In 2005, a costume sitcom came out, "The Legend of Wulin".
Yan Ni became popular with the role of "Tong Xiangyu".
Subsequently, she participated in wonderful works such as "Young Pi", "The North Wind That Blows", "One Servant and Two Lords", and won the Feitian Award for Outstanding Actress and The Best Actress of Magnolia.
However, Yan Ni experienced a failed marriage before becoming famous and is still single.
She and her ex-husband Zou Wei are not only friends, but also relatives.
When they divorced, they were stopped by their in-laws, but Yan Ni, who was sad, also comforted her in-laws and could not become a daughter-in-law, which was praised.
Yan Ni was born in 1971 to a working-class family in Xi'an, Shaanxi Province.
There was no one in the family who was engaged in art, but there was an actor.
15-year-old Yan Ni followed her parents from Chengxi to Chengnan, lived near the Xi'an Film Studio, and entered the 45th Middle School.
At school, most of Yan Ni's classmates are the children of Xi'an Film Studio, and their goal is clear to graduate from high school as an actor.
Yan Ni has no life goal, and her classmates told her: You are suitable for being an actor! She can't act.
"I'm from Western Film, and I can help you get into art school." Classmates said.
Classmates found her a teacher to tutor her and took her to the Beijing Film Academy.
Yan Ni went in to take the exam, and her classmates waited anxiously outside the door, afraid that she would have a problem, and there was a feeling of personal cultivation.
Nortel's first and second attempts and three tests were very smooth, and Yan Ni confidently waited to be notified of the cultural class exam.
However, Yan Ni did not receive the notice for a long time, so she went to Xi'an to find a classmate, and the result was that the classmate received it, and she knew that she was not selected.
In the second year of high school that year, Yan Ni wanted to be angry and try to study hard, and strive to pass the culture class to get into a good school.
In 1988, Yan Ni entered the Shaanxi University of Finance and Economics majoring in business management.
She didn't like this profession at all, and she was obsessed with acting.
Two years later, the Lanzhou Military Region Drama Troupe went to Xi'an to enroll, and Yan Ni's opportunity came, successfully passed the examination, and became a literary and artistic soldier.
Within a few months, Yan Ni was sent to the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts to study acting and began to run dragon sets on the drama stage.
In 1996, the 25-year-old Yan Ni still had no important role, and her parents began to worry about marriage.
After being introduced, Yan Ni met Zou Wei.
Zou Wei had been a soldier before and had a common topic with Yan Ni.
One is in Beijing and the other is in Lanzhou, and the two see each other often.
The family thinks that since the two live together, let's get married. In those days, it wasn't a good thing to live together and not get married.
In the same year, they had a wedding in Beijing.
After marriage, Yan Ni still ran at both ends of Beijing and Lanzhou.
In 1998, the daughters of Yan Ni and Zou Wei were born, because they were born on New Year's Day, and they were named Zou Yuanqing.
When her daughter was one year old, Yan Ni made a comeback to film and officially entered the show business circle.
Taking care of his daughter fell to Zou Wei, who also had his own job.
Zou Wei's parents stood up and told Yan Ni and Zou Wei that their daughter was entrusted to our care, and you can rest assured that you can work outside.
Zou Yuanqing, who was educated by his in-laws, was very sensible, and he never caused trouble for his parents at a young age.
Yan Ni returned home after filming, and although Zou Yuanqing missed her mother, she would not disturb her rest.
She is very relieved that her in-laws take care of her daughter, but she has been filming in other places for many years, and she and her husband Zou Wei have gathered less and more, and her feelings have become weaker.
In 2004, Yan Ni had just received "The Tale of Wulin" and was immersed in joy, but the next second the smile on her face disappeared instantly.
Zou Wei returned home after work, saw Yan Ni cooking in the kitchen, and said: "Yan Ni, let's get a divorce"!
The kitchen noise was too loud, Yan Ni did not hear clearly: The meal will be good immediately, you wait.
Zou Wei couldn't wait for a moment, raised his voice and said again, "Let's get a divorce."
Yan Ni stopped what she was doing and stood still, not understanding why her husband wanted to divorce.
She walked out of the kitchen and looked at Zou Wei, he said: The house, the car, the children all belong to you, I cleaned up, turned around and opened the door and left.
Yan Ni broke down and cried in the room. Seeing that Zou Wei had an iron heart to divorce, she did not save it.
When the in-laws heard that their son and Yan Ni were divorced, they were very angry.
Zou Wei's father scolded his son: I don't know what to do, I treat marriage as a child's play, such a good daughter-in-law is equivalent to losing a treasure.
The mother shed tears and asked her son: Is there no room for redemption? Zou Wei whispered: Both parties jointly decided to divorce!
When Yan Ni left, her mother-in-law was very reluctant and sent her with tears. Yan Ni also tearfully said goodbye to her in-laws.
