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There is a line in "The First Half of My Life": No one will become the safe haven of this life and this life that you think you are, only you are your last refuge.
Luo Zijun once thought that Chen Junsheng was her reliance on this life, until the marriage change came, she finally realized that no one in this world can be relied on, and only relying on herself is the final destination.
In fact, we should have understood that no one will be your lifelong dependence, relying on your parents at the beginning, but your parents will eventually leave us. Later, when I found the other half of my life, I would put all my hopes on each other, thinking that I had finally found a home for my life, but the heart was a changeable thing, and maybe one day the other party would abandon you.
Don't wait until the day he leaves you to wake up, when you're like a fish thrown to the ground and you feel overwhelmed and don't know what to do next.
People must not go to the moment of desperation, only to begin to realize hindsight, we must prepare in advance, lay a good foundation for the second half of their lives, and do a good job of protection.
No matter what kind of rich family you marry, no matter how good he is to you, how deeply he loves you, don't completely attach your life to others, the second half of your life is not a man, but three things, which is the most precious wealth for the rest of your life.
A healthy body is the greatest cost
Good health is the capital of the revolution, the most important thing in a person's life is a healthy body, even if anything else is lost, it can be regained, but health is something that can never be returned.
Without a healthy body, no matter how much else you have, it is nothing, and everything you want to get needs to be exchanged for health as a basis. When you drag a sick body, you have no intention of doing anything. Even if you end up getting what you dreamed of, you're not blessed.
Women are too easy to be hurt, both physically and psychologically very fragile, when they are younger, they foolishly do not know how to cherish their own bodies, and even hurt themselves for some rotten people, until later dragging the sick body finally understood, it turned out that they actually lost the most precious things.
There is no one in this world who deserves you to hurt your body, and nothing is more important than your body. In the second half of life, the fight is health, only with a strong physique, can we avoid a lot of pain, and have the capital to pursue others.
To realize the importance of health as soon as possible, to consciously strengthen exercise, to avoid some harmful things to the body, to stay up less, eat less junk food, and do more aerobic exercise. For example, running, which is a project that everyone can participate in, sports and non-sports people live two kinds of life, when you insist on exercising for a long time, you will find that the whole person's state will become better.
Xtep held a cloud breath "the taste of running" - the concept proposed in the 7th Xtep 321 Running Festival and new product cloud conference: running is not only a competition, running is also life, we are all running in life, using running to experience and express the taste of life, and discover the beauty of life. People who insist on running for a long time will not only bring about physical changes, but also make their mood different.
Good health is the most precious treasure for the rest of your life.
Strong heart, able to cope with life's difficulties independently
Women must not only be financially independent, but also mentally independent enough. It is the most important thing to quit dependence on others, have a strong heart, and be able to independently cope with the trials of life.
Don't look like you can't live without a man, don't hurt people to put all your hopes on men, don't lose yourself, even if one day you are left alone, you can still live a colorful life, such a woman is the treasure of the world.
You never know how long a person can accompany you, maybe one day the other party will leave you, leaving you alone to cope with life, do not indulge, do not get depressed, get up as soon as possible, continue to devote yourself to the next life, be able to independently cope with the difficulties in life, this is the most deserving state.
There are some women who look strong, but are actually not vulnerable at all. There are some women who are soft and weak on the surface, but are actually very strong on the inside. Only the latter can make life colorful and can truly live out oneself.
Zheng Juan in "The World" is such a weak woman on the outside and strong on the inside. His life can be said to be very bumpy, experienced a lot of difficulties and obstacles, but he has never been defeated, the world kissed me with pain, but I repaid it with a song, in her body, there is super perseverance and endurance.
No matter how hard life is, she can be optimistic and strong to cope with life, Zhou Bingkun is not in the time, she alone shouldered the burden of the family, all the difficulties, in the end, were overcome, to live a life.
It is very important to be strong in the heart, no matter how difficult life is, you can't fall down, and such a woman's life will not be too bad.
Maintaining self-growth is the foundation of your foothold in the world
This era has always been an era of high-speed operation, and the moment society abandons you, it will not say hello to you at all. We can't change the ever-changing changes, the only thing we can do is to constantly improve ourselves and adapt ourselves to the changes of the times.
The times will never give up on the kind of people who have always maintained self-growth, such people can successfully adapt to society no matter how they change, and will not be left behind.
Many women feel that as long as they find a good family to marry, they can ensure that they have no worries about food and clothing for a lifetime, there is no need to work hard, just need to take care of the family with peace of mind.
Where did you get the confidence to feel that the other person would hurt you and love you for the rest of your life? Who can say for sure what happens in a lifetime? He still loves you today and may not love you tomorrow. Don't wait until the day when he doesn't love you, only to find that he has no ability to stand up and can't keep up with the trend of the times.
Only by preparing in advance, constantly polishing their business capabilities, constantly learning to improve their ability, always maintaining growth, no matter when and where they are, they must maintain learning, only the strength is based on the world's fundamentals, only by learning what they have in their own brains is what no one can take away.
Men will leave you, love will disappear, and it is better to rely on anyone than on yourself. Keep growing yourself, and the road ahead will be wider and wider.
Never envy others, marry how rich a man loves her. These things are variables, which can change anytime and anywhere, and they are not reliable at all.
Don't put the rest of your life into men's hands. Don't feel like just finding a man who really loves you can make sure you have a worry-free life.
Only by relying on yourself can you never expire, and only by improving yourself and making yourself stronger is the biggest reliance on you for the rest of your life.
In the second half of a woman's life, the bottom card in her hand is these three, and it is not impossible to go without a way out if she grasps it well.