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Before the age of 4, there are two things that cause headaches for parents, one is to quit diapers, and the other is to successfully enroll in school and smoothly pass the transition period.
These two problems are solved, and the other things are small things.
The inability to quit diapers makes parents feel anxious, not that they can't quit at the moment, but that they are worried that it will be even more difficult to quit in the future.
About the baby's first time away from the parents, to go to school, it is easier to make people feel anxious, every baby is the little angel of the family, the thought of the child crying at school, can not be taken care of thoughtfully, parents feel extremely anxious.
To say a digression, the child goes out for a few hours to be taken care of well in the kindergarten, the parents' anxiety has been unstoppable, it is really hard to imagine, the 2 and a half-year-old child is forced to separate from the mother, isolated alone, the mother has to be anxious into what it is like.
The child is taken care of well, in the kindergarten there are still cases of urination, crying, can not see the mother, urinary no one to take care of in time, the child does not know how to collapse to what extent.
Three steps, let the child easily quit diapers
After the child is 2 years old, parents should consider quitting diapers for their children, too early or too late is not appropriate, starting after the age of 2, is the best node.
Quitting diapers should be a protracted battle, you can't say that you want to quit your child, you don't want your child to wear pull-up pants right away, which is too difficult for children.
First of all, instill a sense of consciousness in the child: tell the mother or other accompanying parents before they want to pee.
This is important, and it's the first step in quitting diapers.
When the child wants to pee every time, greet the parents around him and say, "I want to pee, I want to pull the stink," at this time, you can take off the pull-down pants for the child during the day.
However, some children can take it off directly and solve the problem of urinating in the toilet, but some children may not be so easy, because they are used to solving it in the pull-out pants, so they refuse the toilet.
If the child refuses to pee in the toilet at the beginning, be sure to wear pull-up pants, then according to the baby's will, put on the pull-up pants for him.
After that, the baby is instilled in the concept of a small toilet, which can be solved through a picture book, through a story, or directly introduce how his good friend urinated in the toilet.
Slowly your baby will accept the toilet.
It is still very easy to quit diapers during the day, as long as the child has had an experience, they will like to solve the problem of defecation in the small toilet.
Quit pulling pants during the day, there is no problem, completely quit diapers at night, the child's diapers are completely quit.
In fact, as long as parents pay a little attention, they can find out when their children urinate at night.
Before the child urinates at night, from deep sleep to light sleep, it begins to become restless and tumbling, which is about the time when the baby wants to urinate.
However, it is not recommended to wake up the child to urinate, if the child wakes up to urinate, there is no problem at all, if the child is woken up in the middle of the night to urinate, the child may have emotions, and sleep will be affected.
In fact, wearing pull-up pants for children is also for prevention, and parents will find that many times the baby's pull-up pants are dry.
If you want your baby to completely quit pull-up pants, control the amount of water to drink before going to bed at night, and urinate once before going to bed, so that your baby can basically sleep all night.
How to let children smoothly through the early stages of kindergarten?
Giving children to quit diapers requires parents to invest a lot of patience, which is a protracted battle.
To let children smoothly pass through the early stages of kindergarten, it is more necessary to be patient, and parents need to maintain a protracted mentality.
Two months before the child enters school, be sure to instill the concept of kindergarten in the child, and after the child understands in advance, the resistance will be less at that time.
A child's insecurity comes from a lack of understanding of the child.
When children have a certain understanding of kindergarten, their sense of fear disappears, even if they are unhappy and upset, not because of fear, but because they are not adapted, and they have not yet established an attachment relationship with the kindergarten environment and the kindergarten teacher.
After understanding the kindergarten, we must also introduce the kindergarten teacher to the child, so that the child can establish a good feeling for the teacher from the beginning, which will help the child quickly pick up the teacher.
If you have the conditions, you can video call the teacher in advance so that the child knows the teacher in advance.
Before my baby entered kindergarten, I had a video with three teachers, and after the video, I described the three teachers in detail with her as the main attacker, and improved the teacher's impression in her mind.
Sure enough, on the first day, I just didn't want to enroll, but I still followed the teacher into the campus and didn't cry.
The fact that the child does not cry when he enters the school does not mean that the child has successfully passed the first semester, and there will be a relatively long transition period after that.
During this transitional period, the child's attitude towards the school is still rejected, unwilling to enroll, when the child has a good friend at school, in order to completely accept the kindergarten life.
So we can initially have a three-day system, three days a week, two weeks later four days a week, my baby's nursery is "three days to fish and two days to dry the net", one month of enrollment, no week is full, but her attitude towards the school gradually changed.
However, after a month of school, the new crown spread out, and it was a complete holiday, and the little one was simply not too happy.
The epidemic situation in Nanjing has improved, and the school will start after the Qingming Dynasty, and the teacher organized an online video the day before yesterday to chat with friends and teachers.
Now to mention to her about going to school, she fully accepted it.
Children quitting diapers and going to kindergarten require us to have great patience and should not lose their temper with children's resistance, so as to help children quickly accept changes in the outside world.