In China, confinement is a very exquisite tradition, and it is not understood whether this is also the case abroad. Why is the confinement period so important? Because after the completion of childbirth, women are in a weak state, not only the body but also the psychology, so in order to allow the mother to get a good psychosomatic recovery, will make full use of the 40 days after childbirth for "rapid repair", there is also a "hundred days and months" saying.
Because of the importance, there will be a variety of taboos and strange customs, although most people now think that it is feudal superstition, but the implicit truth should be that few people can explain one or two.
For example, the custom of not being able to return to her mother's house like the confinement is really just a feudal superstition? I guess most new age women hear this statement, and their first reaction is the feudal stubborn thinking of the older generation. But the implicit benefits are not well received. If it is analyzed from all aspects, it still has some "truth".
First of all, in the confinement period, take the baby back to the mother's home, close to ok, if it is a long way, then go to a trip to the baby and the mother's body.
The postpartum mother is weak and has little range of motion. Newborns are even more delicate and can't stand any tossing. And the baby is just beginning to the human world, the external environment also needs to be slowly adapted, if the environment is frequently replaced, it is not conducive to the baby to adapt to the new environment, it is easy to vomit and diarrhea, crying and other situations such as water and soil disobedience, the baby is a trouble, no one has a good night's sleep, at this time the sin is not only the baby.
Second, the matriarchal family carries inevitable complications. As the saying goes, a daughter who marries out is a spill of water. If a daughter returns with her child to confinement, she will have to face all kinds of gossip in the village and the complicated situation of her mother's family.
Especially in the family of a sister-in-law or younger sibling, it is very easy to cause "family wars", and the relationship between women is more calculated, so it is not cost-effective to cause internal conflicts among family members.
And the recovery of the maternal body is also very affected by emotional factors, now the probability of women suffering from postpartum depression is on the rise, if you encounter some things in the mother's home, the baby and the mother can not get the cultivation of the confinement period.
Finally, after returning to her mother's house during the confinement period, there were things that could not be helped by Bao Dad in time. If something happens to the mother's family and needs Bao Dad, Bao Dad has the heart and is unable to help. And the mother who can't get the care of the baby dad is easy to think wildly. Papa and Mom are emotionally prone to negligence. Moreover, the current parenting experts have also suggested that the parenting work involved by Bao Dad should not be less than that of Bao Ma, so the confinement period without Bao Dad's participation is not conducive to family harmony. Babies also need their father's care and companionship.
On the whole, it is still reasonable not to let go back to the mother's house to sit in confinement, and it is not all feudal superstition.
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