There is no doubt that Fang Yinuo is selfish.
Xiao Lu cheated after drinking, and the marriage between the two was in crisis.
She was angry, disappointed, resentful, and in this mood, she resolutely and resolutely filed for divorce, which was really understandable.
After all, Xiao Lu was committing a matter of principle.
In marriage, some problems can be repaired and saved, but this kind of error of principle is a hurdle that cannot be crossed under any circumstances.
Endure or separate.
Fang Yinuo's choice is not wrong.
But her mistake was that after the divorce, she completely deprived Xiao Lu of her rights as a father, and even deprived Gao Caiping and Xiao Xu of her rights as grandmothers and uncles.
For four whole years, both families lived in the same city, but Fang Yinuo was stunned that he had not let the Xiao family see Hehe again.
How much hate is this?
How cruel is it again?
Although Xiao Lu is wrong, in the parenting stage, there are certainly dereliction of duty, but it cannot be denied that he has also paid love to the child.
He was not a good father like Xie Tianhua, but he was also not a bad father.
Fang Yinuo's severing of all contact with the child was not fair to Xiao Lu, and even cruel.
And for his daughter Hehe, how can he not be cruel?
The four years of paternal love she lacked could not be compensated for.
We take ten thousand steps back, Fang Yinuo has hatred and resentment against Xiao Lu, and there is even more diaphragm that is difficult to let go of no matter how hard he tries, but it is Xiao Lu who hurts you, what does it have to do with his mother-in-law Gao Caiping?
Let the family be a grandmother, and I will not see my granddaughter for four years.
What the child looks like, how tall he becomes, as a close relative, he knows nothing. At this point, Fang Yinuo was also selfish enough.
But Fang Yinuo's selfishness, how can it stop here?
01: Don't let the Xiao family see the child, but can calmly let the Xie family accept Hehe
Why did Fang Yinuo marry Xie Tianhua?
In fact, the most important point is that Xie Tianhua really regards Hehe as his own.
Speaking of details, it is easiest to reflect a person's character.
Fang Yinuo gave birth to a child with postpartum incontinence, Xiao Lu helped her clean up, while revealing the disgust, can make her remember to hate for a lifetime.
And Xie Tianhua, every detail of this man and child's relationship reflects the most tender and loving scene.
Hehe was diagnosed with leukemia and underwent chemotherapy in order to control the outbreak. Because of chemotherapy, my hair fell crazy, and I ate and vomited.
The scene of Xie Tianhua shaving his head with the child is really a cry once. How many incompetent fathers have been punched in the face by a stepfather who has done this?
There is also a scene of details, which is even more touching.
When Hehe wanted to hug Xie Tianhua, he accidentally threw up. Xie Tianhua's immediate reaction was to hold Hehe's vomit in his hand.
At this point, Xie Tianhua was far superior to Xiao Lu.
And the same is by Hehe's side, Fang Yinuo's reaction to this mother is not as good as Xie Tianhua.
Fang Yinuo will "pick" Xie Tianhua, to say love, that is really not, more is touching, is the consideration of the daughter's lack of father's love.
She wanted to find a competent father for Hehe.
The most unacceptable thing is this.
While depriving Xiao Lu of the right to be a father, Fang Yinuo also began his second marriage in order to have a father.
But She had a father.
This can't help but remind people of The Queen of Heaven, Faye Wong, who was also betrayed by her ex-husband, but she did not let her hatred affect the children.
When asked by the media about the father she wanted to find for her daughter, she was even more domineering and replied, "Tong Tong she has a father, what I am looking for is a partner."
Fang Yinuo's sharpness is actually selfishness.
Her selfishness made an honest man take on all the responsibilities of a father. Her selfishness also allowed her parents to bear many unnecessary burdens.
Fang Yinuo's choice not only bitter himself, but also dragged down the people around him.
Why did Xie Tianhua's sister Xie Dan always dislike Fang Yinuo? In ordinary life, it is even more disregarding the sister-in-law's affection and directly choking?
Xie Dan, at first glance, is really unpleasant.
When you speak, you have to be unforgiving. When you are angry, you are even more afraid to catch people to death. As soon as it opens, it's either choking on that or choking on this.
But is she the bad guy?
Many older sisters with younger brothers often go to both extremes. Or it is to blindly protect the younger brother, give and give, and show the style of the eldest sister like a mother.
Or just treat your brother like a son, and that care, more often than not, is harsh.
And Shedan, the latter.
The reason why she couldn't accept Fang Yinuo was that she couldn't understand that Fang Yinuo could take Hehe with peace of mind and marry Xie Tianhua?
It is one thing that her brother Xie Tianhua is willing to marry, and it is another thing that she Is willing to take her daughter and marry calmly.
