Inefficient work should be the last thing parents want to see. Obviously, it took time and energy, but the result did not achieve the desired results, how can we not let our parents worry about it? It's hard to imagine what the future holds for these inefficient children.
Therefore, parents will pay special attention to this in their daily education, hoping that all children can achieve something. However, the imagination is too idealistic after all, whether it is a soft and whispered sermon or a sharp-tongued reprimand, it has not achieved the expected effect, but has caused the child to have a strong resistance.
If you trace back to the roots, parents will find that their children are inefficient, mostly because they have no concept of time and their own concentration is not enough. Even, it will be mixed with a certain fear of difficulties, easily compromise to difficulties, and never take the initiative to meet difficulties.
Regarding the cultivation of concentration and fear of difficulties, parents should maintain more patience and reason. You can start with games that your child loves and win their attention. During this time, encourage and help accordingly. Only in this way can we reassure children and let them slowly recognize themselves.
In order not to let the children do nothing, it is time to help them change!
First, make a clear plan
From now on, no matter how big or small things, children are "strictly" required to plan well. When things are broken down, the difficulty will continue to decrease, and it is easier for children to achieve. Even if they are afraid of difficulties, they will not be overwhelmed by the "minimal" difficulties in front of them.
Another benefit of making a plan is that it gives children a clearer idea of time. Accurate to what point and minute, only the child needs to follow the schedule. This process, parents can supervise and help them to complete it in an orderly manner, until finally they can complete it independently.
Second, cultivate enthusiasm
Parents will find that the things that their children are interested in, even if they are not urged by adults, they can be completed quickly. This shows that the enthusiasm of children is very important, and parents should consciously excavate and cultivate. Enthusiasm is based on curiosity and interest, and parents should follow their children's opinions and focus on their interests.
Most importantly, leave the choice to the child, and leave trust and respect to them. If the parents plant the seeds of doubt in their hearts, then no matter what the child does, the parents cannot trust them wholeheartedly. Therefore, believing and encouraging children is what smart parents should look like.
Third, distinguish between priority and priority and urgency
It is also important to teach children to prioritize and prioritize things. Although the plan is made in advance, if the priority is not clear, the result is mostly useless. Because the things that really matter may be put to the end, and nothing is done well.
That being the case, it is represented by different colors to make the child understand that what is more important needs to be done in the first place. Only by knowing in mind and practicing in the process of hands-on practice will we not panic and be busy. With long-term persistence, children can use the least amount of time and energy to do their part perfectly.
Written at the end: Children who know how to plan and use time can eventually become dragons and phoenixes among people. Because time gives children more possibilities, let them bravely pursue themselves and create more value.
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