"I never write homework, and the teacher doesn't dare to take care of me"
"My parents didn't dare to take care of me at all, and I dropped things when I wasn't happy."
"What you know, you don't understand at all"
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It is said that adolescent children are difficult to manage, originally I still felt that there was nothing, until I really faced the adolescent children, I found that this sentence is not false at all.
There was a guest in "The Reader" who compared accompanying his son to accompanying a tiger, which requires constant caution.
One day he inadvertently angered the "tiger", who locked the door and had not seen his parents for many years.
Usually, it is not okay to care for his son, because his son will not allow him to step into the room or talk to him. Otherwise run away from home.
I understand the feelings of this father, as a teacher, in the face of dozens of rebellious children in a class, with the eyes of others to see too many adolescent children rebellious things, as a mother, but also experienced a variety of heartache helplessness, those parents simply do not understand, obviously they were well-behaved, sensible children how to become bad children who fight, smoke and drink, all this is a very normal thing in the eyes of psychological experts.
An expert who specializes in the psychological changes of adolescents once said that "adolescent children are difficult to control their emotions in the face of external stimuli because their brains are not fully mature, and children at this stage are exploring society, and it is difficult to stop their behavior." During this period, parents can help their children understand the various changes in adolescence and how to cope with them through some books, so as not to rampage like a aimless lamb. ”
Complicated texts Children in this period have read too much, it is the time when they are interested in books such as comics, illustrations and novels, so it is best to choose this type when choosing books, and this set of "Hello, Adolescence" designed by famous illustrators is very suitable.
This set of books also contains a lot of content, from psychological changes to changes in appearance, from personal emotions to family relationships, the book is written in the most concise language.
The most obvious change in adolescence is the development of the body, and this "Secrets of Adolescence" can help children fully understand their own body and understand which behaviors are incorrect.
Irritable and irritable emotions are a major feature of adolescent children, it is easy to feel that their parents do not love themselves because of a small matter, so as to stay away from the family, this "My Family" is a good description of what to do after various situations occur, to help children ease their emotions and increase the closeness with the family.
The rapid development of the Internet, all kinds of games emerge in an endless stream, underage children will be all the family savings to recharge the game examples are not in the minority, this "I and the Internet" clearly describes the harm of the Internet and the correct use of the method, to help children avoid the trap of the Internet.
The most rare thing is that those topics that we usually have difficult to talk about have given clear explanations and answers, which help children understand puberty while avoiding the situation that parents are embarrassed to open their mouths or explain unclearly.
In recent years, bullying, indecency, sexual assault cases have emerged in an endless stream, and this book also accurately tells how to avoid these things, how to solve them after they occur, and only by facing these problems can we protect ourselves well.
There are always a lot of troubles in adolescence, academic pressure, parents do not understand, friends are not happy, etc., these problems are likely to cause depression in the heart, and this book can also help children smoothly resolve these emotions, so that children have a happy mood
The whole book is based on discussion or from the perspective of children, and uses interesting questions and answers, scenarios, etc., to arouse children's interest in reading and help children successfully pass through puberty.
Parents are usually busy, many problems will be ignored or explained clearly, then you can use this book to help children answer questions, successfully pass puberty, and harvest a better parent-child relationship!