Some people say,
Beauty is a long run.
It does not belong to a certain age stage,
It's the whole life.
The temperament of a person,
Maybe thanks to the years,
It makes you cry, have seen, experienced,
After that, the calmness of the body,
No amount of beautiful faces can compare.
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A fashionable woman
Always in love with yourself
I like a quote:
"When I started to truly love myself,
I started to stay away from everything unhealthy.
Whether it's food or characters,
Or things and circumstances,
I am far away from everything that keeps me away from the true.
I used to call this "selfishness in the pursuit of health."
But today I understand,
It's self-love. ”
There is only one life,
Should live a well-to-do life,
Instead of pleasing the multitude, please yourself,
Feelings are like this, and life is even more so.
Love yourself,
It is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
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Two major misunderstandings in life
Live to others, live by looking at others
There is a problem in Zhihu:
"What should life be like?"
There was a high praise answer,
Analyzing 75 years of research at Harvard University,
Finally, the conclusion is reached:
There can be no standard answer to this question.
If there is, life is meaningless.
Man is alive,
It's about exploring different paths.
Experience a different experience,
So
Try to be your favorite kind of person,
Even if it doesn't work out,
At least you'll like yourself who's worked so hard.
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Wear the right clothes and love for people
It's all about the talents to be refined
Dressed and loved ones like a resume,
Always embodying the inside,
What is shown is a pair of people
Quality of life, to the United States,
And the pursuit of the taste of life.
I used to think that being beautiful was an advantage,
Later, I found that I lived beautifully,
It's actually a skill.
Wear the right clothes, love the people,
It is the talent that we have to cultivate in our lifetime.
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Give up wisely
It is better than blind attachment
People always like to chase what they can't get,
But he snubbed the pursuit of his own.
It wasn't until I finally discovered:
No matter how hard you try,
People who don't love you will eventually go far.
Zhang Ailing said,
Love is not worth it, just willingly,
But I prefer this sentence of Mo Yan:
"Deliberately trying to please people,
What can only be damaged is the dignity of the self.
Without heads-up, there is never a reciprocity. ”
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Sharpen your heart
Much harder than the appearance of oil
Wang Shuo said in the "Letter to His Daughter":
You have to be rich in your heart,
In order to get rid of these superficial similarities.
Soup is more important than writing poetry,
Their craft is more important than men',
Hair and breasts and butts are more important than faces,
The inside is so strong that the bastard is more important than anything else.
Instead of letting someone else play umbrella,
It is better to give yourself an umbrella.
You only have to make your heart strong to the point of being an asshole,
Only then can the world shake hands with you.
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If you know you're going to fall
Then at least this fall is beautiful
Someone said:
"I don't expect life to go well.
But I hope that when I encounter difficulties in life,
Itself can be its opponent. ”
People will always meet in this life
Certain difficult moments,
You have been helpless, questioned, angry,
But you can only struggle again and again,
Grit your teeth and try to live.
How did you get out of the haze of life?
Take a few more steps.
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There is an aesthetic life
in order to resist the roughness of the world
The reason why people need aesthetics,
Because there are many things in the world,
It takes us to make trade-offs,
Find the part that fits our needs,
That is, things of beauty.
Wang Xiaobo said:
"It is not enough for a man to have this life,
There should also be a poetic world. ”
People who live seriously do not need to work hard,
Can put chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea,
Over into the piano chess painting poetry hops.
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People who will really live
I've been doing subtraction all my life
Sometimes we feel unhappy,
It is because it is because it has abandoned the simplest truth,
Those who see the scenery of the world,
Often choose to go back to basics.
Learn to break away,
Subtract from life,
By sorting out what is visible,
Re-examine our hearts,
Focus your energy on the right desires,
Do things that are good for progress.
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Maturity is not about going to complexity
It's about arriving at innocence
The water, the lighter the clearer,
People, the lighter the happier.
Life is like a movie,
It's all about winning or losing with the aftertaste.
Many things in life,
Will make you lament countless times that the world is not worth it,
But you have to be like a child,
Forever young, always tearful,
Even in a street full of sixpence,
You can also look up at the moon.
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You like the good weather
And the world also likes sunny people
I like Haizi's poems very much:
"I love the new day infinitely,
Today's sun, today's horses,
Today's catalpa tree,
Make me healthy, rich, and have a lifetime.
From dawn to dusk, the sun is shining,
Better than all the poetry of the past. ”
Life always has many surprises,
Even the worst emotions can always turn beautiful around the corner.
Believe in people, believe in feelings,
Believe in the existence of goodness.
Be cheerful, be tenacious,
Be warm and alive.
What do you want to live like,
It's related to the years.
Can't change the world,
But you can be your own world.
On the road of life,
Give yourself the best gift,
It's just getting better.