43-year-old Ni Hongjie is finally on fire, mention Ni Hongjie, what will you think?
Is shooting underwear advertising is also full of confidence to say "be a woman, very beautiful";
Or is it rumored that Venus and Venus have also undergone gender reassignment surgery;
Or the incomparable IQ and emotional intelligence in "The Legend of Wulin",
Or the actor in "Actors Please Take Place 2" who was positively intimidated by director Chen Kaige.
In the 20 years since entering the industry, Ni Hongjie has been controversial, some people criticize her for being 43 years old, still living like a "silly big sister", some people love her innocence as ever, and do not give up love and pursuit.
Recently, she blew herself up in an interview, "divorced, has children, and is in love" for a while " eating melon" crowd uproar, can't help but wonder what she has encountered in the past 20 years.
Father's love is missing, sending people under the fence, growing up strictly
In "Love Myth", Gloria, played by Ni Hongjie, has a special personality, with the independent and noble side of Shanghai women, in reality, Ni Hongjie is also a Shanghainese. Ni Hongjie's parents are Shanghainese, and ni Hongjie was sent to Changshu because of the policy of going to the countryside for school, and Ni Hongjie was born here.
When she was one year old, Ni Hongjie was sent back to Shanghai by her parents and lived with her grandmother and aunt. When her parents were not around, her aunt took on the responsibility of educating her, her aunt was very strict with her, and Ni Hongjie was asked to go home directly after school and go out with her classmates to report.
Although the aunt was strict, she was a very good person, and she never asked Ni Hongjie to do anything. It's just that children who are not around their parents are precocious, and Little Ni Hongjie is no exception, she learned to understand things early.
At her aunt's house, Ni Hongjie used to observe the faces of adults and be cautious. When eating, the dishes are served, and even if she is hungry, she will only eat a little, because if she eats more, her aunt will not have vegetables to take to work.
Aunt used to get up early, Ni Hongjie did not dare to sleep lazily, she would help adults to work, peeling beans, cutting snails and butts, washing dishes became her daily routine. Usually washing dishes is fine, but in the winter, washing dishes becomes a painful thing. At that time, the hot water needed to be burned with gas, and the gas asked for money, and Ni Hongjie, who was sensible, was reluctant to use it, so she had to wash vegetables and brush dishes in cold water.
Her hands were frozen like a carrot, even her fingers could not be bent, and she also had frostbite, but Ni Hongjie did not feel that she was miserable, but felt that she was lucky, after all, in that era of lack of materials, Ni Hongjie was already very grateful to be able to return to Shanghai from the countryside.
Ni Hongjie now dislikes eating snails and peas the most, and the most hated housework is washing dishes, which is probably the shadow left by childhood. So in "Love Myth", Ni Hongjie envied Gloria's "what you want to do, do, carefree" Seems that everything has found its roots.
In this strict and bitter environment, Ni Hongjie grew up.
Accidentally married, shot commercials, became an actor
In the movie "Love Myth", many people wonder, does Gloria like or need Lao Bai? Ni Hongjie replied in the interview that she was appreciative, she thought that Lao Bai had a mood, cooked deliciously, and was a good man.
In fact, Ni Hongjie's ex-husband is not like this, he can cook, people are also interesting, if there is nothing that happens later, they are still together.
In 1999, 21-year-old Ni Hongjie got married, not because of love, but because of accidents.
Ni Hongjie's uncle had a problem with alcoholism, and when he finished drinking, he made trouble, and once he had to make a fuss about her room, and threw plates at her like crazy, even if he tried to dodge, Ni Hongjie's stomach was still injured. Uncle Da's throwing plate was not enough, and when he was excited, he also threw a kitchen knife, and Ni Hongjie still flew the knife to her and stabbed the scene on the door.
Fortunately, the boyfriend arrived in time to attract the attention of the uncle, and then the police came, the farce ended, and the days she sent people under the fence also ended.
The boyfriend, fearing that she would be hurt again, took Ni Hongjie to his house and placed her in a corner under the stairs. This is a very normal thing, but Ni Hongjie's parents think that girls run to their boyfriend's house to live, and it is not good to look good when they are not married.
So, it all made sense.
In the autumn of 1999, Ni Hongjie got married, her husband was 7 years older than her, she relied on and trusted him, whether there was love between them was not important, Ni Hongjie only knew that she had a home, and finally did not have to send people to the fence, she felt very at ease.
Ni Hongjie was forced to marry her boyfriend because she had no place to live. And Lao Bai in "Love Myth" wants to send Miss Li to live, but Miss Li fled in a hurry, because she did not allow herself to attach herself to a man for such a reason. The times are progressing, and women are also progressing after all.
