Advise Jun Mo to fight the three spring birds, and the son is in the nest waiting for the mother to return.
"Only the mother is good in the world, and the child without the mother is like the grass", lyrics or poems praising the greatness of mother's love abound, and the importance of the mother to the child is self-evident.
Not every mother's love is great and selfless, and some mothers cannot be called mothers.
A mother abandons her child for 14 years
He didn't pay any attention to it halfway through, and when they met again, their attitude was as if they were strangers.
Even if life is forced and the marriage breaks down, the child is a blood family that can never be separated, which is the responsibility that parents should bear.
And some parents just have the name of their parents,
The responsibility is that none of it has been done.
The bachelor picked up the tramp
Picked up the tramp,
Is it a blessing or a curse for this bachelor Wu Junhao?
These two people seem to have staged the love in the TV series, the dog blood is on the head, and the love of these two people reminds me of a paragraph: Lao Xu, do you want a daughter-in-law.
So, for Wu Junhao,
The wandering woman Tang Liwen was the daughter-in-law who was sent
Because of his kindness, he sowed a love.
The 42-year-old man spent 6 years with a wandering woman and gave birth to a son
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But then the problem came up.
She also has a husband who is not divorced?
The homeless woman has no household registration, how to solve the child's household registration, this bachelor who eats on low security, in the face of such a problem, is also a headache.
The child's hukou is the first priority, and the homeless woman's mouth also says other problems.
It turned out that this wandering girl was a person with a family,
Not only did he have a husband, but he even had a child
This is equivalent to a basin of cold water for Wu Junhao, who is addicted to the happiness of his children.
A homeless woman who has not been divorced, living with her for 6 years, is equivalent to illegal cohabitation, and if the child's hukou is to be solved, the previous marriage must be divorced.
So, why did the wandering woman abandon her husband and abandon her son?
According to the tramp, it was because her previous husband was not good to her,
If you don't give her food, you will beat her and don't treat her as a person
The homeless woman could not stand it, so she could only run away from home.
Regardless of the truth of the matter, the problem that must be faced now is,
Find Tang Liwen's husband Ding Jiale, hoping that he can agree to divorce and let Tang Liwen free.
Fortunately, Ding Jiale's mobile phone number has not changed, easily found him, more than ten years do not change the number, is Ding Jiale still have a glimmer of hope in his heart.
However, what Ding Jiale did not expect was that
Tang Liwen's return is only for divorce
, so that you can live a better life, for the son's things are not concerned.
Flesh and blood love can also be easily discarded
Tang Liwen has not seen her son Ding Yikai for 14 years
Although there is the same blood in the blood, the scene of the mother and son meeting is worse than that of ordinary people and friends.
Why did Tang Liwen return to her former family?
It is not to miss his former son Ding Jiale, but to satisfy personal selfish desires,
In order to be justified with Wu Junhao, as well as to give the younger son a legitimate identity.
The same are all children born by themselves, why is there such a big difference?
Is it simply because there is no love marriage, the child is innocent,
In any case, the growth of children cannot be hurt because of broken marriages.
Tang Liwen ran away from home when Ding Yikai was only 7 years old
For a 7-year-old, what a need for the protection of maternal love! However, Tang Liwen abandoned her son when he needed him most.
Perhaps the son also fantasized that his mother could come back, waiting year after year, year after year, and finally waiting for his mother.
When he learned that his mother was going to return, Ding Yikai did not hate his mother Tang Liwen, but was full of expectations.
Even in order to make a good impression on the mother, she dressed up carefully.
However, all this is insignificant for Tang Liwen, and she has only one purpose, that is, divorce.
Mother and son reunite after a gap of 14 years
Many things have changed in 14 years, and when mother Tang Liwen saw her son Ding Yikai, she did not show a motherly look, but only asked a few words lightly, while Ding Yikai replied to her mother's question lightly.
Tang Liwen did not seem to care much about her son's recent situation
Although Ding Yikai is now 21 years old and an adult, Tang Liwen has no intention of compensating for the lack of maternal love in childhood.
When talking with her husband Ding Jiale about the conditions for divorce, Ding Jiale put forward two conditions:
One is to take away the son, and the son's business must be taken care of by Tang Liwen; the second is to use money to solve the problem.
But Tang Liwen said: My son doesn't need me when he is older, and I don't have any money. The implication is that I just want to divorce and live my life now, and my son doesn't want it.
Such a mother cannot be called a qualified mother,
For their own lives, children can give up
, too cold-blooded and ruthless.
Perhaps Ding Yikai also desperately longs for maternal love in his heart, even if his mother ignores herself for 14 years, she hopes that she can return to this family.
But when my mother returned, she still didn't want herself
This made Ding Yikai feel a little self-contained.
Obviously, the biggest victim of the breakdown of a marriage is the child, although advocating marriage is not a bondage, but the child is our lifelong involvement, at any time to reduce the harm to the child as much as possible.
And Tang Liwen's idea is to divorce, because of Ding Jiale's reasons, the son can also be unwanted, which is not a good mother.
A loveless marriage is the greatest sorrow
From her husband Ding Jiale, I learned that his marriage to Tang Liwen was loveless.
It took only four days for the two to go from acquaintance to marriage.
A marriage
If there is no love, the foundation is unstable, the personality is not compatible, and the three views are not correct
It is difficult to sustain, but it is just a tragedy.
And Tang Liwen also said that she escaped twice in total,
One time was when his son was one year old, he was arrested by his family, and the second time was when his son was 7 years old and successfully escaped.
Why flee?
This question is also the question that Ding Jiale is eager to know, after all, the reason I learned from Wu Junhao's mouth is because of his own family violence, but this is not the truth of the facts.
When I saw Tang Liwen again, Ding Jiale also asked this question,
It turned out that Tang Liwen was not telling the truth.
Ding Jiale did not use domestic violence, because marriage is a loveless union, Tang Liwen hated her husband's weak income, and chose to flee without seeing the hope of life.
However, it is worth sneering:
Leaving because of money, the object of choice again is only a person who eats on low insurance.
After 14 years of absence, Ding Jiale has no feelings for Tang Liwen, and only wants to get justice and let Tang Liwen take responsibility for Ding Yikai, but Tang Liwen does not even want to bear the basic responsibility.
Fortunately, Wu Junhao is a reasonable person
He also believes that Tang Liwen's approach to Ding Yikai is wrong, even if the family is difficult and cannot give too much help, but the mother's love still needs to be there.
Wu Junhao's remarks touched Tang Liwen's heart, perhaps the discovery of conscience, or perhaps the eagerness to get rid of this marriage.
The final result of the discussion is that
Let Ding Yikai temporarily live in Wu Junhao's home, and Wu Junhao will also find a job for Ding Yikai
In order to make up for Tang Liwen's lack of maternal love for Ding Yikai.
However, this did not know whether it was good or bad for Ding Yikai.
Although Ding Yikai's relationship with his father is not harmonious now, at least the family belongs to him, and when he arrives at Wu Junhao's home, he may be under the fence.
Watching my mother's family of three enjoy and harmonize, my heart may also be infinitely sad!
For Ding Yikai, his childhood is incomplete, and he has reached adulthood, hoping that he can get rid of the shadow of the lack of his childhood mother, realize his inner dream as soon as possible, and walk out of a kangzhuang avenue that belongs to himself.