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"What do you think of the chicken feathers in your house?"
On April 17, Ren Luyu said such a question when interviewing Yuan Quan.
This year is the 15th year of Yuan Quan and Xia Yu's marriage, and they will inevitably have conflicts in their marriage.
Since the two have been able to live together for so many years.
So what is it about their marriage that has lasted until now?
After listening to Yuan Quan's simple answer, netizens said: "Listen to your words, and fight less for ten years."
1. Love should be ordinary and real
On April 17, actor Yuan Quan appeared without makeup and participated in an exclusive interview with Ren Luyu's new program.
During the conversation, Ren Luyu asked Yuan Quan how he viewed love.
I didn't expect Yuan Quan's answer to be very strange, but I didn't expect the essence of love to be like this.
In Yuan Quan's cognition, love should be a feeling, which is changing all the time.
The most important thing is that no one can keep it fresh all the time, and then we need to take it seriously.
When the novelty of love has passed, we can find more "chicken feathers".
It is precisely because of these "chicken feathers" that you will find that the years are so beautiful.
Yuan Quan's answer makes people feel very real and unpretentious.
After all, it was also the love she had personally experienced, and she knew exactly what her love was like.
So she learned to face love calmly and enjoy the process of falling in love.
Immediately afterwards, Ren Luyu asked: "How did Yuan Quan face these chicken feathers?"
"Life itself is ordinary, and it does not become extraordinary because of external conditions. ”
Of course, celebrities are also ordinary people, they have their own families and jobs.
Such an ordinary life will not change because of a special profession or special things.
So Yuan Quan doesn't care about these "chicken feathers", this kind of life is real.
And she is afraid of the sense of ritual in her life, which can disrupt her own rhythm.
If one day the "sense of ritual" disappears, I will become even more lost.
On the contrary, it is the ordinary life that is most worth reminiscing.
In the face of Yuan Quan's "enlightenment", many girls expressed their approval.
No wonder Yuan Quan and Xia Yu have been married for so many years and are still as loving as ever.
It turns out that Yuan Quan is the real "emotional master", and after listening to what Yuan Quan said, he can avoid arguing for ten years.
Yuan Quan also said that when he was not filming, he had to live more seriously when he returned to life.
It is not difficult to see that Yuan Quan is very rational emotionally, and her relationship with Xia Yu is also destined.
2. Xia Yu Yuan Quan's "clear stream" in the entertainment industry
Xia Yu and Yuan Quan met in Chinese opera, and the age difference between the two was only one year.
And they all studied acting, and they had a relationship during college.
In addition, Xia Yu is very talented in acting, and he starred in Jiang Wen's movie as soon as he was a freshman.
In 1993, Xia Yu became the Venice actor with "Sunny Days".
At the same time, he also opened up his own market and let more directors know him.
Since then, Xia Yu's life has been like a hanging, as a college student, he has become the Golden Horse Award actor.
Some people say that Xia Yu looks like Jiang Wen, and both of them are born to eat this mouthful.
Maybe it's just because Xia Yu suffered too much when he was a child, and after his parents divorced, he lived in his aunt's house.
Unexpectedly, he hit the right side and embarked on the road of acting, which led to his current achievements.
Among them, the most enviable thing about Xia Yu should be the love story of envy of others.
When he was in college, he was a "celebrity" in the school, and he was surrounded by fan girls.
Because he studied and filmed at the same time, he had very little time in school.
So I don't have much time to fall in love, but I can't stop it when "Peach Blossom Luck" comes.
In 1996, Yuan Quan was successfully admitted to Chinese opera with his love and talent for actors.
And she is also in the same class as Zhang Ziyi, Mei Ting, Qin Hailu and others, known as the "Seven Golden Flowers".
During his freshman military training, Yuan Quan was tall and had an outstanding temperament.
Xia Yu's eyes involuntarily rested on Yuan Quan, and Yuan Quan lived in Xia Yu's heart since then.
