Uncle Lover's Introduction:
People get married for the purpose of happiness, and what kind of marriage can be called happiness? Happiness is probably the process of growing up with each other.
The happiness of marriage is not something that can be obtained by a simple life, and any good thing and life needs to be paid, that is, we need to fight for it. In this process, our actions directly affect life, and these three actions will make your marriage happier, and you must learn.
Try to save money
Many people underestimate the fact that making money and saving money, some people feel that a good marriage has nothing to do with money, but what is the chai rice oil and salt in life that does not need economic support? It is not without reason that only the economic base can determine the superstructure. Everyone must understand that marriage requires a material basis, and the material basis is very important.
If you don't save money in marriage, then when the accident comes, it is enough to crush the family, so where is the happiness? If you want a stable and happy marriage, then this move is essential, and that is to save money.
Saving money is not a matter for one person, but a family affair, and both husband and wife should strive for the family's savings, and do not enjoy the salary as soon as they are paid. The premise of enjoying life is that you have enough basic financial savings.
Don't underestimate the matter of saving money, saving a little every month, a few years is not a small amount, and this wealth can be used as a family to face things. In the process of saving money, each other can also appreciate each other's difficulties and cherish each other's efforts more.
Learn to break the house
The happiness of marriage is never so simple, liking will make people feel happy, but if you live with each other for a long time, you also need some preservatives to regulate. No one will always be so passionate, and no one will always be passionate. So we have to understand the essence of life, and it is best to be as simple as possible.
There are some moves that may seem small but have a big impact on married life. Both husband and wife living together must learn to give up, and only when we give up some things that we don't need and clean up our lives can we leave each other with the most important things.
Renunciation is a compulsory course in marriage, and men must give up unnecessary socializing, return to the family, and accompany their families. Women have to give up useless items and clean up the family, which can also promote emotional communication between husband and wife.
Breaking up is actually a minimalist process, we make each other's lives simple, both sides are more likely to find each other's advantages, and there is no burden to live together.
Study hard
The happiness of marriage is not something that can be achieved in a simple few words, there must be action. These actions are to study hard, to learn all aspects of knowledge, as long as it helps to improve ourselves, we should all take time to learn. Don't always think about comfort, and don't make excuses for yourself to be lazy.
You can learn the strengths of both sides, or you can learn a technique or craft, which will not become obsolete. Learning is just a small move, but we also need to persevere, we must make learning a habit, let ourselves and each other grow together, when each other becomes a better person, then the marriage will be happier and more stable.
Uncle Epilogue:
Marriage should be driven to happiness, and this happiness needs our own efforts to protect, all without exception. We should never underestimate some of the moves, and your day-to-day efforts will eventually pay off for you. Seeing each other at the top is probably the best emotional state.