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Waiting is a beautiful word.
Only because, in waiting, people will have many fantasies and expectations, and will long to be able to appear the surprises they want, but the end of waiting is two extremes, either very beautiful or very sad.
Do you remember the story of a soldier who waited for her under the princess's window for ninety-nine days, and although he turned away on the last day, the ninety-nine days of torment and waiting in the early days were not spent in pain and anticipation.
That last turn, is dignity, but even more is the loss after turning away.
Because he understands that if a man loves him, he is not willing to let him wait for so long.
The meaning of waiting is the same for both men and women, if a person wants to develop a long-term relationship with you, he will not let your heart remain in the cold, so that you finally want to leave him.
Love needs to be spoken and expressed.
If a person gives you an attitude that is ambiguous, is unclear, is to make you guess and guess... At this time, you have to think clearly: a person who wants to develop a long-term relationship with you, he will not do this to you.
-02-
Once saw the story of a girl "waiting".
The girl confessed to the man, but the man's attitude toward her was always ambiguous, and then the man left the city where they were, while the woman remained where she was, convinced that one day he would come back.
For one man, guarding a city.
The girl sent him many messages every day, telling him about the interesting things that happened to the people around him, and would go to places where they shared memories, take some photos and send them to him, as if the person on the other side of the phone had never left.
But finally one day, a woman appeared in the man's circle of friends, and as this woman appeared more and more often, the girl began to panic.
She flew to his city and questioned him, and she went crazy and generally quarreled with him, and the man was silent for a long time, and with an attitude of not caring about himself, replied to her: We are not suitable.
Yeah, don't love, so any excuse can be used, and any excuse sounds like a dispatch.
But it can also be seen that girls are stupid.
If he loves you, how could he make you wait so long? You know, a person who doesn't love you, even if you do more, his "pretend sleep", you will never wake up. Moreover, if you are hysterical in spite of the image in the moment, it is even more proof that you have lost.
Therefore, women must love soberly, when a man wants to develop a long-term relationship with you, the love he gives you is clear, it is clear, and it will not make you think about it and be confused.
Even if he doesn't say something to confess, he will let you see some traces and let you feel his love for you.
There is no "sweet talk", but every word can be spoken to your heart
Some men, he is born shy, he rarely tells outsiders about his inner real world, even if he loves someone very much.
He doesn't say too many sweet words, and he doesn't coax a woman when she loses her temper, but whenever he opens his mouth, he must not be so straight, but speak to your heart.
In "The Rest of Your Life, Please Give More Advice", Lin Zhixue's father was ill, she was still studying in college, in the face of such a blow, she was helpless, she fled to the roof, a person secretly crying, and at this time, Gu Wei appeared, looked at her red eyes, and stuffed an earplug in her ear, so that she could hear a legendary musician's violin concerto.
"He was born in war, experienced ups and downs, and even so, he never gave up, so whenever I challenged me when I encountered difficulties, I would think of him and face the challenges and setbacks of life."
We can see a passage from Lin Zhixue's words, before Gu Wei could open his mouth to comfort him, he had already used a song to reach Lin Zhixue's heart and light a torch for her in the dark night.
If a man really wants to develop a relationship with you, he will not necessarily take the attitude of pursuing you, say a lot of sweet words to you, and coax you to be happy.
However, he will have a deep understanding of your current situation, understand what you think, know that you are confused, and he will deliberately stand in your point of view, think for you, and say every word to your heart.
Without "three twilights", you are the only one in his present
Perhaps, men, most of them like freshness.
If he doesn't have a clear girlfriend, then his external image is likely to be two, either he hasn't met a favorite, or he is a big turnip.
And if he really wants to develop a relationship with you, he will not make you doubt him, he will want you to believe in his character.
With you in his heart, he will know how to avoid risks, will not cause you to misunderstand, and will also know how to keep a distance from other members of the opposite sex, and will not make you think about things.
Even if there is an argument between you, he will not casually go to other people of the opposite sex to complain, he will clearly tell himself that there is only one "confidant" around you, and his friends also know that he is only around you as a "prospective girlfriend".
In "Predecessor Three", Rosie and Meng Yun played from childhood to adulthood, started a business together, started from scratch together, and Rosie has always felt that there are countless women around Luo Yun, it doesn't matter, because she is his right fate.
But the audience can see clearly, Meng Yun clearly knows Rosie's heart for himself, or his girlfriend changes one by one, which shows that he actually has no intention of spending the rest of his life with her.
If Meng Yun really identified her, how could he be willing to treat her like this, how could he be willing to make her sad and sad like this?
So, whether a man loves you or not, whether you are his only one, has already given you the answer.
If he wants to be with you, he will definitely give you a confession that "you must not", and he will definitely give you a "no one but you" intention.
There is no "tall and cold handsome", but as far as the eye can see, it is all you
Watching "The Rest of Your Life, Please Give More Advice", you will have a feeling that Gu Wei is cold and handsome in the eyes of everyone, but only in front of Lin Zhixue, you will find that everything he sees is her.
After her father learned of his illness, he sneaked out of the hospital, he accompanied her everywhere to find, saw her sad and crying, "straight man" also became a "warm man", hugged her in his arms, gently comforted her; she was at the concert, because of excessive practice, was arranged to play triangle iron, after the performance, in the face of the ridicule of her classmates, Gu Wei appeared in time to break the siege for her, give her encouragement, give her courage...
Therefore, if a man has the desire to develop a relationship with you, his eyes will be uncontrollably inseparable from you.
He likes you, whether you are around him or not, as long as his eyes glance at something related to you, he will think of you in his heart; as long as you are within his visual range, his gaze will all fall on you.
You have a crisis, he will rush over to solve it for you; you have difficulties, he will be anxious about what you are anxious; you are sad and sad, he will give you comfort and thoughtfulness... He will not leave you alone to face the cold of the world, he will use the strength he can to take care of you and give you warmth.
His "double standard" will make you feel that even if he is not wearing a golden armor suit and does not step on the colorful clouds, he will shine in front of you, which will give you a cold life and bring a magnificent future full of expectations.
-03-
The emotions between people often only look at the surface, and it is impossible to see whether they are sincere or false.
But whether a man loves you or not, you can feel it in your heart.
He loves you, will want to be with you, will want to develop a long-term relationship with you, he will not come and go around you, go and come, with you suddenly and closely, he will not be very busy, busy meeting the next her, and sending away the last her, in his life, there will only be one person, that is, you.
So, if you don't feel that he cares about you, most likely he doesn't love you that much; if there is someone else around him besides you, then don't "wait." You know, you can't wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, and you can't love someone who doesn't love you.
Life is long, there will always be a person, he will carry the starlight, bring you unprecedented brilliance.
However, if there is a person around you, although he does not confess to you, nor does he have sweet words to you, but he understands what you think, hurts you, can give you companionship, gives you comfort, and sees you, then give him a little hint, let him be brave, bold to "chase you".
In a stormy life, every woman hopes that after turning around, there is a person who has been following you behind; on the empty street, every woman hopes that there is someone who can accompany you side by side.
So, if you have already met, then hold up your umbrella, hold each other's hands, and hold on to this love; if you have not yet met, then go ahead, perhaps, at the next intersection, there will be a person waiting for you.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!