There are many reasons why girls reject a person, and among these reasons, the most common of which is "no feeling". Girls are emotional animals, always like to put feelings first can also be understood, then what is the so-called "feeling" of girls?
What do girls say about feelings?
1, the girl's feelings are defined by her
First of all, we must understand that the "feeling" in the girl's mouth is actually dominated by her emotions, because girls are more sensitive than boys in terms of emotions, they need a carrier to place their emotions, and girls are naturally insecure and want to guide themselves to find their partners through an external force.
Because of the above two points, they are more likely to pin their emotions on "feelings" to fill their emotional holes, and they are more likely to be induced by statements such as "fate".
2, girls' feelings come from understanding
A lot of times to chat with girls, feel that the conversation is good, but the feedback of girls is not good, always reply to you "good, um, oh" and the like, in fact, this situation is to think that you have been pandering to girls, but there is no communication and interaction with you.
When getting along with girls, choose to cater to girls' emotions, which can produce emotional resonance, but a brief pandering will make girls feel that chatting with you is not interesting, specifically that girls do not feel that she really understands what she says.
3, the girl's feeling is attraction
The "feeling" that girls say is actually a kind of attraction, but what is attraction? In fact, attraction is simply the same sex repulsion, the opposite sex attraction. Just like a person, your living environment is different, the circle of daily contact is different, you are two completely different people, and you can always contact with what you have never known before, and you are willing to talk to him, in fact, this is a kind of attraction.
The girl said that she didn't feel like chasing?
In fact, most girls are duplicitous animals, so there is a big difference between the feelinglessness in her mouth and the feelinglessness in reality, so what performance will a girl have if she really has no feelings for you?
1. Don't want to reply to your messages anymore
Some girls like to use rejection to test when they meet suitors, but sometimes the girl's rejection is real, and if you want to distinguish between true and false, then it depends on whether she is willing to reply to your message after rejecting you, if it is only a verbal rejection, she will still chat with you with joy in behavior, but if it is really rejected, then she will not say a word to you.
2. Reject your gift
The girl's heart is very soft, but the temper is also very hard, so I want to know if a girl really has no feelings for you, you can try to send her a gift after she says she has no feelings for you, if she resolutely refuses, then you give up, but if she does not refuse, then you still have a glimmer of hope.
3. Avoid meeting you
Girls are born thin-skinned, especially after rejecting the suitor's overtures, she will have a little guilt and embarrassment in her heart, so after she rejects you, she will avoid meeting you, that is, when she meets you, she will also hide away, in this case, she really has no feelings for you, but if she rejects you and still gets along with you as usual, then she is just reserved.
So, if a girl just says that she has no feelings for you, does not appear in the above performances, and you really like this girl, then it is still very promising to continue to chase.