The midsummer afternoon is sunny and refreshing. Located in a villa in the south of the city, Zhang Jiali is drinking tea and chatting with her husband Lin Wentao. This loving couple is enjoying a rare time as two at this time. Wen Tao, have things been going well in the company recently Zhang Jiali asked gently. She cares about her husband's work and hopes that he can get better and better in his career. Fortunately, the project is going quite well. But there's something I'd like to discuss with you lately. Lin Wentao put down the teacup and looked at his wife seriously. What's the matter, Zhang Jiali tilted her head, looking curious. You give your parents 3,000 yuan a month for living expenses, I think it's a bit too much. Your parents are retired now, and we could have given them more, but 3,000 dollars a month seems a bit too much. Lin Wentao carefully put forward his ideas.
Hearing her husband's words, Zhang Jiali frowned slightly, obviously disapproving. She took a deep breath and slowly said Wen Tao, you know that I am a filial daughter. My parents are not in good health now, and I hope to do my part so that they can have no worries about food and clothing in their old age. The 3,000 is nothing to us. I know that you are filial, and I appreciate that very much. But we also need to focus on balance in our lives, and we can't spend all our savings on it. We also need to save some money for the future, buy a house, and have children in the future. Lin Wentao patiently explained. However, I couldn't bear to see my parents having a bad time. I know your concerns, but it's really too important to me. Zhang Jiali's eyes flashed with determination. Well, then go your way. I support your decision. Lin Wentao sighed lightly, reached out to hold his wife's hand, and said softly.
Although the two have some differences on this issue, they can understand and support each other. This loving couple respects and tolerates each other, which is the key to a happy married life.
At this moment, the servant walked in respectfully, holding a cup of tea in his hand. Madame, here comes tea. Ok thanks. Zhang Jiali smiled and took the teacup and gently blew on the steaming tea.
A month later, on a weekend, Lin Wentao invited a few friends to his villa. These friends are all friends who have worked hard with Lin Wentao for many years, and everyone is full of curiosity about the married life of this loving couple.
Under the guidance of Lin Wentao, friends quickly found the topic. Many concerned eyes fell on Zhang Jiali's body.
Hey, Jiali, I heard that you are so filial to give your parents 3,000 yuan a month for living expenses! A friend couldn't help but speak.
yes, I think that's a bit of a lot. You two are young, but you also have to think about your future. Another friend also chimed in.
Zhang Jiali's face was a little shy, but she still replied calmly: I have discussed this matter with Wen Tao, and he supports me in doing so. My parents are old and not in good health, and I want to make them worry-free in their old age.
Hearing Zhang Jiali's words, everyone nodded in understanding. However, some people can't help but sigh: However, I heard that many elderly people now rely on their children to support them, and this society has really changed.
This is indeed a matter of concern. Lin Wentao pondered for a moment, and then said: I understand everyone's concerns, but I believe that as long as the husband and wife have the same mind, they will definitely be able to find the most suitable solution. We will slowly adjust according to our actual situation.
You have a point. Zhang Jiali nodded, with a hint of helplessness in her eyes. I know this may cause some discussion, but for me, it is my duty to be filial to my parents. I also look forward to your understanding and support.
Everyone exchanged their opinions, and the atmosphere became a little heavy. In order to alleviate this, Lin Wentao quickly changed the topic and let everyone talk about interesting things about work and life.
After the meal, everyone walked and chatted in the courtyard of the villa. The setting sun dyes the yard with a golden glow. Zhang Jiali took Lin Wentao's hand and said softly: Wentao, I feel that everyone still doesn't understand what I do. You're right, we may have to adjust the numbers appropriately in the future.
Lin Wentao stretched out his hand to caress his wife's cheek and comforted: Jiali, you have always been a filial daughter, and I appreciate this quality of yours. I just hope you can take care of yourself too, after all, the happiness of both of us is equally important. I will always support you.
Zhang Jiali nodded lightly, her eyes flashing with happiness. They snuggled up to each other and quietly admired the beautiful sunset.
