If you love someone, how can you let go?
The affection is the mutual attraction of the magnetic field of the two sides.
Even if the objective conditions do not allow it, if two people have a relationship, they will be attracted by the magnetic field, and they can't help but make the act of completing love, and constantly bring the two hearts closer.
I have come on the moon only because you are in the mountains.
Fate, can not see or touch.
But it can subtly change a person.
When the depths of the heart are completely occupied by someone, the next thing everyone wants to do most is to cross the vast sea of people and appear next to each other. Once the relationship is determined, they will go to the happy world of two together.
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Men are very loving and will remain rational.
If you say, girls are emotional.
When they encounter love, they may even have an IQ of zero.
If you recognize a certain boy, the woman will see the other person as the destination for the rest of her life. After having such an idea, the girl will also pluck up the courage to complete the relationship at any cost.
Men, on the other hand, can always maintain enough rationality.
Even if they are vivid in a woman, men will try their best to get close to each other, but they can keep their thoughts unchanged and easily grasp the direction of emotions.
In a man's mind, love and marriage are completely different.
Love is only a temporary romance; marriage is the bondage for the rest of life. Even if one day, the two people become lovers, the man can clearly know what his needs are, and what his position is in the relationship.
Therefore, girls are prone to fall deeper and deeper in love, while men are often more than enough in their feelings.
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Don't want to continue, he will treat you like this.
Just want to be in love, and there is a bottom line for men's efforts.
Unless one day, the man realizes that the girl next to him is worth guarding for the rest of his life. From this time on, he will see the other party as a wife and partner, and men will work hard to put marriage on the agenda.
Women thought that if two people successfully held hands, they would be able to work together for a lifetime.
As everyone knows, in the hearts of many men, this is not the way they think at all. Men can rationally distinguish between love and marriage, and they will also make different moves under different subconscious.
If, they just see girls as the object of love. Then in the process of getting along with each other, men will appear unscrupulous. If you completely fall in love with a girl, the man will restrain his emotions, will tolerate the other party, and in every move, there will be behavior that completes the girl.
And this is often the difference between liking and true love.
If one day, the man is tired of the relationship and wants to escape from the other party's side. After having such awareness, in fact, men's words and deeds will also reveal corresponding signals.
To put it bluntly, men doing this is absolute evidence, remember.
Get used to picking thorns.
Love you and you will respect you.
Two people become lovers, often because they appreciate each other and have the will to always be in contact.
Under the influence of this mentality, men will stare at the advantages of girls, even at the cost of praise, in this way, to win the trust and favor of women.
Each other's feelings will continue to usher in opportunities to heat up.
If one day, the feelings of two people have changed their taste, and the man has become desperate.
From this time on, he will take back his love and will not hesitate to add up to the girl's bad words. Women have to understand the fact that men don't love you anymore, and they will pick you up and stare at your shortcomings.
In such a situation, women should not always think that they are not doing it in place.
In fact, it is because the man's heart has gone far and is unwilling to continue, he will continue to tease you, let you continue to accumulate disappointment, and finally take the initiative to choose to leave him.
Always ignore you.
Are the two people estranged?
Many times, everyone's subconscious can't deceive people.
Where fate begins, men are proactive and try to get closer to girls.
Their enthusiastic actions made women let down their guard and think that they had met someone worth entrusting their lives to. From this, we can see that men care about a certain girl, and they will look like it.
But in love, it is often full of unknowns and variables.
When a man is in the fate, can not find a sense of freshness, or is not willing to love, he will become desperate.
For girls, how to see through the true face of men? Usually, from the attitude of men to you, you can find clues.
People who love you will value you and guard you.
Men who are not willing to continue will divert their enthusiasm from you. Next, he will be indifferent to you, and even if you offer to do so, he will "listen but ignore and turn a blind eye."
Choose to betray you.
Holding hands in love, girls will expect happiness for a long time.
In order to fulfill the fate of the two people, they will not hesitate to pay for love, and even reduce their personal posture.
If a man cares about you, he will cherish the girl's efforts and will be grateful in this relationship. Women can find a sense of being guarded from men, and will have enough happiness.
Long-term feelings are inseparable from concentration and single-mindedness.
In fact, many men can realize this, if it is true love, they will also abide by this bottom line.
However, when a man decides not to love, he will become very desperate. In order to break up with girls, men do not hesitate to touch principles and hurt girls, for example, he will commit acts of betrayal of each other.
Girls should know that the man who loves you will not make a "broken window effect" in love, but will only stand on the overall situation of emotion, will stand in the perspective of women, and guard each other's fate with heart.
And the man who has changed his heart will use desperate behavior to touch the bottom line of the girl again and again, so that the woman accumulates more and more disappointments, and finally chooses to end in the last resort.
Men, are sane.
They know what their goals are for a certain period of time.
In the age of love, men will look forward to the arrival of true love and will also stick to their own concept of mate selection.
When encountering girls who admire themselves, men will not easily fall into the emotional quagmire, they will clarify their personal needs, and they will have more than enough to pinch in the emotional world.
If it is just a playful attitude, men often appear rational and desperate.
Unless the man really falls in love with you, he will give up many principles, put the girl in an important position, and willingly rotate around the girl.
In the face of such a man, how can girls grasp the happiness they want? This requires that everyone grasp the details of getting along, see through the true intentions of men, stay away from the man who is desperate, and cherish the man who is sincerely good to you.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.