There will also be a hierarchy of confinement centers.
Nowadays, more and more women will choose to stay in the confinement center, on the one hand, because the confinement center can provide a lot of intimate services, as long as the mother can think of services, they can meet.
On the other hand, it is because the cost of the confinement center is very high. You can use this to test the importance that the in-laws attach to themselves, and if they can meet their own ideas of staying in the confinement center, the daughter-in-law will be complacent.
The woman stayed in the 60,000 yuan confinement center, and the husband had no choice but to mention the divorce: Do you think you deserve it?
A small couple in Jiangxi got into a divorce because of the confinement center. When Ms. Zhang was pregnant, she told her husband Xiao Wang that after giving birth, I must go to the best confinement center!
At that time, the husband did not pay attention to it, thinking that this was just a whimsy of his wife, and when he really had a child, he knew that the money was going to be spent on the blade, and perhaps this idea was self-defeating.
I just didn't expect ms. Zhang to repeatedly emphasize this matter throughout her pregnancy, and even in the month before the upcoming delivery, she frequently contacted the top local confinement center. This time it doesn't look like it's a joke, it seems like it's really going to happen.
In this way, the husband did not say anything, thinking that if there was a conflict with Ms. Zhang at such a critical time, what would happen if it affected the birth of the child? He even fantasized about the idea that miracles could change.
But when Ms. Zhang gave birth and everything went smoothly and could be discharged from the hospital, Ms. Zhang said to her husband: I have just contacted the confinement center, they immediately drove over to pick us up, and you told your mother to prepare 60,000 yuan to pay for the move-in.
Hearing Ms. Zhang say this, her husband immediately became angry, and you really fixed the confinement center? You want 60,000 yuan a month, do you think you deserve it? Ms. Zhang's brain was blank at that time, and she didn't know why the things that had been said had changed?
After a few minutes of suffering, she immediately replied to her husband and said: I have given birth to this child in my life, why can't I live better? Doesn't my body need proper conditioning?
Just when the two sides were deadlocked, the husband said very helplessly: If you have to go to this confinement center, we have to divorce! With your view of consumption, we simply can't live together.
What exactly caused the rupture of both sides' concerns?
The woman's moral kidnapping of her husband is indeed a bit unreasonable
This matter has now evolved into this, it can be said that it is a slap on the wrist, and both husband and wife have responsibilities that cannot be shirked, but I think more mistakes are in the woman!
First of all, for the matter of staying in the confinement center, it has always been her wishful thinking, even if she has mentioned it to her husband during pregnancy, she is not asking for her husband's opinion, but informing her husband.
Secondly, he has been morally kidnapping her husband, and in her thinking, she feels that because she only has this one child, and she lives in the confinement center once, she must enjoy the most extreme service. It has not even been considered the actual situation of the family and the willingness of the family members to accept it.
Finally, she is irresponsible for her own actions. Even if she wants to enjoy the best service, she can completely pay for it herself, so that even if her family does not approve, she cannot say anything, after all, this money is her own. But now Ms. Zhang asked her mother-in-law to pay for herself, and even did not consult with the person who paid the bill in advance, is this not too strong?
And, if it is only because of this problem, this husband should not choose divorce so hastily, after all, two people, just ushered in the crystallization of love, could have enjoyed the joy of heaven, but resolutely chose divorce must have other contradictions.
For both sides of the three views of discord, timely stop loss is the best way to solve
In the process of educating their children, parents will repeatedly emphasize helping them establish the correct three views, only with the correct three views, can they help them succeed, even if there is any deviation, it will lead to a total loss.
And when looking for the other half, both sides will also examine whether each other's three views are the same, because only by communicating and living on the same frequency can it be considered effective communication.
If two people's three views are not compatible, even if they can enjoy temporary happiness, sooner or later they will be separated. Just like Xiao Wang and Ms. Zhang, the concept of consumption is different, and in the future life, it must be the fuse of contradictions, and the misunderstanding of each other is getting deeper and deeper, and it is better to stop the loss in time.
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