A few days later, Yan Ni went to her ex-in-laws' house to pick up her daughter and take her home, and the ex-in-laws warmly welcomed her.
Zou Wei's mother talked to Yan Ni: Ni, is it impossible for you and Xiao Wei? You got to this point, and I and the child her grandfather did not think that there was friction between husband and wife normal.
Yan Ni was afraid that her in-laws would be sad, and did not directly give a positive answer, saying:
Mom and Dad, thank you for taking care of you, or depend on fate.
The former in-laws said with tears in their eyes:
I can't wait for you to leave our house.
It just so happened that her daughter proposed to live with her grandparents, and Yan Ni continued to let her daughter Zou Yuanqing be taken care of by them, and she was also at ease.
The former mother-in-law was ecstatic and said to Yan Ni:
You put a hundred hearts, Yuan Yuan followed us absolutely raised white fat fat.
It just so happened that during that time, Yan Ni was filming "The Legend of Wulin", coupled with a bad mood for divorce, and did not have the energy to take care of her daughter.
As long as Yan Ni was not busy filming, she would go to her in-laws' house to see her daughter.
Sometimes, Yan Ni will also take her daughter to her side, and before entering the group, she will send her daughter back to her former in-laws' home.
Although Yan Ni spends very little time with her daughter, the daughter taken care of by her former in-laws is excellent, not only understanding things, but also learning a skill.
In the granddaughter, the ex-in-laws did their best to contribute money.
The old two are retired, there is a retirement salary, Yan Ni will still take the initiative to give money to the in-laws, saying that it is the living expenses of the daughter, in fact, let them spend.
The ex-in-laws said they didn't want anything: me
We have money, Yuan Yuan is our granddaughter, what's wrong with spending money on her?
Yan Ni was unable to do anything about them, and could only subsidize them more in ordinary times.
She often buys fruits, pastries, etc. for the elderly couple, and buys her mother-in-law's favorite scarf. Sometimes she will take the initiative to pay the living expenses,
Treat your ex-in-laws like your biological parents.
The former in-laws even regarded Yan Ni as a daughter-in-law, although she divorced her son, but her love for her has not changed.
Every time she went to her ex-in-laws' house, Yan Ni only needed to sit and rest, and the old two were busy before and after. She offered to help, and the ex-in-laws would stop her.
Once before leaving home, the former in-laws made salted duck eggs for Yan Ni, and she went to the crew to share them with colleagues, saying that they were delicious and asked where to buy them.
She said the granddaughter grandma did. Colleagues were surprised to ask, they are divorced, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is still so good.
Yan Ni said that the old couple is very kind and respects me, and I also respect them.
In 2008, Zou Wei met the object of his heart again, breaking the idea that his parents wanted him to reunite with Yan Ni.
When Yan Ni went to see her daughter, her ex-in-laws had a deep exchange with her.
The former mother-in-law told Yan Ni: Zou
Wei has a new object, you are no longer the daughter-in-law of our family, we will take you as our own daughter.
Yan Ni was very touched to hear this and said:
I am your daughter, and I will always be.
Zou Yuanqing continued to be cared for by his grandparents, and their relationship with Yan Ni only increased, as if Zou Wei was an outsider in this family.
After Zou Wei and Yan Ni divorced, their feelings rose from friends to relatives.
Outside, yan ni wants to encounter something, will take the initiative to call her ex-husband, need his help will be the first time to arrive.
Once, Yan Ni encountered a scam phone call.
The other end of the phone said that you are suspected of violating the law, you need to go to the public security bureau to deal with it, go to the bank, otherwise restrict the exit ...
Yan Ni was frightened when she heard it, she didn't do anything, how to break the law.
Besides, she couldn't leave when she had something to do, and Yan Ni remembered her ex-husband Zou Wei, who worked in the public security bureau, and just let him go to see what the situation was.
Yan Ni called Zou Wei and briefly said what she had just experienced.
Zou Wei told her directly: It's a scam call, you don't have to care, leave it to me to deal with. Yan Ni was relieved to hear this.
Zou Wei usually takes his daughter to play in various places, accompanies her to interest classes, and is keen to do anything for her daughter.
Regarding the matter of their daughter, Zou Wei and Yan Ni will discuss and make a decision together.
In 2011, 13-year-old Zou Yuanqing was in adolescence, began to rebel, did not listen carefully to lectures in class, plummeted in academic performance, and had the idea of not wanting to go to school.
Zou Yuanqing told her parents that she was rejected, and she told Yan Ni: I want to study abroad. Yan Ni directly refused.
She told her grandparents and dad to hear the same answer.
Zou Yuanqing and her mother Yan Ni softly grind hard bubbles, she finally let go. Seeing that the child's mother has agreed, the grandparents can only compromise.
My granddaughter grew up with her own side, and she has not been away for such a long time.
Yan Ni told the old two: You can rest assured, I can definitely arrange yuan yuan, and nothing will happen.