Maybe it's because Xia Yu's schedule is too full, so he doesn't have much time to stay in school.
So this relationship had to officially start two years later.
Although they couldn't see each other every day for two years, they couldn't fall in love at school like other couples.
But they didn't disconnect, and they can still send messages to greet each other when they're fine.
It wasn't until Yuan Quan was about to graduate that they "released" the feelings in their hearts.
One day in 1999, there was a lantern viewing event near the Great Wall.
Xia Yu immediately thought of Yuan Quan, and he invited Yuan Quan to enjoy the lanterns together.
So the two walked on the Great Wall, chatting about life and ideals.
Just when the atmosphere was just right, the sky suddenly began to rain heavily.
In desperation, they had to take refuge in a restaurant to avoid the rain.
After a long time, Xia Yu wanted to send Yuan Quan back to the dormitory, but he experienced such a long ambiguous period.
The two were very "embarrassed" sitting in the car, and there was an ambiguous song in the car.
Eventually, they could no longer contain their feelings, and after that day they became a couple.
Although they only caught the tail of a little campus love, their relationship can be regarded as unfolding on campus.
Perhaps because their relationship is real and romantic, there has never been such an enviable relationship in the entertainment industry.
Therefore, people in the circle call them "golden boys and girls", and it seems that everyone is also very optimistic about this relationship.
It's just that this relationship is not as smooth as everyone imagined, and there have been many "episodes" in the ten-year long-distance love run.
3. Ten years of "bumpy" long-distance love running, reaping the fruits of love
Xia Yu and Yuan Quan's love affair began in 1999, but a major event occurred in the fourth year of their relationship.
In 2003, Xia Yu became the Golden Rooster Award actor.
But unfortunately, an accident happened on Yuan Quan's side.
During a drama performance, Yuan Quan accidentally fell off the stage, and he could only spend that time in a hospital bed.
But Xia Yu is at the peak of his career, and he is very busy every day.
With his beloved girlfriend on one side and his acting career on the other, Xia Yu doesn't know what decision to make.
Fortunately, Yuan Quan is more empathetic, and she hopes that Xia Yu can focus on her work.
She didn't tell Xia Yu about her illness, and she endured the pain through the difficult times.
Because Yuan Quan believes in Xia Yu, as long as they truly love each other.
After overcoming difficulties, they will definitely usher in a better life that belongs to them.
However, Yuan Quan's unconditional trust was exchanged for heartache again and again.
In 2006, Xia Yu had an affair with another female star, and screenshots of the chat were also posted.
A few days later, the person concerned came out to clarify, saying that she and Xia Yu were just chatting normally, and nothing happened that had passed.
Because it was the first time that there was a scandal, Yuan Quan chose to believe in Xia Yu's feelings.
But a year later, there was another scandal on Xia Yu's side.
The photo was placed in front of Yuan Quan, and it seemed that there was a serious rift in their relationship.
In desperation, Yuan Quan had no choice but to let go, and both of them calmed down for a long time.
I don't know what kind of action Xia Yu paid, but in the end he still moved Yuan Quan.
In October 2007, the two attended the film festival together, and their eyes and demeanors revealed full of love.
It is said that you will only see a rainbow after experiencing wind and rain, and a marriage certificate was registered in 2009.
After a year of marriage, Yuan Quan successfully gave birth to a lovely girl.
Since then, there has been no news of their marriage.
Now that Yuan Quan has appeared on the big screen again, when she mentions her love, her eyes are still full of light.
Although he is photogenic without makeup, his appearance still crushes everyone.
It seems that life will only get better and better when you meet the right person.
I hope that the relationship between Yuan Quan and Xia Yu will become better and better, and their lives will become happier and happier.
Being able to have a true love couple like Yuan Quan and Xia Yu in the entertainment industry is really "earned".
At the same time, the husband and wife also earned back the face of the "real couple" in the entertainment industry.
It is really a clear stream to have such a couple in the entertainment industry, and I hope everyone can support their works more.
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