In addition to feeling aggrieved for Xie Tianhua, Xie Dan is probably more difficult to understand that Hehe has his own biological father and his own grandmother.
Let your father and grandmother not, you have to run to the Xie family, calling the Xie family who are not related by blood "Daddy, grandparents", right?
Raising children for others, and raising them to this one, there is no such reason.
Xie Dan felt wronged not only for Xie Tianhua, but also for his parents.
In addition to Fang Yinuo's second marriage, he also brought a daughter so that Xie Dan could not let go, there was actually another factor.
That is, after Fang Yinuo married Xie Tianhua, although she tried hard to be a good wife and a good daughter-in-law, she did not do a good job.
He and Xie Tianhua have been married for more than a year, but they still have not given birth to their own children.
Fang Yinuo, who is married for the second time, is already considered to be "advanced age".
If you really have the heart to give xie Tianhua a child, it should be there now, after all, if you delay for a few more years, the more difficult it is to get pregnant, not to mention, raising a child will be inadequate.
But Fang Yinuo did not.
What is she worried about?
With such a good in-laws and such a good husband, even if there is any shadow on the birth of the first child, for their good, because of their good.
How many will you want to try, want to spell it out, right?
But Fang Yinuo still didn't, not so much that she didn't want to, but rather that she was taking care of Hehe.
From beginning to end, the one who ranked at the forefront of Fang Yinuo's heart was always his daughter Hehe.
And Xie Dan realized this and deeply felt that it was not worth it for his younger brother Xie Tianhua.
02: Hehe is ill, and Fang Yinuo's selfishness is thoroughly exposed
Fang Yinuo divorced for three years, and her daughter Hehe has always been brought by herself and her parents, and she has not let the Xiao family contribute a penny.
Later, she remarried and took Hehe to marry into the Xie family.
This child is what she and Xie Tianhua are carrying.
But it is said that Fang Yinuo and Xie Tianhua belt, the actual year after marriage, with Hehe more is the Xie family's parents.
It is precisely because they have personally brought it up, so the Xie family's parents have also paid their hearts to Hehe.
In the year of remarriage, Fang Yinuo did not ask the Xiao family for a point of maintenance from Xiao Lu.
When Hehe was fine, Fang Yinuo wanted to fight for a breath and carry out the "fierce oath" he had issued to the end, that was her business.
Although some drag on the people around them, it has not yet reached the point of "people and gods are indignant".
But When Hehe checked out leukemia, Fang Yinuo also chose not to tell the Xiao family, and when she carried it alone, she completely exposed her selfish nature.
The treatment of leukemia requires the investment of huge manpower, material and financial resources, and if you are not careful, it is a ruin.
Under such circumstances, Fang Yinuo chose to carry it herself, hurting her parents, can she let it go?
Xie Tianhua, who loves her deeply, can she let it go?
And if Xie Tianhua insisted on managing, the parents of the Xie family, who were already distressed by Hehe, could watch their son being forced into a desperate situation by medical expenses?
They are not rich enough to live in their homes.
Xie Tianhua's parents are also kind and honest people. Watching his son do this, he either broke his heart or emptied his pocket.
Shedan's anger seemed extremely cold on the surface.
Which sentence is actually in one sentence, and there is no word?
"Helping is the love point, not helping is also the duty", Hehe is not related to their Xie family, Xie Tianhua and the Xie family's parents can do this is already benevolent and righteous.
If you really want to put a family in, then this day will not pass?
What's more crucial is that Hehe is ill and did not let the Xie family pay and contribute, and let the Xiao family of the "right lord" completely stay out of the matter, right?
Xie Dan's anger is an indictment of his parents, but also an indictment of his brother's selfish behavior.
Fang Yinuo accepted Xie Tianhua's efforts to pay at all costs for Hehe, was it not disguised to force the Xie family to pay along?
If it weren't for the fact that everyone's bone marrow matching style didn't match, Fang Yinuo wouldn't have told Xiao Jiahe about his illness even to death.
That Xie Tianhua, and the entire Xie family, could be dragged down by Hehe's illness.
Just for the sake of fighting for their own breath, drag people to this one, the Xie family owes you?
What's more, Xiao Lu is not without money.
But Fan Fang Yinuo was willing to bow his head and be willing to be soft, whether it was her, her parents, or Xie Tianhua, she could be much more relaxed.
Let's leave aside the money thing, Hehe suffers from leukemia, and to say that it is ugly, it is very likely that he will not survive.
If there is really something wrong with Hehe, then the Xiao family will not only not see the last side of the child, but will always be kept in the dark, and it will feel cruel to think about.