Yuan Yuan also told his grandparents that he would often talk to them on the phone.
Yan Ni and Zou Wei both have their own careers in China, and there is no way to accompany their daughters to study in the United States.
13-year-old Zou Yuanqing left his hometown alone, how can parents rest assured.
Yan Ni asked for help from friends, personally sent her daughter to the locality, and after settling down, she returned to China.
Because Yan Ni often filmed, she did not have much time to fly to the United States to see her daughter, so she asked her ex-husband to fly more to the United States to accompany her daughter.
Zou Wei basically went to see his daughter as long as he had time.
In 2014, Zou Wei's parents were over 70 years old, and their health was not as good as a day. Yan Ni is fine, she will go to visit the old man' home.
This time it was not her ex-in-laws who entertained her, but she cooked for her ex-in-laws.
The old couple did not expect that the granddaughter was not by their side, and Yan Ni had not changed. Yan Ni said:
I am your daughter, how can the relationship change?
The ex-in-laws' hearts were warm.
The daughter who is far away in the United States, hears that her grandparents are not in good health, and tells her mother that she wants to return to China. Yan Ni agreed without saying a word.
After returning to China, Yan Ni took her daughter to visit her grandparents first, and they were happy like children.
When the grandparents were older, Yan Ni let her daughter live by her side, and as long as she had time, she would go home with her daughter to visit them.
In the past few years of studying in the United States, Zou Yuanqing has left many courses. In order to successfully participate in the college entrance examination, Yan Ni found a closed school for her daughter to study.
Grandparents are worried that their granddaughter will not eat well or dress warmly at school, and often make meals to bring meals to her granddaughters.
Sometimes, Zou Yuanqing wants to rest at home during the holidays. Grandparents will call Yan Ni, make you the most favorite food, and quickly eat it with Yuan Yuan.
Yan Ni quickly pulled her daughter to the ex-in-laws' house to eat and play for a while, and her granddaughter had to go back to school.
Grandparents do not give up, Yan Ni will say, soon see again.
In 2016, Zou Yuanqing listened to his mother Yan Ni's words and applied for the double degree class of film and television acting at the Central Academy of Drama.
She successfully got the acceptance letter with excellent results and quickly told her grandparents as soon as possible.
Grandma cried excitedly, Grandpa was overwhelmed with emotions, his blood pressure soared, and his family was frightened when they saw it, but it was okay.
The next year, Yan Ni's ex-mother-in-law fell ill and was hospitalized, and when she heard the news, she put down her work and rushed to the hospital.
Basically, as long as she is free, Yan Ni will go to the hospital to take care of her ex-mother-in-law.
The former mother-in-law was moved to tears and told Yan Ni:
It is my son who is not blessed, and hopes that we can be our own daughters in the next life.
Yan Ni said:
You've always been my mom.
After that, Yan Ni went to visit her ex-in-laws at every turn.
Zou Yuanqing has a mother who is an actor, and he went out to shoot dramas in his freshman year, cooperating with Chen Feiyu and others in "Secret Fruit".
As long as Yan Ni has the right opportunity, she will bring her daughter with her when filming, and even shoot a work about mother and daughter, "I Am Your Mother".
With the support of Yan Ni, her daughter Zou Yuanqing has developed smoothly in the show business circle.
Once, Yan Ni went to visit her ex-in-laws and talked with her about marriage.
The former mother-in-law said: You are also old and not small, your daughters are grown up and have their own lives, you should also consider your own affairs.
Before, the mother-in-law had spoken to Yan Ni many times about this topic, but she said every time:
No fate, no encounter with the right one.
In the heart of the mother-in-law, Yan Ni was regarded as her own daughter.
The mother-in-law's wish is to see Yan Ni remarry with her own eyes, and wants to marry her beautiful scenery. Yan Ni's eyes were moist when she heard this.
Zou Yuanqing also often urges his mother to find his own happiness and not to seek perfection for his daughter.
In the face of marriage events, Yan Ni also considered that after entering the entertainment industry for so many years, she has not encountered the right one.
She loves her daughter, loves her ex-in-laws, and is already content and happy.
It is said that the "mother-in-law relationship" is an eternal problem, and such a thing does not exist in Yan Ni and her mother-in-law.
They are not biological daughters, but like biological daughters.
Especially after the divorce, there is no need to continue to get along with the ex-in-laws. But Yan Ni couldn't bear the discomfort of the old two and continued to treat them sincerely.
The former in-laws still treat the former daughter-in-law the same as their own daughters, and even have deeper feelings.
It is Yan Ni who loves her in-laws from the bottom of her heart, and it is yan ni who loves and cares for Yan Ni from the bottom of her heart, which is the result of the joint operation of both sides.
Yan Ni's mind is broad and broad, so that she can get a harmonious and good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Giving wholeheartedly will be exchanged for sincere returns.