Do not write homework, motherly kindness and filial piety; a homework, chickens fly dogs jump.
This sentence profoundly reflects the bitterness of modern parents when tutoring their children to write homework, when they see their own babies writing homework carelessly, procrastinating, how to teach and do not correct, many parents are angry, can't help but want to do it. So, does the hands-on really work? At least the following mom thinks it works.
Two days ago, when Ms. Gao (pseudonym) was tutoring her son to write homework, she found that he was very careless in writing homework, not only grinding and rubbing and writing for a long time without completion, but also scribbling very sloppily, which made her brain shell hurt.
After several unsuccessful attempts, she beat him up in anger, only to find that her son had finished it very quickly and of very high quality. Before the beating, the mathematical formulas on the math homework book were one piece east and one piece west; after the beating, the yards were neatly and clearly understood. The writing practice of the language homework is also homework, before the beating, "lack of weight and short two", after beating there is a little bit of the taste of the word paste.
The quality of the completion was so high that she was stunned, and she couldn't help but mutter, is stick education really so effective? To this end, she shared the comparison of homework before and after beating the baby to the Internet, and asked netizens to evaluate it.
Soon, the comment area generated a large number of netizens' comments.
Some netizens clearly oppose stick education, believing that children are used to love, not to beat, I have never been beaten by my parents since I was a child, and I will not beat my own children.
Some netizens told the real people around them, after being beaten, although the child's grades went up, but people were also nervous, and finally jumped off the building and fell to their deaths.
Some netizens said that tutoring children to write homework needs to be guided by the situation, motivating them with things that children like, and completing homework is not only fast but also of high quality.
Some netizens believe that a childhood that has not been beaten is an incomplete childhood.
Judging from the comments of netizens, everyone's family education method is different, some people recognize the rationality of stick education, some people have a clear banner against stick education, and some people are more inclined to guide from the nature of children. In short, the public is justified, and the mother-in-law is justified.
This confirms the saying: Teach according to people. Each child's personality is different, and the appropriate education methods are also very different. Some children eat soft and do not eat hard, stick education will only push them in the opposite direction, suitable for taking advantage of the situation and being good at guiding. Some babies are more naughty and cheerful, and a proper beating can let them know the lesson. There is also a certain rationality in the filial piety under the stick, and the educational concept summed up by the ancestors for thousands of years. And some professors and scholars who reason with their children seem to be feeling headaches for the growth of their children.
It can only be said that educating children is really a very advanced science. Many parents are first-time parents, children are the first time to be children, only by constantly trying, constantly correcting mistakes, and making progress together can we find an educational way that is suitable and acceptable to each other. Some parents quickly found a suitable way to educate their children, teaching is handy, and their children's growth is also excellent; some parents have been struggling to explore and can't do anything about it, and when they get along with their children, they will jump, and the ideal of "hoping for a child to become a dragon, hoping for a woman to become a phoenix" has also been disillusioned.
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