Look closely at "Love Myth" 4: If only human beings didn't have love
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Create Date: 2022-03-1913:22
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A night feast brought the three women together, and Lao Bai's entanglement with them was also put on the surface. But sometimes, seeing the light also means the end.
Gloria was satisfied with her food, and before leaving, she had to buy several paintings, which were fake, and it was true to find excuses to give money. She said last night that her husband was "kidnapped" and the other party asked for it
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Ransom, she does not give, the result of today casually pick a few paintings of old white, will give
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As a rich woman, her trick may be more useful for those little white faces in the song hall, but when she comes to Lao Bai, she encounters resistance.
Lao Bai is not not love money, buy discounted goods but also have to choose thousands of people, for such a sum of money, naturally moved, so they look for someone to discuss. If you don't want it, just don't accept it, and no one has to tell you. The heart wants it, but it still carries it
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After the conservative, afraid of being talked about, after all, Gloria and Lao Wu, Alexander all know, silently closed, afraid of being known by others in the future, saying that they were prostituted. Asking others to come up with ideas is generally to hope that others will give the answers they want but can't say, so as to give their inner uneasiness a step down.
But what Lao Bai did not expect was that the two same sexes around him who could be discussed all gave the opposite opinion, which forced him to re-examine this issue.
When you encounter a topic you don't like, or hear an answer you don't want to hear, it is a very natural psychological phenomenon to immediately change the topic (looking for shoes).
At this moment, the shoes he was looking for had been thrown away by Bei Bei.
Bai's mother took something from Lao Bai to Bei Bei, and I suspect that she simply wanted to create an opportunity for the two of them to communicate, she knew that Bei Bei would send back the daily necessities, and probably guessed that the shoes were not Bei Bei's. Like Bei Bei, she didn't want other women next to Lao Bai.
Of human emotions, only love is selfish.
Bei Bei and Lao Bai, more than ten years of married life, have formed a stable and intimate relationship, although divorced, but the two are not estranged. Bei Bei came back to deliver something, and there were already two women in the old white room, but she still naturally asked, "Why are the eye circles black?" ”
Does Old Bai mind IfBe cheats? Of course mind, don't mind and won't get divorced. But it doesn't particularly mind. The marriage of the two for many years has formed a state of left hand holding right hand, which is both lacking passion and difficult to give up. So, after the divorce, the two are more like relatives. Bei Bei was both aggrieved and stubborn: I only cheated once, you divorced; you are so cruel; although you cook for me, but you are happy; I also make you happy, you forget ah...
Old Bai is obviously the green side, but only the merit of parry: not forgotten, not unhappy.
The shoes are lost, and the little cobbler's advice is: buy a pair! Can be bought
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The little cobbler does not appear much in the film, but he is a down-to-earth "king of golden sentences", "women's things are huge profits" and "every woman must have a pair in her life."
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"Men always think too little and women always think too much."
In addition to the frequent appearance of golden sentences, the little cobbler is also well versed in human nature, the first time from the shoes to see that Miss Li is not suitable for Lao Bai, the second time to give Lao Bai's definite advice: buy! The third time, it was seen that Miss Li did not want to be true to Lao Bai, and guessed that the root cause was in Lao Bai.
Lao Bai came to ask the little cobbler, in fact, and in the face of Gloria's money to consult Lao Wu the same reason, for the purchase of discounted goods and repeated comparisons, he spent nearly 20,000 to buy a pair of shoes, flesh pain. But he didn't buy it
Goods, because although he breathlessly left, the words behind the little cobbler, he actually understood that "there is no value or not, only like it or not" - to show sincerity, you must be willing to spend money.
However, after Lao Bai bought shoes, Miss Li had to "break away".
It was the little cobbler who guessed that Lao Bai had given the other party pressure, but Lao Bai himself was a little hindsighted, and even did not understand.
The small blackboard on the right is written, which is the inner volume of the talent training industry, haha
Three women, each with their own bottom line.
Gloria will take the initiative and generously show love to money, but when she sees Lao Bai's dodging, she will give up decisively. After closing the door, lonely and sad, she chose to swallow alone, and then quickly changed her smile and continued her wanton life.
Bei Bei had a lot of reluctance in her heart, but she also turned around and wept alone, unwilling to let Lao Bai see the fragility of her heart. This also shows that the marriage of the two for more than ten years has become a family affection, but they have forgotten to know each other, and Lao Bai actually does not understand Bei Bei's heart.
Miss Li is the only one of the three, Lao Bai who actively pursues, and at the beginning of the two getting along, she holds the absolute dominance. But as her embarrassment was glimpsed by Lao Bai, the psychology of both of them underwent a subtle change. She became calm, and Lao Bai became emboldened.
However, when Lao Bai issued an invitation and hoped that Miss Li would move to her house with her baby, the relationship between the two almost took a sharp turn.
What is this? This is equivalent to forcing Miss Li to make a decision for the relationship between the two immediately!
For Lao Bai's pencil drawings, Miss Li said that she especially ate this when she was young, which meant that she had to think about it now, but Lao Bai replied: Now you can also Oh! It's completely donkey lips not to horse mouths. To put it bluntly, Lao Bai lacks empathy for all women.
He didn't understand Gloria, he didn't understand Bebe, he didn't know what Miss Li really needed.
Miss Li's first marriage should have done her best for love, but she was overwhelmed by love and almost lost everything. So, she became cautious and realistic. For another choice, she will consider the hard power of the other party, but not the primary consideration, otherwise she will not give Lao Bai a chance. Compared with material things, she needs to be sincere, and it takes time to see the true heart.
