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The retired old teacher of Peking University was disliked by his daughter-in-law, and after the baby went to school, his super concentration attracted praise

The retired old teacher of Peking University was disliked by his daughter-in-law, and after the baby went to school, his super concentration attracted praise

There is an amiable grandmother in the family, the image temperament and conversation are different from the usual seeing of the elderly, giving people a feeling of spring breeze, and later after getting along for a long time, I learned that the old man was a retired teacher of Peking University and an old professor engaged in educational research. Because of his retirement, and his grandson had just been born, he returned to the small county to help with the children.

The retired old teacher of Peking University was disliked by his daughter-in-law, and after the baby went to school, his super concentration attracted praise

It is really pitiful for the parents of the world, even if they have retired, but they still want to help their sons and daughters-in-law to contribute, but who can think that the daughter-in-law is inconsistent with the mother-in-law's educational philosophy, resulting in a bad fight between the two people.

The retired old teacher of Peking University was disliked by his daughter-in-law, and after the baby went to school, his super concentration attracted praise

Although both people are for the healthy growth of their children, because their daughter-in-law is a "post-90s", they are like many "post-90s" mothers, afraid that their children are half a step behind and give their children various preschool tutoring classes.

The retired old teacher of Peking University was disliked by his daughter-in-law, and after the baby went to school, his super concentration attracted praise

However, as an expert in the field of education, the old professor knows that the most important thing for children to develop healthy interests and good habits before school age, especially when they are 1-3 years old. After all, it is the mother-in-law and the authority of education, so the daughter-in-law has made concessions. Watching the old man with the child, exercising every day, playing sticker books, etc., until the age of 2, or nothing has changed, the daughter-in-law is anxious.

The retired old teacher of Peking University was disliked by his daughter-in-law, and after the baby went to school, his super concentration attracted praise

Then there is the identity of the elder, and then there is the reputation of the pedagogical expert, looking at their children is to play sticker books every day, the daughter-in-law can not help but complain to the mother-in-law, saying that this is simply to let the children "playthings lose their minds", which is about to go to kindergarten, and then in the class will definitely lag behind other children.

The retired old teacher of Peking University was disliked by his daughter-in-law, and after the baby went to school, his super concentration attracted praise

However, the daughter-in-law's words have not been confirmed, since the child went to kindergarten, the child's mother found that the kindergarten teacher not only did not criticize her child, but praised the child from time to time, and even praised the mother's education method is very good, so that many "post-90s" mothers came to ask for advice, making the child's mother feel embarrassed.

It turns out that after entering the kindergarten, although the knowledge is not as wide as other children, the concentration is very strong, and the ability to absorb knowledge in class is particularly fast, so it is more efficient than other children's learning.

The retired old teacher of Peking University was disliked by his daughter-in-law, and after the baby went to school, his super concentration attracted praise

Hearing the teacher's feedback, the daughter-in-law secretly admired the mother-in-law's education method, and told other mothers and teachers that their children were brought out by their mother-in-law, and the kindergarten teacher immediately asked the old man to come and share an education for the parents in the class after learning that the child's grandmother was a retired teacher of Peking University:

01 Old teachers share three ways of parenting

1. Pay attention to cultivating interests

The most important thing in education is to cultivate children's interest in health and good, only in this way can children have internal driving force, rather than relying on parents' external forces to drive children to learn. Since the child likes to play with sticker books, guide him to play with sticker books that can learn knowledge, so that he can learn knowledge in interest and fun.

The retired old teacher of Peking University was disliked by his daughter-in-law, and after the baby went to school, his super concentration attracted praise

2, do not be greedy for more speed

Many parents in order to cultivate children's interests in all aspects, to buy a lot of toys or other musical instruments, books, thinking that this can quickly let children grow up in all aspects, in fact, do not know, this will make the child's concentration decline, many children in playing with a toy, or learning an instrument, has not yet experienced the fun from it, they will shift their attention to other things.

3. Sticker books are an effective tool for training concentration

The old professor said that she had studied the problem of children's concentration, and believed that children's thinking was very divergent before school age, which helped them to contact various things, adapt to the surrounding environment as soon as possible, and let them suddenly enter a state of great concentration, which is contrary to their divergent thinking nature. However, sticker books conform to the child's divergent thinking nature, while at the same time allowing them to concentrate through a series of games.

The retired old teacher of Peking University was disliked by his daughter-in-law, and after the baby went to school, his super concentration attracted praise

Although the various stickers in the sticker book, whether it is color, shape or content are very broad, but the essence of the sticker book is to let the child know, how to make the sticker in the hand more in line with the requirements of the book, so it seems that although the sticker looks scattered, but there is only one theme, and can trigger the child's thinking, in such an exploration, the child's concentration is cultivated.

The retired old teacher of Peking University was disliked by his daughter-in-law, and after the baby went to school, his super concentration attracted praise

After listening to the old professor's sharing, many parents have unveiled their doubts, and the old professor told the mothers "Children's Concentration Training Sticker Book", which has a total of 16 books and more than 3,000 stickers, and the rich content is enough for children to survive the preschool period.

The retired old teacher of Peking University was disliked by his daughter-in-law, and after the baby went to school, his super concentration attracted praise

This set of sticker books contains a very rich content, including language, reasoning, judgment, observation, imagination, etc., which can cultivate children's logical thinking, spatial imagination, language organization and other aspects of the ability, so that children can develop in many aspects.

The retired old teacher of Peking University was disliked by his daughter-in-law, and after the baby went to school, his super concentration attracted praise

If there are also preschool children at home, the old professor of Peking University is very recommended that you bring a set, this set of books is not only rich in content, but also very cheap, compared to the cost of some early education courses, it is simply a dime.

02 Conclusion

Children's concentration is the premise of doing a good job of learning homework, rather than letting children take a variety of early education classes, it is better to let children have strong concentration from preschool age, so that after enrollment, learning will be able to do more with less!

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