With the change of patriarchal thinking in recent years, many families also have an extremely happy attitude towards the arrival of their daughters, and even the degree of pampering of girls is far greater than that of boys, so titles such as "daughter slaves" must appear.
This phenomenon not only appears in ordinary people's homes, but also occurs very frequently in celebrity families.
A few days ago, Yuan Quan appeared at the airport with his daughter, dressed very simply and plainly, black T-shirt with jeans, giving people a very refreshing feeling.
The height of Yuan Quan's daughter has reached her shoulder, and her smile is also very sweet.
Although she has played many praiseworthy roles, the frequency of her daughter's exposure is relatively low.
Many people turn their attention to the little girl, and deeply feel that like ordinary children, there is no overly ornate decoration, it is the innocent appearance of a child.
Compared with other star families, the rich support of children, often tens of thousands of yuan of clothes, Yuan Quan's daughter is really very simple, which also triggered many netizens to the daughter, in the end should be poor, or rich? It was explored in depth.
In fact, in the process of raising their daughters, most parents should maintain a more rational and low-key state, and the following are the most important points in their daughter's education.
[Girls' education should pay more attention to these]
1, appearance has no connotation is more important
In the process of girls' education, parents must let them know: beautiful appearance and appearance, although it will become a powerful capital, but far less important than its own connotation.
Time is fair to everyone, and no matter how beautiful the face, there will be a day of aging, but the talent and connotation will not be lost.
Implanting this concept in girls' education from an early age will make them more concerned in learning and self-cultivation, and will make their own abilities in a state of continuous growth.
2, to know how to respect self-confidence
In the process of girls' education, parents should focus more on the cultivation of personality and three views.
Let the girl know: only self-respect and self-love can get the respect of others.
As long as they can maintain such a basic bottom line, no matter what they do in the future, they will be able to grow up according to their own wishes, in order to reduce the worries in their parents' hearts.
Helping girls build strong self-confidence is also the most powerful way to make them more effective in their future lives.
When girls are rich enough and confident, they will be indestructible, and they will be able to grasp life better, and will not fall into a confused state, will not make wrong choices, and will hate for life.
3. Be cautious about giving and favoring others
Every girl will face different degrees of temptation in the process of growing up.
Therefore, in the process of educating girls, parents must let them understand that any good feelings and unwarranted good intentions must maintain a rational attitude to face.
The good thoughts in the heart cannot be lost, but the vigilance cannot be missing.
As long as they can do this, no matter what state they choose in the future, they will definitely protect their interests and will not be in a state of gain and loss.
4, to maintain a confident heart
In the process of girls' education and training, in addition to grades and excellent results, parents should focus more on the cultivation of self-confidence.
But any girl whose inner world is rich and strong enough will not attach her future life to others, but can make choices at will.
Therefore, in the process of girls' cultivation and education, we must let them have a confident and optimistic personality, which is not only the key to helping them become talents, but more importantly, to enable them to be themselves.
5, material life, not as important as spiritual life
In the process of their daughter's cultivation and education, parents should understand that any material life is not as noble as the wealth of the spiritual world.
Although material life can keep the body in a state of pleasure, once the spiritual world is lacking, it will also fall into confusion.
Therefore, in the cultivation and education of girls, parents must maintain basic rationality and let them understand the difference between the material life and the spiritual world.
As long as they can understand these two points in the process of girls' growth, they must be able to reasonably grasp their own lives, control their desires, and thus create everything they expect.
【Author's Message】
Tao Xingzhi once said that the wise man asks cleverly, and the fool asks stupidly. Manpower is better than heavenly work, only in everything asked.
Girls are extremely sensitive and fragile in their hearts compared to boys, but girls are also relatively vulnerable.
Therefore, in the process of girls' cultivation and education, as a parent, you must let them have the courage to be themselves.
Although it is very easy to be yourself, as they grow older, more rules and regulations will also set up more obstacles for them.
Only by enabling girls to have these abilities earlier and enter the adolescent and future life can they truly grasp their own lives and grow up in the direction expected by their parents.
Today's topic sharing: What issues do you think should be paid more attention to in the education and growth of girls than boys?