1, single mother is confessed, can you still believe in love after divorce?
After Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu divorced, she did not plan to look for it again. In fact, she understood Xie Tianhua's meaning, and she also knew that Xie Tianhua loved herself. However, the damage left by the last marriage made her dare not take another step forward easily.
However, Xie Tianhua once again impressed Fang Yinuo with his actions and sincerity.
Xie Tianhua is a thick and responsible man, and his love for the other party is always firm and warm.
When he confessed to Fang Yinuo, he said: "I like that you are not ashamed. Even if you don't like me, I'm not ashamed. ”
Fang Yinuo asked him, what do you like about me?
Xie Tianhua replied honestly, "I don't know, but I know that even if you don't like me, I won't give up, and I will love you and Hehe well." ”
This sentence made Fang Yinuo moved, what woman does not want to be loved?
However, Fang Yinuo has her concerns, a woman with a baby, to open a relationship again is to face a lot of practical problems. For example, will the other family accept a single mother? Another is whether the other party can really accept the child? And their own physical changes will also make themselves inferiority complex, can the other party really accept and tolerate?
These things do not make it clear that she does not dare to choose love again, because she will not allow herself to repeat the experience of the last time.
Wang Lixin's ex-wife Wu Yating said that when asked if she had considered the idea of finding another person, she held back tears and said: "There is no time and qualification to accept another love." There are many better options, why choose me? ”
Women will have such thoughts about their next relationship after divorce, and they need a lot of courage to overcome inferiority.
Wu Yating said, have you ever thought about the person you like, that person also likes you. When you need to develop further, how can you face your body calmly?
Whether it's the sagging breasts, the extra flesh that accumulates on the stomach, or the scar from the caesarean section, it must have been a very big blow to me or the mother who gave birth.
Although, others tell you that it is okay, you are very good, you are still very good-looking, but how do you face it?
In fact, only women who have experienced divorce will feel empathy! She just doesn't dare to easily walk into a relationship, this is not done, but the last relationship has caused a shadow for her, and she will not be confident when she meets that person again, and she will have a lot of concerns.
And this requires a strong tolerance of people, enough to make her trust, let her feel safe people, she will be relieved to start new feelings.
Whether the other party can accept and tolerate their children is a real problem.
Marriage is not easy, and the second marriage is more testing of the feelings of two people.
2, even if the world does not approve, but I still like you
Xie Tianhua saw Fang Yinuo's concerns, he was not in a hurry, but used actions to tell Fang Yinuo that he could be a good father and a good husband.
First of all, Xie Tianhua began to fight for his family's consent to fall in love with Fang Yinuo. He bought expensive gifts and coaxed his mother and sister to agree, but was strongly opposed.
In particular, the sister was very angry, thinking that her brother, a single boy, wanted to marry a woman with children, and she was angry.
Xie Tianhua did not instigate at all, he said very firmly: "What happened with the child?" If someone is divorced, they can't find it again, can't they get married again? ”
He was very serious with his parents and sister, and said, I also asked myself if I still like Yinuo? I thought about it for a long time and found that I still liked her, and I could accept her no matter what. I was just strong with her, and I felt comfortable.
The sister said angrily that we did not agree.
Xie Tianhua's stubborn temper also came up, saying, "What if I just look for her?" I just like her. That's it. ”
His family looked at him with an attitude of non-commitment, and he was helpless.
In fact, Xie Tianhua has liked Fang Yinuo since college, and he has not started a family for so many years, he saw that Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu were divorced, and he lit up new hopes, he wanted to be with Fang Yinuo. Someone who likes it for so many years doesn't hate her because she's divorced, he likes her just because she's her.
Fang Yinuo took her daughter to play with the slide in the playground, and when Hehe saw the children playing with her father, she looked at it enviously, and even the slide was not played.
The little girl kept calling Daddy, Daddy, and Hehe followed suit. The little girl shouted at her, "This is my father."
Wo Wo was dumbfounded there...
This scene was looked at by Fang Yinuo, and she suddenly realized that the child also needed a father.
One day, Xie Tianhua accompanied Hehe to play in his shop, and Hehe wanted to catch fish. Xie Tianhua asked Yinuo to take a fish tank, and Hehe fished out a small goldfish and said, This is a small goldfish baby. Fang Yinuo took the fish tank and continued. The two looked at Hehe, who was a baby goldfish.
