In 2008, Chen Xingrong, who was almost 2 years old, was diagnosed with autism. His father, Chen Xunhu, heard that swimming was good for children with autism, and he began to teach his children to swim on his own. For more than ten years, Chen Xunhu has obtained the certificate of social sports instructor through self-examination.
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In October 2021, Chen Xunhu led seven paralympic athletes to the Paralympic Games. Son Chen Xingrong won five swimming medals, one of which was in the 200m freestyle. Now, Chen Xunhu is planning to take his children to run a marathon in 10 months to 1 year.
Affection is the most unpaid love, and what can make people great will always be the existence of love. You are in a lonely world, then I will use love to accompany you for a long time, do not ask for anything in return, only hope that I will always be there when you turn back.
Yuyu has now been admitted to her ideal university, and looking back on her senior year of high school life, she said that those days were both hard and full of hope.
"When I was in my third year of high school, I was really stressed, my grades were not very stable, and I was a big gap with the score line of the ideal university. During those days, I pushed myself very tightly, getting up early and studying greedily every day. Under great pressure, I was emotionally unstable and often hid in the quilt in the middle of the night and cried. ”
The emotional abnormality naturally cannot escape the mother's "fire eye golden eye", but unexpectedly, the mother did not discuss the matter with the fish, but chose to accompany her quietly.
"I thought my mom would tell me not to cry, to be strong, or to say some other chicken soup to comfort me. But in fact she didn't do that, but held me every time I cried, wiped my tears when I was done venting, and then cooked a little sweet soup. ”
In the gentle company of her mother, Yuyu spent the most difficult days of her junior year of high school. Mom will take the fish to the park on the weekend to relax, will prepare gifts for the fish to reward her every progress, will accompany the fish to get up early in the dark, prepare breakfast and supper for her.
What Yuyu still remembers is that every time she was sad, her mother would tell her" "Don't be afraid, I'm here". Just four words, but it is the most gentle and powerful force in the process of fish chasing dreams. Her mother's company is a safe haven for fish and fish, and it also makes her no longer afraid of challenges.
Family affection is like a bowl of sweet soup made by the mother, a silent companionship, a habitual existence. Behind the sweet soup, there is also a steady flow of love, refreshing, and the thin water flows long.
Recently, in Heihe, Heilongjiang, there is a video of "a nearly 70-year-old father buying a rock sugar gourd for his 40-year-old daughter to eat" has become popular on the Internet, causing heated discussion.
Many netizens have said that "no matter how old they are, they are children in the eyes of their parents", "The most loved ones is always a parent", "Even if we forget our childhood, but our parents have always helped us remember"...
In the video, the father chants "Big child, I bought you a sugar gourd." You always buy it for your children, and you can't eat it yourself. "The father, who is not good at words, conveys love with actions, simple and warm.
Ms. Liu, a "child" in her 40s, said: "My father is always like this, no matter what he buys, he will leave me a copy." Eating the sugar gourd, thinking about his care for so many years, the tears fell. ”
For Ms. Liu, her father's love is the companionship and care of many years, the tenderness of always thinking about the child, and the silence and little words but always existing.
Affection is like a sugar gourd bought by my father, there is a sweet taste hidden under the hard shell, it is a long-term long-term longing, it is a happy and warm existence in a cold day, it is a harbor, it is a backing, and there will be people waiting whenever they turn back.
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