Text/Good Pregnant Sister
Today, open a treasure again to see if the logistics has been updated. Well, I saw that the pickup truck on the map was staying somewhere unmoving, and the delivery date was postponed again.
Alas, in the era of the epidemic, online shopping has also become so difficult.
This anxious and helpless mood can't help but remind me of my friend's funny and poignant remarks.
1.
Last year, when the friend originally planned to have a baby, he asked her husband and mother to accompany her. As a result, when he was born, the epidemic situation recurred repeatedly, and the hospital only allowed one person to accompany him.
When she came out of the delivery room, the door was empty, and her husband was called by the doctor to follow the child.
Fortunately, it was a smooth delivery, and I was discharged home in two days and officially began confinement. If there was no epidemic, her mother would have come to take care of her long ago.
After all, the old lady is exceptionally well prepared this time, all day long like a bully who brushes up on simulated questions and looks forward to the college entrance examination, just waiting to show her skills.
As a result, someone in her neighborhood tested positive. The old lady hurried to catch up with the speed of the community sealing control. And her b plan, please sister-in-law, also directly in vain.
Therefore, the whole confinement is her and his father two rookies, and the mother can only take care of her and the baby through the mobile phone cloud.
Friends said that she also wanted to experience the feeling of being forced to lie down and be a waste, but the epidemic has frustrated her various plans, which is really hateful.
If you want to talk about the feud of the moon, then the epidemic is definitely her enemy!
2.
In fact, when it comes to the feud of the moon, many people's first reaction is the resentment between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law.
This is because if the mother-in-law in the family is still in good health, most people will still choose to let them take care of confinement. But after all, the two people who were originally strangers did not understand each other. Whether it is living habits, food preferences, or the concept of bringing a baby, there will be contradictions.
Some mothers-in-law really want to be good to their daughters-in-law, and they are too tired to stand up every day to have enough meals and wash clothes for adults and children. But they really don't take care of mothers and children, and they don't want to learn about it, and they do it completely according to their own experience.
For example, knowing that eggs are nutritious, they are noodles mixed with tomatoes scrambled eggs every day at noon; stewing a pot of chicken soup was originally intended to make pregnant women supplement nutrition, and the result was either adding various spices or it was too difficult to drink; at every turn, they urged to eat more, otherwise the milk was not good, and they did not raise children...
Because most of them are still stubborn, they rarely realize that they are not doing anything wrong without persuasion. And some daughters-in-law are thin-skinned, embarrassed to say their needs, and more worried about making their husbands embarrassed. So, even if it was uncomfortable, I gritted my teeth and endured the tears alive.
Alas, in fact, sometimes, mothers have to calmly open up to their mother-in-law and say, no is not ok, unwilling is unwilling. Otherwise, if you hold it in your heart, you will still be angry with yourself, but others will not know it at all.
3.
But there is a saying that there is no harm without contrast. If you meet those drama girls who want to pinch you, it is not only friction and contradiction, but the popularity of the people to explode in minutes, and the heart is cold.
From the daughter-in-law getting pregnant, giving birth to a baby, to confinement, people don't even have a phone call. It was hard to make a few small mattresses for the baby, and it was still said by others to do it. And even if you come to take care of your daughter-in-law's confinement, you have a lot of eyes.
In the morning, I have a bowl of porridge and want to drink more. At noon, I cook directly from the corners and corners left over from the day before yesterday, and occasionally there are meat dishes, which are also sporadic meat foam. But when the son of the family came back in the evening, it was all big fish and meat, and there were a lot left. Such an obvious difference is too chilling.
In addition to pinching the daughter-in-law by cooking, people also do face work. Thinking that his son was too tired at work, he volunteered to sleep in a house with his daughter-in-law. As a result, I slept in the dark at night, and I couldn't wake up when I shouted. As long as the guests come to the house, they quickly greet their daughter-in-law and rush to hold the child. But as soon as relatives and friends left, they didn't care about anything. This family still feels too addicted, and for three days, they still threaten people with their own going home.
Alas, when encountering such a person, the daughter-in-law can only be stronger than her, otherwise she will really be bullied into a bun that can only cry.
4.
For many women, the moon feud will probably really remember for a lifetime.
But many husbands will feel, no, why do you have to remember things for so long?! Even feel that their mother has worked hard enough, and the result is not good, so that the wife is small-minded and does not know the general body.
Alas, if you meet such an unclear husband, there is no doubt that the behavior of the mother-in-law in the month is absolutely related to his attitude. Not only can they not shield their wives from the wind and rain, but they will also create wind and rain.
After all, the attitude of the in-laws actually depends on the degree of respect a man has for his wife. If a man does not care about his wife, some in-laws will follow suit and step on it from time to time.
Finally, I would like to say that once people have a gap, they really can't get close. No one has been wronged and is willing to stay where they are.
Only when you have really had that kind of experience of heartache and helplessness, isolation and helplessness and having to be strong to support, can you appreciate the helplessness of "Yuezi Revenge".