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In 2006, Yan Ni NG, who was filming "The Legend of Wulin", went to several times and could not find her state.
Director Shang Jing hates the rebuke of iron not steel:
"Wouldn't you just get divorced?" As for? ”
Hearing these words, Yan Ni suddenly broke down and cried.
After finishing the work, Shang Jing, who was not at ease, ran to Yan Ni and secretly said:
"If you can't sleep at night, eat something stable"
Is Yan Ni's collapse just because "divorce" is so simple?
What kind of story happened to her?
Workers come from a family, but have a fiery "literary and artistic dream"
Yan Ni was born in 1971 to a working-class family in Shaanxi Province, and she was the most beloved young daughter of her family.
Nourished by "love", Yan Ni has developed a lively and smiling personality from an early age, and at the same time, her family has found that she is also interested in literature and art.
Little Yan Ni likes to imitate adults talking, and she is very clever.
At the age of 15, Yan Ni's family and Xi'an Film Studio became neighbors, and yan Ni's determination to "follow the arts" was even more determined.
Some students suggested that Yan Ni apply for film school, but Yan Ni started to retreat:
"Can I do it?"
The classmate patted his chest and assured:
"You can, rest assured, I'll ask a tutor at home"
Although she accidentally failed to apply for film school this time, it ignited her film and television dreams even more fiercely.
In 1988, at the strong request of her family, Yan Ni applied for another finance and economics college, and her parents very much hoped that she would be able to work as a white-collar worker in the future.
But fate doomed Yan Ni to have no chance with the "white collar"!
In 1990, a drama troupe from Lanzhou came to Xi'an to enroll, and this time she was successfully selected.
But Yan Ni, who entered the drama troupe, did not do as she wished, all of them were heroines, and she was like a piece of "scraps", matching other actors again and again.
In 1996, Yan Ni, who was in the repertory theatre, had been running the dragon set for 6 years.
The career is not satisfactory, and the emotions have to grow, so the parents begin to worry about her marriage.
Under the introduction of the matchmaker, Yan Ni met Zou Wei, who was originally a soldier and later worked in the public security, and the two gradually developed a romantic relationship, and soon after registered for marriage.
In 1998, the daughter of the two was born on New Year's Day, and they named her "Zou Yuanqing" and her nickname "Yuan Yuan".
Her husband, Zou Wei, has more than once proposed that he wants her to take care of her daughter at home, but Yan Ni still has no idea of giving up her career.
At this time, the in-laws stood up:
"You are all assured to go to work, we will take care of Yuan Yuan"
In-laws are retired cadres, they are willing to take care of their daughters, Yan Ni is very assured, with the support of her in-laws, Yan Ni is more motivated to work hard.
In 1999, Yan Ni acted in "Rooster Crowing, Hen Laying Eggs", and she wanted to be the protagonist, she also ran to the leader to take the initiative to play the role, but the heroine had already been fixed, and before the shooting began, the heroine had an accident, and Yan Ni came up.
It is precisely because of this drama that Yan Ni met her own "Bo Le" and the director "Shang Jing".
Shang Jing invited her to make a cameo appearance in "The Story of the Cooking Class"
In 2003, he starred in "Health Express"
At the same time as the career gradually started, Yan Ni's marriage lit up the "red light".
Husband Zou Wei's work is very busy, so he hopes that his wife can be a woman who takes care of her family and children, but Yan Ni is a "career fanatic".
Often in order to shoot for several months without home, after the end of work is already late at night, the two rarely talk.
After a while, the relationship between the two became very awkward, and when they were at home, they were silent.
On a very ordinary day, Zou Wei called Yan Ni as usual:
"Yan Ni"
Yan Ni looked up at him.
Zou Wei went on to say:
"Let's get a divorce"
The tone was as natural as saying "the weather is so good", but Yan Ni felt that "five thunderbolts were booming", and she never felt that she would be divorced one day.
But Zou Wei is always a person who "says one thing and not two", and Yan Ni knows that he is not joking.
It is obviously impossible for two people who love their work to give up their careers and return to their families, and there are irreconcilable contradictions between the two.
