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Every parent feels that their child is talented and will be able to study well and be admitted to a major university in the future.
The vision of parents is good, but not every child can do it.
Putting aside factors such as genetics, the quality of children's grades is often based on evidence, let's take a look at it.
Psychology: "Family circumstances" determine a child's future performance
A systematic experiment was conducted at oxford university in the United Kingdom, where they followed up children born between 1940 and 1970.
In a 30-year follow-up study, they compared the children's academic performance in childhood with their academic performance in adolescence, and found that the factor that determines the child's performance is not intelligence, but has a lot to do with the children's family environment.
If the parents have a higher level of education or the family conditions are more affluent, the child's test scores will often be better.
In other words, "family situation" can determine the child's future performance to a certain extent, and this influence is continuous.
Children from category 2 families are more likely to succeed
The quality of children's academic performance is not an overnight thing, and there are many influencing factors, such as children's learning habits, learning methods, learning efficiency, enthusiasm, concentration, memory and so on.
The influence of the family environment on children is huge, after all, children spend most of their day in the family, and parents' behavior can directly guide children to change.
Children in 2 of these families will have better academic performance and are more likely to succeed in the future.
Families with parents with higher levels of education
From 2007 to 2016, the National College Entrance Examination Parents Occupational Survey showed that most of the parents of these college entrance examination winners were teachers, civil servants, engineers, etc., and the first three occupations accounted for up to 65%, followed by workers, farmers, and other industry personnel.
From the overall data point of view, the parents of the vast majority of college entrance examination winners have a relatively high level of education.
Parents themselves have a high level of education will understand the power of knowledge, and parents will pay more attention to the cultivation of children's academic performance and learning habits.
In addition, parents themselves love to read, love to learn this is an invisible influence, children will take their parents as an example to study hard, the results are not good to think about is difficult.
I have seen a video before, parents are Kochi, the family has thousands of books, and children live in this bookish atmosphere every day.
Usually during the holidays, the father takes the child to practice and read, and the child naturally develops the habit of loving reading, calm and quiet, and the temperament of having poetry and bookishness in the belly is naturally formed.
Academic performance is only a result, the process is already perfect enough, the result must not be bad.
Families with wealthy family conditions
As the old saying goes, the children of poor families have long been in charge, because they have nothing, so the children naturally mature and understand things, and this situation is real.
But there is no denying that children in affluent family environments will also achieve better grades.
Now the social conditions have made great progress, the children's learning methods are diversified, online teaching, foreign exchanges, private teaching, etc., these are the superior educational resources that children of wealthy families can enjoy.
Rich families give children a certain guarantee, so that children have more opportunities to see the outside world, understand the laws of the world in advance, and children's thinking and vision will unconsciously get great improvement and progress.
Children of wealthy families pay attention to the cultivation of children's all-round quality, in addition to cultural classes, they also have art classes, talent classes and so on.
The child's quality in all aspects can be improved, and the child is more confident and courageous.
In addition, parents in wealthy families will use various network resources to find opportunities for their children, and the children's resources are already much higher at the source, and it is difficult for children to think badly.
Parental support and love make their children's future
Maybe you will say that if we do not have the conditions of wealth and we are not Kochi, then our children's grades will not be good? Are our children destined to be gray in the future?
Not really.
The achievements and family situation of parents can only help their children, but the source of real motivation lies in the children themselves.
The unconditional love and support of parents is the greatest driving force for children's growth, and children feel that they are supported, and this invisible force is infinite.
When the child encounters difficulties, parents gently encourage the child, when the child is frustrated, the parents will not easily scold but smile at each other, and when the child is under too much pressure, the parents can guide in time.
In the eyes of children, parents are the strength they can rely on, and in their parents, children learn patience, tenacity, hard work and calmness.
These basic qualities will play a pivotal role in children's learning path, and children can use them for a lifetime.
So, no matter what the family situation, moms and dads remember to love your children, oh, and give their children the greatest support within their own capabilities!
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