After marriage, everything is beautiful, the husband will cook for her, they will go hiking or camping together.
The marriage is happy, and Ni Hongjie's career is also smooth.
In 2001, Ni Hongjie received a well-paid advertisement, which was later a lingerie advertisement that made her popular all over the country. But at that time, Ni Hongjie did not know, until she went to the set, she did not understand, unfortunately it was too late, the contract was signed, and the breach of contract was to pay a huge amount of liquidated damages.
Before long, the ad was produced and placed on television. Ni Hongjie in the advertisement, wearing underwear, has a slim figure, which attracts people's reverie.
After the advertisement was broadcast, it caused a warm response, and the keen merchants smelled the opportunity and increased the intensity of advertising, and almost every TV station had this advertisement.
Seeing the advertisement, conservative parents are very angry, but they hide things in their hearts and do not say, and there is a depression in the family atmosphere. Ni Hongjie, 23 years old, was not very close to her parents, and now her parents' reaction has crushed her self-confidence and made her fall into self-doubt.
Until Ni Hongjie received an invitation from the TV series "The Ultimate Unsolved Case", it turned out that the crew watched her underwear advertisement and wanted to invite her to be the heroine.
Ni Hongjie has no acting experience, and she is very worried that she will not be able to do this job, but the crew has repeatedly insisted that as long as she plays the role.
After reading the script, Ni Hongjie understood that the so-called "true color" means that she also plays a lingerie model in the play.
Ni Hongjie, who could not resist the enthusiasm of the film party and did not know how to refuse, still agreed.
After the filming of this drama, Ni Hongjie officially stepped into the show business circle.
After that, Ni Hongjie starred in some TV series, but the response was flat, until 2005, she starred in Zhu Wushuang in "The Legend of Wulin". "The Tale of Wulin" became popular all over the country, causing a phenomenal ratings frenzy, and Ni Hongjie also caught fire.
The husband started a business, owed a huge debt, and the marriage was broken
Career is smooth, but there is a rift in the marriage relationship.
After marriage, Ni Hongjie found that her husband was a bit macho and always hoped that she would not go to work and be a full-time wife who was idle.
Perhaps because of this, he is anxious to break through the world in his career.
Soon after, the husband wanted to buy a boat to do business, as a wife, Ni Hongjie, with the money she saved from acting, plus the money from the sale of the house, made up 3 million yuan to support her husband to start a business.
Because of poor management, the boat business has become a bottomless pit, the money keeps smashing into it but how to fill it, the husband pulled her everywhere to "brush her face" to borrow, borrowed acquaintances she knew, even the bank also borrowed.
The more debts they owe, the more concentrated the contradictions, and the more frequent they quarrel.
In 2009, 31-year-old Ni Hongjie became pregnant.
During pregnancy, the family has no money, Ni Hongjie can only break one penny into two cents to spend, even to buy a pair of pants for 50 yuan have to hesitate for half a day. On the other hand, the husband lost ten thousand dollars at the card table in one night, without blinking an eye.
They had a big fight, and the rift widened again.
The year after giving birth to the child, Ni Hongjie went to shoot the film version of "The Legend of Wulin". The unhappiness in the marriage relationship will appear on the woman's face. The director said that Ni Hongjie did not have the aura of the past, she did not refute it, and could only cry silently after the end of work.
Careers are not going well, and the marriage has come to an end.
On the second day of the Chinese New Year that year, Ni Hongjie asked him in front of her husband and family how much money he owed. She wanted to ask the truth in private, and now everyone was there, putting the problem on the table and trying to solve it together, it should always be good.
But the husband was completely angered by Ni Hongjie's move, and as soon as he returned home, he immediately asked Ni Hongjie loudly why she had to tell this matter in front of everyone.
Ni Hongjie recalls the scene of that day, and she still remembers it vividly, when she was sitting on the toilet, her husband stood at the door of the toilet, and roared at her: If you can't get a divorce, get a divorce.
Ni Hongjie asked in disbelief: Is what you say true? The husband replied without hesitation: Yes.
At that moment, Ni Hongjie had mixed feelings, and she couldn't tell whether it was shock or bitterness, there might be a hint of happiness mixed in, or maybe it was time to start a new life.
On the day of the divorce, they all seemed unusually calm, got up early, and got the certificate, so the marriage that lasted for ten years was broken.
Afterwards, her husband tried to save herself, but Ni Hongjie knew that it was not the love and marriage she wanted, and she chose to go forward, just like Gloria in "Love Myth" found that Lao Bai did not love her, and she walked away without turning her head.