Then, Hehe fished out another one and said, This is the mother goldfish. The two thought the child was just fishing and playing.
However, Hehe fished another black goldfish and said, "This is the father of the goldfish, it is a family." ”
At this moment, Fang Yinuo was a little embarrassed, and Xie Tianhua didn't know what to say, so he took the words and went to wipe his hands with Hehe.
It was at this time that Fang Yinuo made up his mind to give Hehe a father.
Xie Tianhua began to date Yinuo, he was very careful to take care of Hehe, when eating in the restaurant, he would deliberately order a children's meal for the child, he would first disinfect the child with wet wipes to disinfect his hands, and care about the child in every detail.
And all this also made Fang Yinuo very moved, feeling that he was more careful than he was to the child.
Later, the two people were together, and when he was 5 years old in the play, Fang Yinuo's mother and daughter had been accepted by their in-laws, that is, the sister had a lot of criticism. The mother-in-law treats Hehe very well, and the family is quite happy.
So, there isn't so much "my parents disagree" just to see if he's firm enough. Marriage is about character, not being bound by traditional morality, and if you like it, you can bravely fight for it. Just because Xie Tianhua's firm choice gave Fang Yinuo enough confidence to choose love again.
3. The little secret of Xie Tianhua and his daughter Hehe
Xie Tianhua was like a parent to Hehe, and the relationship between the two was very close. Fang Yinuo told Lei Wen: He is better than me to Hehe, and sometimes they are better.
However, Xie Tianhua still concealed a big secret from Fang Yinuo.
That day, Xie Tianhua said that he would take Hehe to the amusement park to play, and his sister asked him to take his nephew with him, but Xie Tianhua refused. The sister made another fuss about this, and also insinuated that Fang Yinuo was not committed.
Xie Tianhua only waited for Hehe to go to the amusement park, and when he arrived at the place, Hehe pounced into Xiao Lu's arms and said happily, "Uncle Xiao." ”
Xie Tianhua told Xiao Lu to be in the third, afraid that Hehe had bumped into it, and said Hehe you want to listen to Uncle Xiao's words to know?
Hehe said, I know, promise not to tell my mother.
After the explanation, Xie Tianhua left with confidence, and Xiao Lu took his daughter to play.
Fang Yinuo inadvertently saw a bag of toys at home, and she pulled the bag out from under the table and looked at it. But she found a small ticket, she opened it and looked at her heart sinking, and the small ticket had Xiao Lu's name written on it. Now she understood it all.
Fang Yinuo found his good friend Lei Wen and the two ate crayfish together. Lei Wen found her strange appearance and began to ask the bottom, what the hell is going on? It's okay you won't come all the way from school. Isn't shedding what happened to you?
Fang Yinuo denied it.
She and Lei Wen said, "I'm still quite strange, I think he likes Hehe more than I do, really, Hehe sees him more than he sees me kissing, it's quite good for him!" Old Xie this dad really has nothing to say, so no matter how much his sister carries a gun and a stick, I can bear it. As long as Hehe is comfortable, I can digest everything else. ”
At this time, Fang Yinuo's heart was full of mixed feelings, on the one hand, Xie Tianhua secretly took Hehe to see Xiao Lu was also a good intention. On the other hand, she didn't want her child to see Xiao Lu at all, she didn't want her child to know that she had a father like that.
Therefore, she did not talk to Lei Wen thoroughly, she still endured, in fact, she was very angry, daughter Hehe and Xie Tianhua actually guarded the matter of stealing to see Xiao Lu together, which showed that her daughter was really close to Xie Tianhua.
So why didn't she debunk it?
One is because Xie Tianhua treats Hehe really well, and his family is very good to the children. The mother-in-law will deliberately leave good food for Hehe, and even Xie Dan thinks that his mother is eccentric. If this secret is revealed, the two people will definitely quarrel, and once the quarrel will expand, it will affect the daughter.
Therefore, Fang Yinuo said that Lao Xie's father really had nothing to say. Moreover, the words she said to Lei Wen were also given to herself, and she could digest everything by herself for the sake of Hehe.
As a mother, Fang Yinuo only hopes that her daughter can live a healthy and happy life, and the others are small things. She also understood the reason why Xie Tianhua did this, Xie Tianhua's efforts and love over the years were enough to offset those unpleasantness.