When her mother-in-law, who had always loved Yan Ni, learned of this, she was so angry that she scolded her son Zou Wei:
"Divorced from Yan Ni, you will regret it for the rest of your life, you lost a treasure"
Yan Ni dissuaded her mother-in-law and said:
"It's okay, Mom, even if we are divorced, we are still a family"
After the two filed for divorce, the child was sentenced to Yan Ni to raise.
But Yan Ni was busy at work and did not have much time to take care of her daughter, so her in-laws offered to help take care of her, and her daughter also said that she would accompany her grandparents.
After receiving the divorce certificate, Yan Ni went back to Zou Wei's residence to pack her bags, and her mother-in-law took her hand and tearfully looked at her:
"Child, you must take care of yourself when you are out alone, if there is anything to call and say at home, everyone will find a way to solve it together"
Yan Ni's eyes were also sour, and her mother-in-law gave her a long way.
Yan Ni, who returned to her residence, received a "discharge notice" from the regiment, and Yan Ni collapsed and cried.
But soon she received good news!
"Frustrated in love, proud of career" Yan Ni was on fire after divorce
In 2005, Yan Ni again received an invitation from director Shang Jing to star in "The Legend of Wulin" as Jin Zhiyu.
Yan Ni asked:
"Is it the heroine?"
Yan Ni, who later participated in the interview, said: At that time, I wanted to play a heroine.
Shang Jing told her:
"Of course, and Tong Xiangyu is aimed at the gold inlaid jade in "Dragon Gate Dart Game", you act well, if the drama is on fire, you are also on fire"
But Yan Ni, who has just been divorced, is difficult to enter the state of "Tong Xiangyu".
After the director's encouragement and her own adjustment, Yan Ni combined her own characteristics and set up a "Shaanxi accent" for "Tong Xiangyu".
The drama is really as director Shang Jing said, once it was broadcast, it became popular all over the country, and Yan Ni's "Tong Treasurer" also became one of her masterpieces.
Yan Ni, who won a brief victory in her career, returned home with a large bag of gifts to visit her in-laws and daughter.
The mother-in-law loves beauty and likes silk scarves, so Yan Ni went to the store and chose many for her.
The father-in-law loves to drink tea, and Yan Ni bought him a lot of expensive tea leaves.
She was afraid that they would not collect money for the elderly alone, so she gave the "in-laws" a lot of money in the name of her daughter's living expenses.
The in-laws said vigorously:
"Can't use so much, kid"
Yan Ni had to answer:
"The rest is for you, Parents, you must also ensure more body, only if you are in good health, can you take good care of Yuan yuan, I am more at ease when I am outside."
Yan Ni loves to eat salted duck eggs, and her mother-in-law pickled a lot and let her bring it to the crew to share with colleagues, and colleagues have lamented Yan Ni's "former mother-in-law is good".
When Yan Ni came to visit again, the mother-in-law took his hand and quietly asked:
"Child, you tell me the truth, can you two still get married?"
Yan Ni knew that "it is difficult to harvest the water", but in order to make the old man feel less sad, she had to answer ambiguously:
"Later, later."
But an incident that happened not long after made the old man completely disappointed!
The biological daughter of the "ex-in-laws" and the "ex-husband" who remarried are good friends
In 2010, Zou Wei met someone who wanted to work together again for a lifetime.
The mother-in-law was very sorry for Yan Ni and her son, but Yan Ni hugged her mother-in-law and said:
"If I can't be a daughter-in-law, I'll be your second daughter-
The old man said:
"Child, we call this a fate, the daughter-in-law relationship is broken, the daughter-in-law relationship continues"
Yan Ni treated the old man as usual, buying them clothes, taking them to dinner, and sending them some specialties from time to time.
After the divorce, Yan Ni and her ex-husband got along like friends.
Once Yan Ni received a phone call, the other party asked her to make a large transfer, otherwise it would be handed over to the public security organs.
Yan Ni, who did not know what to do, had to call her ex-husband Zou Wei, who told her:
"You don't have to care, this is a scam call, I'll deal with it"
Yan Ni said on the show:
"After so many years, we have long been like relatives and never quarrel in front of our children."
If something happens to the other person, they will also care about each other and greet each other as "friends".
