"Do you dare to marry a takeaway delivery, don't recognize me as a father in the future", marrying a takeaway is inferior?
Narrator: Sun Ran
Finishing: Mr. Xiao Han
My name is Sun Ran, 26 years old, from Hubei.
After graduating from high school, I was not admitted to the ideal university, and my parents suggested that I study health school in order to make me look for a job in the future, and choosing this major meant that I would be a nurse in the future. In fact, there is nothing wrong with girls, after all, there is no high or low in the profession, only whether you want to do it, like it or not. The 4-year college career passed quickly, and I officially joined the work in 2018, with a monthly salary of 5,000, and I usually saved the habit, which was enough for me to live.
In the four years of college, I did not talk about the object, I was bent on learning my profession well, and then I joined the work to serve patients, and it was also during the work period that I met a boy who was two years older than me, who liked the pastoral life, that is, the kind of man who did not seek to be enterprising in everyone's mouth, but I felt that there was nothing wrong, as long as it was able to live a life that I liked, I was a person with ability.
So far, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for four years, during which time, I've changed jobs three times. Sometimes I do feel that his personality is a bit dull, not good at talking, and he will definitely suffer losses in the workplace.
When the epidemic improved last year, her boyfriend chose to quit his job, and later bought a motorcycle to start delivering takeaways. To be honest, he delivers takeaways smartly and diligently, running for more than a dozen hours a day, almost twice as much as his salary at work before.
I never hated what job he chose to do, as long as there was enough to eat and drink. Girlfriends often say that it is the kind of woman who has no quarrel with the world, and it is suitable for being with this kind of man who does not seek progress.
Although it is a joke of ridicule, it often warns me: this is a realistic society, how to live without money? How to raise children? Where to stay?
Wait a minute!
Girlfriend is right, this society is both realistic and cruel, a little effort, will be eliminated, but I chose such a man, hard scalp to go on, and my family is not very good, my parents are workers, perennial work in Jiangsu, and the boyfriend's family is relatively better, the father is a small leader of the post office, the mother is a middle school teacher.
Girls want to get married once they have been in love for three or four years, especially when their girlfriends gave birth to children shortly after marriage, which made me envious for a while, and my boyfriend also proposed to me, and took my boyfriend to my house for the New Year last year.
As an honest child, I told my parents truthfully that my boyfriend's current job was to deliver food, and my father was very unhappy and asked me to break up early, and he would introduce me to a boy with a better family, but I refused.
My refusal directly made my father angry, I have never seen my father make such a big fire, he told me on the first day of the first month: "You dare to marry a takeaway, don't recognize me as a father in the future." "At that time, I was angry, picked up my luggage and left. But in the past few months, the relationship between my parents and me has not eased, first of all, my mother, who has always hurt me and loved me, has also ignored me.
Sometimes I wonder: Am I inferior when I marry a man who delivers food? There are millions of people who deliver food in China, should they live a single life? I don't understand, I want to ask for an understanding, but my father did not give me the opportunity, coupled with the particularity of my work, I could not go to Jiangsu to find my parents.
The boyfriend has indeed changed, began to blame himself constantly, became vulnerable, and sometimes has been thinking about whether the man in front of him should choose in the end.
I have never abandoned my boyfriend's profession, because the meals I eat every day, when I can't come busily, are called for takeaways, and it is not easy to see them work so hard, and I have to smile like we say "Hello, your lunch is coming, I wish you a happy meal".
Constantly encouraging the boyfriend, making him cheer up, everything will be fine, and even thinking of having children out of wedlock to force parents to agree, but the consequences of doing so may really be that they will not recognize me as a daughter.
Can understand the good intentions of parents, which parents do not want their daughters to marry a rich person and live a rich and happy life. But I also know that I am not proud of my appearance, and I am an ordinary person's personality, so I think that marrying a takeaway delivery person, as long as you have a good time, there is nothing wrong with it. I just don't really know what to do at the moment.