I'm going to be a dad, I'm going to be a mom... The due date is coming soon, and it has not yet been decided who will take care of the confinement. Let the mother serve her or let the mother-in-law come? If you don't go to find a sister-in-law, you can save the elderly trouble, or go directly to the confinement center to save trouble. Next listen to the editor to give you a nagging...
75% of confinement children will choose their mother to take care of themselves, after all, the mother and daughter are close and talk about everything, and have lived together for decades. Less unaccustomed and embarrassed to change into a mother-in-law, naturally the mother has become the best candidate for confinement to serve.
This mother is set, but also depends on whether the mother has time, even if there is time in the daughter confinement, the mother will also be out of pain for her daughter, in the service of daughter some taboos are not so pay attention to or do not understand, this may be the love of the daughter's heart. The most serious thing is that your mother needs to stay up with you for a month, plus you are not used to eating and living in the boat, and when you finish your confinement, your mother is tired.
Mother-in-law is mother, mother-in-law is also mother. We must consider waiting for the confinement to stay up late at night with the baby, the food cooked is not in line with the taste, the work is not careful enough, and the personality is different. Many people in mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will think that this relationship is difficult to handle, and it will be themselves who will rub a little friction and suffer during confinement.
Mothers and mothers-in-law are not good, find a professional sister-in-law to be responsible for living and living. At least the sister-in-law is more professional, can be a companion at night, and can also take care of the personal hygiene of the mother and even the treatment of wounds. If the mother is breastfeeding the child, the sister-in-law can also give professional guidance and correct lactation. For example, the baby's crying sister-in-law has been professionally trained, and it can be judged from the baby's crying whether it is hungry or peeing, unlike the mother-in-law or the mother-in-law who is busy for most of the day
There are good and bad, please the sister-in-law in the professional aspect of the really do a good job, but a month of care said long is not long said short is not short, the sister-in-law lives in their own home to take care of their own living, how the personal hygiene of the sister-in-law, how personal habits, will not be good to eat lazy to do... Don't wait for the confinement to finish the bedroom assigned to the sister-in-law to be sloppy enough to look directly.
If the family conditions allow you to go to the confinement center, you don't have to worry about whether the bodies of your mother and mother-in-law can be carried, and whether your sister-in-law has destroyed her marriage house. At least the staff of the confinement center are nurses born energetic and have uniform regulations. Pregnant women can also eat a nutritious confinement meal and comprehensive physical rehabilitation care. But the price aspect is indeed a big expense.
How would you choose between confinement or your lover?