When you live to a certain age, you will understand that it is better to rely on anyone than on yourself.
Admittedly, if you want to rely on yourself, you can only make yourself strong enough to be reliable.
The road to self-growth is both lonely and requires strong self-determination.
Therefore, investing in yourself, improving yourself, and strengthening yourself are the most solid guarantees for you to move towards a better life.
1: The Hidden Dragon is in the abyss
A person's premise for strengthening himself must be: precipitate himself.
Learn to precipitate yourself, in order to achieve the hidden dragon in the abyss.
Without outside interference, even if it is considered a fool by the people around you, or even a loser, it does not matter.
Because only by knowing where your goal is, and also knowing how to work hard, and moving forward in the direction of the goal, can you really achieve the achievements you want.
Only when you encounter the critical moment that determines your own destiny, will you truly understand how important it is to accumulate and work hard in the past, and how important it is to build up with the true power of the self.
The real strong people like to strengthen themselves silently in secret.
They like to build momentum for themselves, accumulate experience for themselves, and constantly grow themselves for their own success.
In fact, before a person fails to succeed, it is very wise and very effective to choose "Hidden Dragon in the Abyss".
Because when a person has nothing, he can only save time and energy and focus on the goal and work at hand.
In this way, after "ten thousand hours" of tempering and polishing, I can become a leader in a certain field.
True strength is created by long-term and long-term continuous accumulation and iteration.
Long-term accumulation is accumulating experience, constantly iterating on oneself, constantly exposing oneself to new things, and then opening one's eyes and enhancing one's strength and charm.
2: Precipitate yourself
A moment of cleverness may be able to achieve small results, but from its own point of view, it does not make a person strong.
In the short term, it is important to achieve results in a single dimension, but in the long run, if a person wants to achieve more outstanding or more long-term achievements, he needs to precipitate himself.
By precipitating oneself, one can maintain a calm and rational analytical ability, and then maintain a self-educational motivation and ability.
This kind of motivation and ability, placed in real life, is actually difficult for many people to achieve.
Most people, because they can't see hope, because they can't see the effect for a while, they deny themselves completely, because of a moment of confusion and fall, they are impatient to choose to escape.
It is true that only when a person has a growth mindset that is not afraid of falling and has the value of win-win cooperation, can he truly tap greater potential.
Otherwise, we will easily become the kind of people who are blind, and at any time, once we can't see the effect, we will choose to give up.
This kind of mistake, which is too impatient, but also very forced by the exhaustion of resources and the inability to iterate itself for a long time, once provoked, people are prone to fall into a very decadent state.
As a person, you must know how to precipitate yourself first, find some key points from a variety of intricate information systems, or find things suitable for your own development.
Then, you can do your own thing smoothly and smoothly.
Precipitation is a process, a process of constantly seeking, exploring and refining information suitable for their own development.
3: Avenue to Jane
The more people experience, the more they think, and the more experience they have summed up, the richer their wisdom becomes.
Many people have formed their own cognitive and decision-making systems intact before they speak, and this ability is not something they are born with, nor is it learned casually.
More often, they are built up bit by day and night through countless days and nights of dedication and hard work behind them, bit by bit.
In life, they will revise their own life experiences, and open their eyes, iterate themselves, and be able to manage themselves.
The process of leading to the simplicity of the road is not achieved overnight, but also needs to go up a long enough ramp, and the process is to continuously accumulate and iterate positive feedback and positive benefits.
In this way, the small advantages accumulated by the self in real life can be gradually formed into large advantages.
The person who truly achieves the simplicity of the road is actually a process of constantly strengthening the self.
In the right direction, insist on positive accumulation, and then run in small steps, looking forward to good results every day, and compound interest effect, looking forward to positive energy and good mentality through the self, usually successful.
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