The pursuit of perfection is actually a disease, it can be cured!
The most depressed character in the TV series "Heart Residence" is not Zhan Xiang, but Gu Qingyu.
Gu Qingyu has good looks, talent, personality, a car, a house and a deposit, and can definitely be called Bai Fumei. She is the goddess in the minds of men, an idol in the eyes of women, and a representative of successful women in the new era.
Supposedly she should be happy and content, but that's not the case. Because she is always in pursuit of perfection, always weighing the pros and cons, always looking at all problems rationally.
But people have feelings, and many times they only care about their own feelings, and do not care about the right or wrong of things, so a person's feelings are sometimes more important than right and wrong. If a person is too rational, he does not understand human nature and is doomed not to be very popular. Gu Qingyu is such a person, she thinks about others everywhere, and thinks that she is right and reasonable to do so. Unfortunately, the results always backfire.
She was happy for the marriage of her brother Gu Lei, so before marriage, she found someone to investigate his fiancée Feng Xiaoqin, who knew that feng Xiaoqin's earth-shattering secret was discovered. Originally, I planned to tell my brother about this, but considering his brother's reaction at that time, he decided to hide this secret. Because there is always a thorn in his heart, Gu Qingyu has always been suspicious of his sister-in-law Feng Xiaoqin. She not only guarded against Feng Xiaoqin, but also blamed Feng Xiaoqin for many things, causing Feng Xiaoqin to complain about her all the time. As a result of the unexpected death of his younger brother Gu Lei, Feng Xiaoqin believed that he and Gu Qingyu could not be separated, and even Qianyi Baishun's father had similar ideas.
In order to help her husband Shi Yuan, she said that she could help him pay off his debts and pay for her mother-in-law's medical expenses. But for the sake of the dignity of men, Shi Yuan repeatedly said that he could not let Gu Qingyu pay for it. Gu Qingyu believes that she is a wife, has the responsibility and obligation to help her husband, and the couple should tide over the difficulties together, otherwise her conscience will be difficult.
She secretly bought her husband's antique piano, and Shi Yuan found out that his wife was too disrespectful to him, so she blamed Gu Qingyu. Shi Yuan's company called to tell him that he had been hired, and he and his mother were very happy, thinking that their talents had finally been affirmed. But Gu Qingyu found that this was the back door of the master in order to win him over. Originally, this matter could not have been let Shi Yuan know, and she told Shi Yuan the truth for the sake of her own good feelings. Unexpectedly, Shi Yuan's reaction was very extreme, he thought that Gu Qingyu looked down on him from his bones, so the gap between the two people deepened, and the married life became a cold war.
In fact, whether it is the matter of his brother or the affairs of his husband, Gu Qingyu can not be so wide. Everyone has everyone's problem, and maybe they can solve it themselves. But Gu Qingyu is a person who pursues perfection, and she thinks that it is her responsibility to do so, so it is self-defeating, and things become more tricky.
Perfection is actually a disease, because no one can be perfect. Gu Qingyu, let others go, it is very remarkable to take care of your own affairs in these years.