One afternoon a few days later, Zhang Jiali came to her parents' house alone.
Mom, I recently discussed with Wen Tao, and we decided to adjust the monthly living expenses to 2,000 yuan. I know you still need my help, but we also have to think about our own plans for the future. Zhang Jiali held her mother's hand with apologies in her tone.
Hearing her daughter's words, Zhang's mother was a little relieved, but also a little lost. Beauty, we know you're doing it for our good. But you also have to think about your future and don't get too tired. As long as you are doing well, we are satisfied.
I know, Mom. I just hope you guys are doing better. Zhang Jiali held her mother's hand tightly, her eyes slightly red.
We don't lack anything now, it's enough for you to give us two thousand a month. You take good care of yourself and Wen Tao, that's the most important thing. Mother Zhang said softly.
Zhang Jiali nodded, and a warmth filled her heart. She knows that what her parents want most is to be happy. Adjusting the amount of living expenses is not only for your own future, but also so that your parents can have real peace of mind.
Back home, Zhang Jiali told Lin Wentao what happened.
Wen Tao, we decided to adjust the monthly living expenses for my parents to 2,000 yuan. Zhang Jiali pursed her lips and said slightly apologetically.
Lin Wentao nodded and reached out to put his arm around his wife's shoulder. Beauty, I'm so proud of you. You are a dutiful daughter, but at the same time a virtuous wife. We will work together to make life better.
Zhang Jiali leaned on her husband's arms, her heart full of happiness and peace. They support each other and write a happy marriage in their own way.
Before I knew it, more than a month had passed. On this day, Zhang Jiali received a call from her neighbor Xiao Li.
Hey, Aunt Jiali, I heard that you give your parents 2,000 yuan a month for living expenses, which is amazing! Xiao Li's tone was full of admiration.
Everywhere, I just want my parents to have a better life. Zhang Jiali said with a smile.
Xiao Li, do you also have such troubles, I remember that your parents quarreled some time ago over some living expenses. Zhang Jiali asked with concern.
Xiao Li sighed: Yes, my parents are in their 70s, and their health is not very good. I don't have a high salary, I can't afford it. Sometimes I have to borrow money from them. I also want to give them more, but my own life is quite tight.
Hearing Xiao Li's troubles, Zhang Jiali couldn't help but nodded. She can understand Xiao Li's situation, because she has faced similar problems in the past.
Xiao Li, I know how complicated the issue of pension is. I also used to hesitate to give my parents that much every month. However, as long as the husband and wife can work together with each other, I think we will be able to find the best way for me. Zhang Jiali said earnestly.
Xiao Li, I know that many elderly people now need to be supported by their children, which brings a lot of burden to young people. However, I believe that if all sectors of society can provide more help and support so that young people can share this responsibility, we will be able to solve this problem. Zhang Jiali said hopefully.
Xiao Li listened quietly, with a hint of yearning in his eyes.
Aunt Beauty, you're right. I must work hard to make my life better so that I can take better care of my parents. Maybe in the future, I will be able to honor my parents in my own way, just like you.
I'm sure you'll be able to do it, Lee. Zhang Jiali reached out and patted Xiao Li's shoulder.
After hanging up the phone, Zhang Jiali sat quietly on the sofa with a lot of thoughts. She thought of the argument between herself and Lin Wentao at the beginning, and the final adjustment. At that moment, she realized that married life was not just a personal matter, but a microcosm of family and society.
The one-child generation is burdened with the responsibility of filial piety to their parents, but at the same time, they also need to think about their own future. This has undoubtedly put a lot of pressure on young people. But as long as the husband and wife can understand and respect each other, they will definitely be able to find the balance that suits them best.
Zhang Jiali believes that as long as all walks of life can give sympathy and support, so that young people do not have to bear this heavy responsibility alone, I believe that there will be more families like her and Lin Wentao, interpreting filial piety in their own way and composing a happy married life together.
Perhaps, such a family has quietly existed around us, but we need to pay more attention and understand it.
Perhaps, such a family will become the driving force for society to move forward, bringing warmth and hope to more people.