For children, Lao Bai is actually quite patient, but
At the night banquet, Bei Bei kept showing her intimate past with Lao Bai: painting for herself, cooking soup for herself, and not forgetting to ridicule the painting level of Lao Bai's primary school teacher, and saying that he had become a leftover but was robbed.
Gloria defended Lao Bai everywhere, saying that he was better than the old man of the American Association, and he was not inferior to Alexander.
Miss Li has always been the cold-eyed bystander, and what she needs is a multi-angle and multi-faceted understanding of Lao Bai, rather than hastily making up a conclusion about the relationship between the two. Lao Bai's simple and rude invitation will naturally cause her pressure.
Such a simple truth, the little cobbler can analyze it from Lao Bai's three words and two words, but Lao Bai is completely unaware.
Therefore, the situation that caused it is entirely Lao Bai's own problem.
Lao Bai not only does not know how to put himself in the shoes of women, but also compares himself. He is cowardly on the surface, does not know how to reject Gloria, and can't help but cut off contact with Bei Bei, and can't let go of Miss Li's beautiful gentleness. But he, like all men for thousands of years, would only see women from a man's point of view.
It's a clichéd question, counting the stories of women in historical texts, and we only know what happened to them, but we can hardly see what they're thinking, because history is written by men.
When Zhaojun came out of the block, we sang praises his bravery; Wen Ji returned to Han, and we lamented its great righteousness, but none of the writers of history at that time and in later generations told us what they were thinking and what their hearts were like.
We study "The Biography of Li Wa" and "The Biography of Huo Xiaoyu", we watch "Three Words and Two Beats" to watch "Liaozhai Zhiyi", and even "Peony Pavilion" and "West Chamber", we will feel that Li Wa is just lucky, the personality of yingying is too contradictory, we will feel that the ghost fox fairy monster and the ordinary woman, so easy to be emotional, with the body.
Because, those women are all written by men, they are all imagined from their point of view, they don't understand the woman's mind at all, they don't know what the real needs of women are.
Lao Bai is this kind of indecisive and motherly, but also the essence of self, so that he let himself fall into the state of being robbed by three women and being abandoned by three women at the same time.
He is actually quite intimidating, Miss Li said that she has been going downhill, he said to ask people to climb the mountain. The little cobbler said that he knew women, and he was afraid of others, so why not get married. He seems to be happy, but in fact, there is no reason, more like playing a trick, and the speed of his tongue.
In the face of Lao Bai's invitation, Miss Li only took half a cigarette to think about it and made a decision.
The last time Lao Bai left her house, she had a drink and then closed the window. This time, she smoked half a cigarette and closed the window, except that this time she snuffed out the remaining cigarettes outside the window, and the director gave the small ashtray a close-up.
Miss Li came to say goodbye here is a shot, the two of them inside and outside the house, like the scene at the beginning of the movie "The Piano of Steel".
Wang Qianyuan and the actress who plays his ex-wife in the film stand together, but behind them is very different, on one side are ruins and wild grass, on the other side are clean streets and neat houses.
However, in that film, Wang Qianyuan was desolate, but his heart was prosperous, relying on the help of a group of old guys and girlfriends to manually build a steel piano. His ex-wife is in Splendid, but her heart is desolate and lost in money.
Miss Li was leaving, Lao Bai stopped her, Miss Li looked gray, but she was in a bright light; Lao Bai faced the sun, but behind her was a large shadow.
Miss Li said: Some things, you should let go; a pair of shoes can only accompany people for a while.
Lao Bai was completely in a state of confusion, completely unaware of what was wrong, he originally thought that he was a savior, he could save Miss Li's mother and daughter from the bad old house, the other party should be grateful, and form a new family combination with himself. I never expected that the other party would come to a "break away".
He first went to the little cobbler to get angry, after all, because of his words, he spent twenty thousand to buy a pair of useless shoes. Then he angered Lao Wu and sneered at his friends, which frightened the little couples who ate on the side of the road.
In the end, as a mother treasure man, the only thing that can pinch him is his mother.
While forcibly bringing him food, Bai Ma scolded him for not measuring up to his own strength, and reminded him that Miss Li had a child who needed to spend a lot of money.
Then, a large segment of the film shows the tacit understanding and confrontation between Lao Bai and Lao Wu. The two go to the same coffee shop, the same grocery store, go to the white pigeon at the same time, and even throw away the garbage at the same time. And Lao Bai's failed love this time, the director only used one lens to explain, that is, the painting that Lao Bai was painting.
Lao Bai in the painting depicts himself going to Miss Li's house to repair the light bulb, in which he himself stands on the ladder, and Miss Li is holding the ladder below. And, the fact is that Miss Li did not help him with the ladder that day.
Lao Bai painted the appearance of the two people in his imagination, while the real life is chicken flying dog jump. On that day, not only did his plan to enjoy the world of the two fail, but he was also cold-faced by Miss Li's mother, and was ridiculed and ridiculed by Miss Li in various ways.
Lao Bai hopes that the day is that the years of chai rice oil and salt are quiet, but the women have their own yearning wonderful.
There was a little affection between him and the women, and this affection was not enough to tie them together. If there is no love, maybe they will become friends, but if there is no love, it becomes a stumbling block to friendship.
So, the director said, "If only human beings didn't have love."