I found a problem, that is, if you want to live more annoyed, you may wish to watch more domestic TV series.
No, recently CCTV has produced a new TV series ----- "Dear Child", the title sounds so romantic and childlike, but in fact, the plot inside makes many viewers want to send blades to the screenwriter.
In particular, the plot broadcast recently caused netizens to discuss it for a while, and even some people doubted -----
"Mom, I'm afraid it's not a surveillance in my house."
Fang Yinuo, played by Ren Suxi, suddenly became pregnant during work, but the husband played by Qin Hao was alone at home drinking beer and was unwilling to go to the hospital after watching the ball game.
Then the wife could only grit her teeth and give birth alone, and it was not easy for the child to be safe, and the husband finally appeared, but not to see his wife, but to give the child's placenta to the mother at home to supplement his brother.
Good guys, this husband does....... I really deserve to be punished by the law....
Then, after the birth of the child, the elderly all walked around the child, but did not pay any attention to the mother who wanted to drink water.
The mother of the newborn is busy taking care of the child day and night, but the father stays out of the matter, hides outside drinking or working overtime, and even directly sleeps.
A series of plots, the couple played by Ren Suxi and Qin Hao is simply a portrayal of the world.
Postpartum depression is also "exploding" because of these scattered small things
There is a difference between postpartum depression and postpartum depression, which is the negative emotion that a woman has in this special period after childbirth, and the latter is to meet the diagnostic criteria of the disease and require psychological intervention.
The specific causes of postpartum depression are not very clear, but they are related to genetics, neurobiodytics, EGP physiological changes, social psychology, endocrine dysfunction and other factors.
Once the disease is developed, the patient will have a variety of abnormal symptoms.
First, depressed mood
People with this disease will have long-term symptoms of low mood, such as depressed mood and depression.
Patients are always unhappy and cry for no reason. These symptoms are more severe in the morning and can be alleviated in the afternoon or evening.
Second, loss of interest and fatigue
People with this disease lose interest in activities they were previously enthusiastic about, and they are unable to derive pleasure from the things around them and their daily lives, nor can they experience the happiness of caring for their babies.
In addition, patients often feel tired, feel that anything is difficult to do, and even after enough rest or sleep, they will not be able to regain energy or physical strength.
Third, the concept of self-sin and the sense of worthlessness
People with illness often feel guilty for not taking good care of their babies because they have increased their family burdens, and it can also cause them to often look at things from a negative perspective, feel that all problems are their fault, and even think that they are guilty.
Fourth, suicidal or harmful thoughts or actions towards the baby
Patients with the disease, if the condition is extremely serious, will have obsessive-compulsive disorder that harms the baby. Patients avoid contact with babies because they fear that they will not be able to control their injuries.
In addition, patients will also have self-harm, suicide, and even harm to babies, such patients will often hurt others and then commit suicide, killing their own children, this behavior is also called extended suicide.
Why have I rarely heard of women around me suffering from depression?
In fact, in Europe and the United States, the incidence of this disease is indeed very high.
For the mainland, on the one hand, it is a regional cultural factor, on the other hand, postpartum depression is often not detected in time, and the shame caused by the disease, which women have to hide.
According to the data, about 10-15% of women develop postpartum depression, which is equivalent to at least one in every 10 women.
So you may not have experienced much postpartum depression, but that doesn't mean it really didn't happen.
Once suffering from postpartum depression, treatment is recommended:
1. Medication
In general, people with this disease are not recommended in principle during lactation.
If medication is necessary, the smallest effective dose should be taken to avoid exposure of infants to larger doses. Generally, the drugs used to treat the disease are sertraline, fluoxetine, fluvoxamine and the like.
However, such drugs have certain side effects, and patients must use them cautiously under medical advice.
2. Psychotherapy
General psychotherapy includes both supportive and cognitive-behavioral aspects.
The purpose of psychotherapy is to help patients make lifestyle and psychological adjustments, while guiding husbands and parents and other family members, learning relevant and effective communication methods, creating a harmonious family atmosphere for patients, allowing patients to feel the care from their families, and reducing behaviors that stimulate maternal emotions.
Of course, in addition to the necessary treatment, the family should also actively comfort the mother, help take care of the baby, and ensure that there is enough sleep time and good sleep quality after childbirth.
At the same time, the family should also let the mother exercise more to alleviate the depression and let this blue sadness be away from every family.
(Part of the picture is from the TV series "Dear Child")
References;
[1] Ginkgo, Du Juan, Chen Shaomin, Zheng Xiaoxia, Cai Shaolian. A study on the level of maternal depression in the elderly second child[J].Health Vocational Education,2022,40(07):134-137.
[2] WANG Chao,LIU Ruichao. The relationship between postpartum depression and adult attachment and social support[J].Journal of Clinical Psychosomatic Diseases,2022,28(02):71-74.