Collapse, depression, selfishness, rebellion, anxiety...
These troubles even accompany people's lifelong problems,
It can be traced back to the time period of 3 to 6 years old.
How do children grow?
What does it take to connect with the world?
How parents seize this period,
Building the foundation for a happy life for children?
@Parents Must Read Parenting Science Applied Research Center
united
@Three Orange Media @Youku Parent-Child
For life education, together with 9 experts,
Around 15 children and their families,
On
"Sharing and Cooperation" "Resilience"
"Self-protection consciousness" and "autonomy"
"Empathy" "Parent-Child Trust"
6 themes,
Through a series of experiments,
Unlock the code of children's psychological development.
Topics in this issue
My body is in my hands
The child's sense of self-protection
What the hell is going on?
Children's need for self-protection
Have a basic understanding?
The sex education we give can not be
What about helping them learn to protect themselves?
For privacy protection
How much the child knows
And how much can it be done?
Experts in this issue
Cui Yutao
Director of the Pediatric Clinic of Cui Yutao Yu Gakuen
Liu Guoping
Associate Editor of Parents' Must Read magazine
Experiments in this issue
Photo shoot activities
I installed a fitting room in advance
Experimental site,
The experimenter is ready for the children
Nice clothes,
Ask for the little ones
Change your clothes
in order to take pictures.
In this process,
How will children choose?
Will change clothes in public
Or do you walk into the fitting room?
Let's take a look.
In this experiment,
Whether it's a child alone,
Or a little boy and a little girl together,
Most of them don't realize it
Change clothes to avoid others,
I was even less aware of the existence of the fitting room.
their privacy awareness and gender perception,
Parental guidance is required.
DuoDuo is in this experiment,
The only one
Offer to change clothes where the child,
And after walking into the fitting room and pulling the curtains,
Just started changing clothes.
Experts say: Be wary of the authoritative environment
In an authoritative environment or acquaintance environment, our vigilance tends to be reduced.
However, it does not indicate that the danger is decreasing.
If the doctor involves some private parts when treating the child, he must seek the consent of the father and mother.
It is important for fathers and mothers to say to their children, "Because this is a hospital, this doctor can do it now."
Instead of letting the doctor be the master, be sure to let the parents tell the child.
Experts say: Do a good job in gender education enlightenment
If it is a boy, from a young age, it should be the father who helps him change clothes and bathe more, then the girl should be the mother or other female family.
Don't think that the child doesn't know anything when he is young, or that as long as it is a family member, it doesn't matter. We need to develop the concept of gender differences at a very young age.
Experts say: Self-protection should achieve the unity of knowledge and action
Privacy is not innate, but needs to be learned the day after tomorrow.
Many children will have a situation of different knowledge and action, for children, he will lack relevant experience and experience, therefore, the child's sense of self-protection must be implemented in real life.
As a parent, in addition to educating the child on safety knowledge, it is actually more important to establish a close relationship with the child, and when he encounters difficulties and setbacks, he will actively go to the parents for help.
Instead of saying that my father will definitely beat me, my mother will definitely scold me, so I don't dare to tell him, I will deal with it myself.
In addition, under the guidance of experts,
This issue also set up a privacy awareness small class,
Help the little ones
Know the private parts of boys and girls.
Scan the QR code on the poster and watch the full video
Review of the first three episodes
Parents' Must Read magazine went on sale in April 2022