." ”
Indeed, the more a woman clings to a man, the more men will not be able to avoid it, because men also need space, men also need freedom, and men need women's respect in feelings.
A woman who is more mysterious about men, a woman who will not and frequently contact men, the easier it is to hang the man's appetite, the easier it is to make the man fall in love with you.
When in love, women are emotionally invested, not like when they were young, the ignorant are fearless, full of enthusiasm and love brain, women should maintain their independent sobriety and personality.
Because what a man wants in his relationship is not a virtuous woman at all, a woman who is too virtuous, in marriage, only plays the role of a nanny, an aunt.
Men will only be interested in themselves, spend time and energy, and only stay away from people they don't like.
Don't care if the man manages too tightly, the man looks at the beautiful woman next door a few times while eating, which is not a big deal.
Women do not need to use this to worry about the topic, and even quarrels between two people, affecting the feelings of two people.
Men have the freedom to want to see beautiful women, and the woman also has the freedom to want to see handsome men, after all, for men, beautiful women see more, and only that taste.
Women don't think that when a man looks at other beautiful women, his own world collapses, because it's really no big deal.
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Women in the relationship, do not be so simple and kind, do not be sold by others, but also help others count money.
Women should know a little bit about the machine, especially in the relationship between men and women, which is both a game between two people and an equal opponent of two people.
Women want to pinch a man, women want to routine a man, it is never you who love him well, you can catch this man, your enthusiasm for him, you give to him wholeheartedly, not that men will fall in love with you.
In life, the kinder the woman, the more single-mindedly she is, and in the end there is nothing, and she ends up in a complete failure.
The more proactive a woman is, the less the man will cherish; the more a woman gives, the more the man will turn a blind eye to you.
Don't be the woman who always lets men get you too easily, because the man who gets you in this way will not cherish you well.
Women in the relationship, do not put yourself into a passive position, because you are so easy to lose each other in the relationship.
Women in the relationship, do not be that, always obedient men, so that for him, there is no little challenge, can not arouse the man a little desire to conquer, men will also be you, lose all interest.
You know, those more willful, more cunning women, it is easier to get the love of men, it is easier to get emotional happiness.
Women can learn to be cold to men in their feelings, and it is also to give themselves some room for the progress of love.
Women are too good to men at the beginning, there is no room for growth, and men's expectations of you will plummet.
Because what he wants is that you can be better to him, you can be more and better to him, but you have no room for improvement, and he no longer has any interest.
A man's feelings for a woman are gone, that's when he leaves you.
If you don't grasp the man's heart at all during the critical period of the man's feelings for you, it is equivalent to you losing the man forever.
Women in the relationship, do a good job, always more important than to love men well, because the unique you, but also have a man's love for you.
Stephen Zweig wrote in His Book When the Stars of Mankind Shine: "There is nothing more unforgivable than being forced to wake up from sincere enthusiasm and realize that the man who gave them all their hopes was the one they were disappointed with." ”
Therefore, when a woman loves a man, she must always leave a little room for herself, and do not let her sincerity be sincere in exchange for discouragement.
Women should learn to guide men and take the initiative to pay for themselves, women should learn to create a little emotional problem, let men be nervous for you, and you will firmly grasp the man's heart.
Because from the beginning to the end, the man loves not the woman who will contact him every day, but the woman who will cold him.
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