Divorce becomes more and more casual in the hearts of people who lack a sense of reverence for marriage, as if it is a common thing, and even if there is a contradiction in the morning, it can be broken in the afternoon.
Just like some young people near my house, the marriage certificate has not yet been covered, and the divorce certificate is freshly baked. What is even more murky is that some young people even treat marriage as a child's play, and if they are slightly unsatisfactory, they will pat their butts and leave.
Couples who have been married for several years and have children, the reason for divorce is mostly due to the rupture of feelings, or the occurrence of betrayal, so that the end is the only way to get rid of it.
There are millions of reasons for choosing this path, but there are only two feelings after divorce, one is regret, and the other is happiness.
Some people say that the first dinner is better than the second bowl of rice, and some people say that the best always appears at the end, in fact, what kind of situation do you belong to, or have to look at the actual situation.
So after the divorce of the husband and wife, who regrets the most? The truth of the people who came over was a little heartfelt, but they also told the truth.
Elementary school classmate, 30 years old
One of my elementary school classmates got married three times in four years and divorced three times. Treat marriage as a family home, without a sense of awe.
For Li Juan's experience, others have mixed reviews, but her mentality has collapsed badly.
She said to me: the first divorce is the mother-in-law is not easy to get along with, every day to find stubble and thorns, men do not protect and mud, can not stand this grievance and decisively divorced; the second divorce is that men are too honest, will not say good words, the holiday does not send gifts, stuffy gourd is particularly boring; the third time in all aspects is very good, that is, many times do not let me, so in several times gambling to raise divorce threats, he agreed.
To be honest, I was a little regretful at that time, but I thought about it, the person I married was better than once, maybe the next time it will be better, and the regret in my heart was immediately gone.
When you make mistakes five times over again, then others will think that you have a problem, after all, which normal person will marry three times in four years.
So the next blind date and love, as long as you understand her past, you will retreat, and now at the age of thirty, you have not met a suitable person.
Asking her if she regretted it, she said that she had never thought of regret before, but after two or three years of setbacks, I regretted my dissatisfaction countless times, so that I missed the opportunity to have happiness.
Many times, your misfortune is your own, don't pick up a shell and think that if you go forward, you may encounter something bigger and more beautiful.
Cousin, 45 years old
Those men who cheated always had the idea of needing two women in this life, and the wind and moon outside, let the sewing clothes buckle at home.
However, this is only limited to private, do not dare to be blatant, if discovered, will forcefully accuse his wife of not dressing up and not trimming, in order to blame him for his mistakes, just like my cousin.
Her cousin is a woman who can endure hardships, serve people, and keep her home in an orderly manner, so that everyone can praise the virtuous, and she has always been proud. And her shortcomings are also obvious, such as being reluctant to spend money on her own frugality, not good at words, and not even a husband.
So the couple was purely broken together in order to live together, until the cousin met his "true love" by chance, and the peace was completely broken.
For the sake of that woman, the cousin from the beginning of the cover-up to the later discovery of the divorce, do not give the cousin half a time to react, let others persuade him to do his own thing, and even willing to go out of the house.
However, he swore that he never regretted it, and he proposed to remarry in less than a year, because he invested in true feelings, but the other party had a plot, and when he saw that there was nothing cheap, he was ambiguous with other men.
Relatives in the family said that he deserved it, but seeing that he regretted that he had not been able to tear up and snot at the beginning, he went to persuade his cousin to give it another chance.
Some things are not what you want to do, and in the end, the cousin did not forgive the man who hurt her very much, and missing it is sometimes a lifetime.
Colleague, 32 years old
Leave the wrong people and you will find that the sky is getting bluer and the air is fresher.
Colleague Xiao Wu is a young man who takes care of his family, and his salary is paid on time every month, and he goes home on time after work, and even the company party will go home before ten o'clock.
When I don't know the truth, I think that the husband and wife must be very affectionate, in order to do this step, but after understanding the causes and consequences, I saw that there was such an unsatisfied woman.
Xiao Wu's wife is a shopaholic, no matter how much money will be spent, every time at this time, she began to insult Xiao Wu for having no ability, what a man; she did not look at the children, every day about the little sister to go out shopping, Xiao Wu once he went back late, tossing his mother.
There are so many things like that, and the last straw that crushed his marriage was that his ex-wife didn't look at the children and accused his mother of not taking good care of the children, so he pushed and crashed into the coffee table.
Xiao Wu said that I proposed divorce, she looked contemptuous, felt that I would admit it in the next second, confirmed that I was serious, she said on her toes waiting for me to kneel down and beg her.
I have hesitated, but I really divorced I only feel relaxed, separated for half a year, to say regret, probably blame my own divorce late.
After a couple divorces, who regrets more men and women? I believe that everyone can see the truth from these three people who have come over. For the reasonable side, some of them are all worthwhile, and those who make mistakes, without exception, regret it.
Tie the heart, pierce is that you think you are very good, just fight the other party to love you can be energetic, the result of losing only to find that the person who is most afraid of losing is you.
Because you have never paid, you have left the person who is good to you, and the other party is fleeing from the whirlpool, who regrets it immediately.
Therefore, in marriage, both men and women must understand the foot, but also learn to pay, while enjoying rights and paying the corresponding obligations, only in this way, marriage will tend to be stable.
Giving, the likelihood of possession increases. Even if you really lose, you will not regret it, otherwise it must be you who have regrets, after all, people always have to bear the price of mistakes.