After the divorce, the bank texted her saying she owed more than ten million, and now she finally knows how much money her husband owes. The house she lived in, the car she drove, the money on her account were frozen, and she was listed on the list of untrustworthy people.
In order to repay the money, Ni Hongjie filmed everywhere and tried to make money.
Filming needs to go all over the country, there is no way to take the child with her, Ni Hongjie left the child with her husband, in her opinion, the child will get better care and care in the ex-husband's family.
Career is smooth, cats and dogs are complete, and love is encountered again
Although he and her husband are divorced, her son is Ni Hongjie's concern.
The son has not been around for many years, there is always an invisible barrier between them, although Ni Hongjie has long been mentally prepared, but in the face of reality she still can't stop being sad.
All she could do was tell her son that she loved him, thought of him, and needed him. Ni Hongjie often sends Her son WeChat to share photos, videos, and vibrato with him. Even in order to understand her son, she also went to learn to play "Glory of the King", hoping that one day when they played together, they would not drag their son back.
Now Ni Hongjie has played Xingyao, her son has not played a game with her so far, but people always have to have hope, she believes that one day her son will understand her, they will fight side by side in the game together.
At the premiere of "Love Myth", Ni Hongjie shouted in front of all the audience: "My eldest son, you are the most handsome!" That day, the son seemed very happy, breaking the sky so that Ni Hongjie kissed on the left and right sides of the cheek, to know that the son never let her kiss before, she was happy and unable to speak.
The years of resentment between mother and son were also resolved at that moment.
Ni Hongjie likes animals very much, she secretly raised cats when she was a child, and adopted a lot of stray cats and stray dogs in the process of filming, and she and her current boyfriend are even more romantic because of cats.
They met in the crew, she is an actress, he is a director, he likes to tease stray cats after work, Ni Hongjie as a senior "cat fan" and he always have endless topics.
Later, there was a scene where Ni Hongjie needed to blindfold her eyes, and she couldn't see the steps, so he dragged him away. At that moment, Ni Hongjie couldn't see anything, but she was extremely relieved, and the temperature transmitted by her palms made her unforgettable for a long time.
After that, he accidentally injured his hand and was treated in the hospital for 2 weeks. When he returned to the crew, he was wearing a hat and a thick down jacket, but Ni Hongjie still recognized him at a glance. At that time, Ni Hongjie was wearing makeup, and the makeup artist asked her why her face was so red, and she had already applied foundation.
Ni Hongjie realized that she might have liked him.
The boyfriend is not rich, and when he is most poor, the money in his pocket only adds up to 9,000 yuan. Just when Ni Hongjie was going to Lanzhou to shoot a drama, Lanzhou had a lot of wind and sand, and the temperature was low, and her boyfriend took her to the mall and spent 3,000 yuan to buy her a storm jacket. Ni Hongjie was distressed by him and refused to buy it, and her boyfriend did not listen to her directly to check out.
There are many such things, Ni Hongjie loves to drink coffee, the filming place is usually very remote, he bought a coffee pot online, and then bought a shockproof and rainproof box, spread a sponge in it, cut the shape according to the size of the coffee pot, carefully tuck the pot in, and then send it to Ni Hongjie.
Now, they live in a 50-square-meter apartment in Beijing, the conditions of the community are not good, but they don't care, one living is seven or eight years, they feel that as long as two people are together, it is more important than anything.
They have a dog, five cats, and they cook, watch movies, and share the little things in life with each other. Occasionally, they argue for a point of view, but this does not affect their feelings, but adds fun to life.
Having tasted the bitterness of marriage, and now finally harvesting the sweetness of love, Ni Hongjie has finally found someone who can rely on and talk to, a man who can accept her imperfections, but use love to care for her.
Gloria in the movie is like a wild cat, like it, like it, don't like it and turn around and walk away. In the film, she has a classic line: I am in the best state now. What you want to do and do, hassle-free.
Now Ni Hongjie seems to have found this state.
Looking back on Ni Hongjie's past, there have been highlight moments, there have been loneliness, she has enjoyed sweetness in marriage, and she has also been hurt all over the body in marriage.
She has experienced the blows of life and experienced confusion, but she still raises her smile and accepts everything calmly.
Now she loves herself, pleases herself, lives for herself, and at the same time she is warm, kind, and righteous.
She lives freely and romantically.
She said she envied Gloria, who was free, unrestrained, uninhibited, imaginative, and a colorful woman.
In fact, she is Gloria, just a little late, what does it matter!
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【Text| Eighty-two sandbags】
【Edited by | Xixi】