Zou Wei lived a very happy life after marriage, and after a long time, the old man's obsession with his son and Yan Ni was slowly put down.
When I see Yan Ni again, my mother-in-law will also "urge marriage":
"If you meet the right one outside, just take a step forward, don't think about the outside thoughts, Yuan Yuan will also understand, you honestly tell me, is there a suitable one?"
Yan Ni replied with a smile:
"Mom, why are you so gossipy!"
The "mother and daughter" who are no longer mother-in-law and daughter-in-law laugh together, and the relationship seems to be more intimate than when they are "mother-in-law".
Regarding the education of his daughter Yuanyuan, Zou Wei and his parents also respect Yan Ni's ideas.
In his daughter's cram school, Zou Wei would seek Yan Ni's opinion in advance.
The rebellious daughter was admitted to the drama school, and the in-laws excitedly "raised blood pressure"
In 2011, Yan Ni's daughter Zou Yuanqing began her rebellious period.
Not good to listen to the lecture, skipping school at every turn, Yan Ni and the old man are very worried, just at this time Zou Yuanqing proposed to go abroad to study, Yan Ni had to agree.
Afraid that the old man is not at ease, Yan Ni also communicated with them specifically:
"Mommy and Daddy, you can rest assured, Yuanyuan is such a big person, he can definitely take care of himself, and I have friends abroad, they can also take care of Yuanyuan."
The old man is still not at ease:
"After all, it is not with us, can it be done?"
Yan Ni continued to comfort the old man:
"Rest assured, just to exercise her self-care ability, and during the winter and summer vacations, we can also go abroad to see her, and we can also travel by the way, killing two birds with one stone."
The old man no longer said anything, even if the daughter was no longer with her grandparents, Yan Ni still had time to visit at home.
Although she knew that the old man did not lack anything, she still carried a lot of gifts with her every time she went.
The daughter's grandmother said to her:
"Yuan Yuan is not here now, you are so busy, don't come later"
Yan Ni replied:
"Mom, I came to see you and Dad."
Zou Yuanqing, who studied alone abroad, also gradually became sensible, and as she grew older, she became more and more concerned about her elderly grandparents, so she put forward the idea of returning to China to study in the third year of high school.
Yan Ni found a school for her daughter again, the school time is very tight, Zou Yuanqing will get up before six o'clock to read early, and at night she will pick up the lights and fight until 11 o'clock.
There is only half a day of vacation a week, and every time when the holiday comes, Zou Yuanqing's grandparents will make a large table of dishes in advance, cook soup, set up bowls and chopsticks, and deliberately put the favorite dishes of the mother and daughter in front of them, waiting for Yan Ni and Zou Yuanqing to come back to eat.
Zou Yuanqing said happily:
"When I was abroad and at school, I was most worried about my grandparents' craftsmanship, which was so fragrant."
The old man smiled happily as he gave the mother and daughter a dish.
In 2016, Zou Yuanqing was admitted to the drama academy, and the family was excited.
When Yan Ni went on the show, she restored the scene at that time: Grandpa happily said that her blood pressure was a little high, and Grandma also cried with joy.
At the family banquet, Yan Ni held a wine glass to pay tribute to her former in-laws:
"Mom and Dad, without you there would be no Yuan Yuan today, it is you who raised and cultivated yuan yuan"
She said more than once that she was very grateful to her child's grandparents!
The old man also raised his glass:
"Child, I also want to thank you, for so many years like a biological daughter to honor us"
This special big family, the wine glasses touched together, overflowing are strong family affection!
Looking back at Yan Ni's marriage, it seems unfortunate that her husband filed for divorce when she was completely unprepared!
But Yan Ni's marriage is also lucky, not only harvesting a smart and clever daughter, but also gaining a pair of loving parents, and even having one more friend who can help at a critical moment!
Yan Ni relied on a sincere heart to reunite the family that had been scattered, and interpreted a different kind of family affection.
Some people say that the actor Yan Ni is very confused, in addition to acting is the state of "fainting", but Yan Ni is the most awake one.
She knows that "sincerity" can be exchanged for "sincerity", and after her divorce, she treats her ex-in-laws as "biological parents" and honors her, and her former in-laws will also treat her as a "daughter" to hurt.
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